Love without relationship

[FahraynkParticipant 67]

The more I read and learn about MGTOW, the more I hear of other stories that sound so similar to mine. Women, tearing out men’s hearts because they got “bored”… like we are there to entertain them. I used to think marriage would be about a warm loving home and not like im getting an entertainment center. How can men compete with television and loud music to entertain a women ? Sometimes a video game IS better then sex. As technology progresses… a lot of things will be better then sex.

I never thought a girl would entertain me. I never thought a women would be perfect. My blue pill self simply believed love was voodoo magic. Once I became atheist, then quickly magical love also went out the door.

Is it the feeling of comfort, friendliness, trust and security…Or is it the lack of searching for those things and thinking you’ve found them that makes you feel good? Sort of why I think religion makes people feel good, because they stop worrying by replacing those worrying thoughts with : Because God. The lack of worry feels great. The lack of searching for love feels great also. Maybe love is really the lack of searching for love. Kind of a stupid trick.

Anyway yeah, thoughts on love ? The actual feeling. Self love, being in love, ect. Is it real ? I read relationships kill love. That love is like the wind, if your windows are open it blows in… but if you try to close the windows to trap the wind inside, the wind immediately dies. A relationship is like closing the window. Putting society’s rules on the wind.

[HitmanParticipant]

key is relationship without love …..dump your nuts and see ya in a few days ! love isn’t real at all…just mind games ..it’s a TRAP for men …the woman will use the courts and police to make SURE she wins ! just get a FWB….lots of horny women in careers too busy for relationships ,…just wanna f~~~ ..thats what women are for anyway .

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Fahraynk wrote:

The more I read and learn about MGTOW, the more I hear of other stories that sound so similar to mine. Women, tearing out men’s hearts because they got “bored”… like we are there to entertain them. I used to think marriage would be about a warm loving home and not like im getting an entertainment center. How can men compete with television and loud music to entertain a women ? Sometimes a video game IS better then sex. As technology progresses… a lot of things will be better then sex.

I never thought a girl would entertain me. I never thought a women would be perfect. My blue pill self simply believed love was voodoo magic. Once I became atheist, then quickly magical love also went out the door.

Is it the feeling of comfort, friendliness, trust and security…Or is it the lack of searching for those things and thinking you’ve found them that makes you feel good? Sort of why I think religion makes people feel good, because they stop worrying by replacing those worrying thoughts with : Because God. The lack of worry feels great. The lack of searching for love feels great also. Maybe love is really the lack of searching for love. Kind of a stupid trick.

Anyway yeah, thoughts on love ? The actual feeling. Self love, being in love, ect. Is it real ? I read relationships kill love. That love is like the wind, if your windows are open it blows in… but if you try to close the windows to trap the wind inside, the wind immediately dies. A relationship is like closing the window. Putting society’s rules on the wind.

Love is an extreme form of infatuation the temporarily paralyzes your prefrontal cortex.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

After reading into MGTOW for some time I came to believe “love” is just a temporary chemical imbalance in the brain that disables logic. (f~~~ u mother nature).

After a couple of months its just the same old story, an exchange: sex for resources. Basically some form of manipulation, pussy is overvalued.

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

Oh when I was young I thought a lot about “love” and over the years here’s what I found out:

“Love” is just chemicals like oxytocin and s~~~. Lasts 1-2 years at most. Just long enough to oops came inside.

When you really observe things, you see that it’s all just about power, survival, and dependence.

Man has money(power), and woman sees Man as having “survival value”. Man #2 comes along with a tiny bit more “survival value”, and you come home from work just in time to see her sucking him off.

They wrap up their (temporary) dependence on you in a nice pretty box called “love”, and all it costs is your soul.

THE REMEDY: Go onto youjizz.com immediately and jerk off. Once that’s out of the way, start thinking as LOGICALLY as possible. Make lots of money so you can afford to be an asshole to everyone, and so that no other man can tell you what to do.

Make LIFE your video game. Learn how to program so you can cast spells in real life. Instead of collecting points, collect assets and become a KING in the real world. String sluts along here and there or just rent-a-hole. “Love” was made up by Walt Disney…

Not my property... Not my problem

[FahraynkParticipant 67]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

Love is an extreme form of infatuation the temporarily paralyzes your prefrontal cortex.

Hahahaha. Truth. Yeah. From evolutionary psychology perspective it makes sense for us to get completely infatuated by them for long enough time to make a baby. I guess resources were probably scarce throughout human history so you would have to be illogical to have a baby back in the pre-agricultural era as well! For men and women you have to be crazy, but you would have to be ESPECIALLY crazy as a women because of the amount of resources you have to give up to have a baby.

So I guess that would explain why they act crazier then men.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Love…it’s in the dictionary between like and lust.

[RoyDalParticipant]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

After reading into MGTOW for some time I came to believe “love” is just a temporary chemical imbalance in the brain that disables logic. (f~~~ u mother nature).

After a couple of months its just the same old story, an exchange: sex for resources. Basically some form of manipulation, pussy is overvalued.

I agree: Love is nothing but chemicals designed to propagate the species. All this romantic comedy w/ happy ending stuff is cultural window dressing. It is an afterthought to justify our base instincts.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

The whole love thing is not what it lives up to be. Females, ALL Females put their best foot forward, then afterwards the TRUE person comes out. It’s just a matter of time, they suck, f~~~ 9 ways till Sunday, however after a ring is on their finger, the claws come out and the REAL Monster that has been hiding during the “Honeymoon Phase” materializes and stays permanently. That’s the bitch and the ONLY bitch A Married Man knows.

Believe You Me, I know this. Was married to a fun loving, spontaneous, amazing sexy Female during our dating years, however shortly after we got married, The real bitch manifested, and soon the verbal and physical abuse on Me as well as alcoholism, being a slutty whore, and a lying sack of s~~~ was a permanent thing. So yeah think if it like this, Sirens are these sexy, beautifully voiced creatures that promise amazing sex, every desire come true, the reality, they want to rip your f~~~ing head off and devour your body alive as they laugh at you slowly dying. Same can be said about a Female.

Harsh but true.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Anonymous 18]

Fahraynk wrote:

Is it the feeling of comfort, friendliness, trust and security…Or is it the lack of searching for those things and thinking you’ve found them that makes you feel good?

It is a result of seeing married couples or divorced or remarried ones while growing up. Concurrently we have media and songs that put prime emphasis on sex without outrightly saying like it. It’s more effective to create a mystery around it. Why else do you think we are shown people’s brain and guts on prime time tv but not a man and woman f~~~ing? Porn and Internet have changed the canvas in past decade though.

The desire to be in a relationship is unnatural and fabricated by our social networking. The desire to f~~~ is natural. Women f~~~ more and have been for a long time. Men are called rapists for having same sexual desires. Because we are tied to this belief that women don’t want sex as much we jump at the opportunity to f~~~. Men appear more sex starved. And ready.

That’s also a fabrication of gynocentric society. Keeping women in demand. Women want the best dick they can get so they act virtuous to less appealing dicks as they deny him the vag rub. In reality alpha cum may still me dripping wet when she is sipping her coffee in a corner seemingly uninterested in the beta across her.

Sexual behavior is tied to demand. Men will not be so ready to f~~~ any woman either if they had many options. They’d be turning a lot of women down. For these women the man now has “character” but he may still be sleeping with a lot of women of his choosing. Why else do men not respect easy women? It makes us all feel in demand. We assume she’d just f~~~ us because she’s a slut. It drives the interest meter down.

Fahraynk wrote:

Anyway yeah, thoughts on love ? The actual feeling. Self love, being in love, ect. Is it real ?

Love is the one of the most selfish aspects we men delude ourselves in believing. We believe we are being loved in return. Same love as we give to women. It makes men happy.

In reality it is loving the idea of same caliber feelings as our own being reciprocated from a woman.

Women can’t love a man. She can only love her offspring the way a man loves a woman. She loves a man for what he can do for her and her children.

Once a man understands this simple dynamic, the love psychosis is self-limiting and resolves in timely fashion.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

Snake wrote:

Love…it’s in the dictionary between like and lust.

And in the same dictionary the words marriage, pregnancy, and trap follow.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[FahraynkParticipant 67]

hmm… What about love of say, your pet ? Any thoughts ?

[FahraynkParticipant 67]

Nvm I just realized if my neighbor fed my cat better food my cat would probably leave me come to think of it.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’ve been wondering lately if I believe in love at all. I think I do, but certainly not in the love we are sold. For me, the question starts with who do I love? My kids without a doubt, my family to a lesser extent. That’s partly because I know them so well, partly because they are my responsibility, partly because it’s a reflection on me, they are blood. If I’m honest, I think I felt the same for my ex-wife. The commitment mattered tremendously. There were no conditions to it. I may have acted selfish at times and not been the best husband, but it changed the love I had.

My father died pretty close to the same time my ex wanted a separation. The loss of both were actually very similar. I honestly felt as if my wife had died, since she effectively was no longer there.

So yes, I believe in love, but the not the puppy dog selfish kinda love that we’re sold today. And I’m not sure I’ll ever commit to loving an adult female again. Partially because I haven’t met another women where I wanted to make that commitment, but mostly because I doubt that she would make a commitment in turn and actually mean it.

Ok. Then do it.

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