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What is the benefit of love?
Why do I need to love?
Where love come from?
How love is created?
There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.
I think love is for fools and relationships are for simps.
I used to be stupid enough to invest all my affections in someone with the hope they would at least like me. I was wrong.
Romantic love is a hormonal imbalance. Family love is more about obligation and being used to each other. You wouldn’t hang out with more relatives which are, face it, a bunch of others that share some man’s spooge. Most don’t “love” too many relatives.
I don’t love my fellow man anymore. Women are out to screw you at every single turn. Men are worse.
I trust in my self and my retirement. It means that as long as I have learned to become centered within myself and have financial security, I am happy.
I have gone my own way and need no one.
Now there are many things I like. Like posting here at mgtow.
#icethemout
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
What is the benefit of love?
Health benefits. People with pets live much longer. A lack of love usually shortens one’s life span.
Why do I need to love?
This is like asking why a flower needs sun light.
Where love come from?
From various parts of a person’s being. From the heart or soul. From within one’s self. Or others. Spend some time around kids. You will see where love comes from. The same place that joy and wonder arise from.
How love is created?
It just grows or develops. Other times it is spontaneous when someone needs help or is in danger.
I think love is for fools and relationships are for simps.
There are many other forms of love outside of the romantic model.
Romantic love is a hormonal imbalance. Family love is more about obligation and being used to each other. You wouldn’t hang out with more relatives which are, face it, a bunch of others that share some man’s spooge. Most don’t “love” too many relatives.
Agree with you about relatives. They are very hard to love.
I don’t love my fellow man anymore. Women are out to screw you at every single turn. Men are worse.
I have not given up on my fellow man. Even if I get nothing in return for helping someone, if the impulse is there I do what I can to help others.
Depending on a person’s point of view that can seem foolish or pointless. To me its in my nature. Now I am more selective as I get older. But thank God I have not lost touch with the goodness that I was born with.
I try to remember who I was when I was a child. The goodness I came into this world with.
That’s just me. So many different personalities and variations in terms of family environment and history. Relationships. Societal pressures and conditioning. That in the end what remains could be very far from the pure being we used to be as children.
Some days I am able to connect to that part of me that is good. Other times I can be angry or resentful towards things from my past. I do what I can. To each his own.
My point was that love is in important aspect of the human psyche. Soul. The anatomy of Spirit. That is my subjective point of view. Not an imposition on anyone’s free choice to live as what suits them best.
Just my 2 cents.
“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”
Anonymous38The sucker is the person who allows his heart and soul to die. To become hallow and empty. Ending up in nihilistic hell.
It’s a choice. Harmony and balance are universal forces. When we step away from those things we suffer.
A person barren and stripped of any capacity to love is the walking dead.
Go to a pet store or shelter and play with some puppies. Spend some time around kids. They can rekindle our hope for humanity. Children are proof that good exists. And that there is always hope.
There will always be love in people’s hearts and souls. Even if many lose touch with that part of themselves. And even that is not lost. Just buried. Suppressed.
It’s there. Just need to reconnect with it.
Stentorian you put my true thoughts into eloquent words.
Anonymous5Sorry sucker, nothing grows in the alkali pit of society we have today!
The sucker is the person who allows his heart and soul to die. To become hallow and empty. Ending up in nihilistic hell.
It’s a choice. Harmony and balance are universal forces. When we step away from those things we suffer.
A person barren and stripped of any capacity to love is the walking dead.
Go to a pet store or shelter and play with some puppies. Spend some time around kids. They can rekindle our hope for humanity. Children are proof that good exists. And that there is always hope.
There will always be love in people’s hearts and souls. Even if many lose touch with that part of themselves. And even that is not lost. Just buried. Suppressed.
It’s there. Just need to reconnect with it.
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Spare us your bulls~~~ about love, and harmony.
This is a cold world, where warm love doesn’t exist.
The only thing that matters is money.
Stentorian you put my true thoughts into eloquent words.
Thank you mgtow_toaist. You did the same in your OP. Unfortunately you will find that most here are either atheists or full on nihilists. So your sentiments or my own mean next to nothing to them.
Still one should endeavor to speak their truth. Even if those of us who cultivate our inner being towards love and harmony are met with skepticism and indifference. They are merely voicing their internal state.
And that is entirely their choice. As is mine to live as I do.
Spare us your bulls~~~ about love, and harmony.
This is a cold world, where warm love doesn’t exist.
The only thing that matters is money.
Yeah ok buddy. Money is all that matters. Write that on your f~~~ing tombstone. One oversight you may wish to consider is that you can’t take your money with you when you go. So it has definite limits.
I’d cite the meaning of impermanence. But something tells me it would fly right over your head.
As for sparing you. Don’t read what I write if you don’t happen to like it. But don’t bitch and moan about my having a point of view.
“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”
Anonymous5Stentorian you put my true thoughts into eloquent words.
Thank you mgtow_toaist. You did the same in your OP. Unfortunately you will find that most here are either atheists or full on nihilists. So your sentiments or my own mean next to nothing to them.
Still one should endeavor to speak their truth. Even if those of us who cultivate our inner being towards love and harmony are met with skepticism and indifference. They are merely voicing their internal state.
And that is entirely their choice. As is mine to live as I do.
Spare us your bulls~~~ about love, and harmony.
This is a cold world, where warm love doesn’t exist.
The only thing that matters is money.
Yeah ok buddy. Money is all that matters. Write that on your f~~~ing tombstone. One oversight you may wish to consider is that you can’t take your money with you when you go. So it has definite limits.
I’d cite the meaning of impermanence. But something tells me it would fly right over your head.
As for sparing you. Don’t read what I write if you don’t happen to like it. But don’t bitch and moan about my having a point of view.
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What about love? Can I take that bulls~~~ to my grave too? LMFAO!
Family, love, and that horses~~~ that comes with them doesn’t matter once your dead.
I don’t give a f~~~ about the next person, I only care about myself.
Anonymous42It’s a choice. Harmony and balance are universal forces. When we step away from those things we suffer.
When we step toward new newfangled harmony and balance there’s the need to kill one another. Welcome to mousetopia!
Children are proof that good exists. And that there is always hope.
What children? Not only has the family been rubbed out they sacrificed untold millions butchered, dismembered, torn apart, and sold as human butchery for deranged medical experiments!
Joseph Gerbils, v.2.0, Cultural Feminazi Marxists trading in human body parts.
And we’re the bad guys???
What about love? Can I take that bulls~~~ to my grave too? LMFAO!
Family, love, and that horses~~~ that comes with them doesn’t matter once your dead.
I don’t give a f~~~ about the next person, I only care about myself.
If family and love are horse s~~~. And you don’t give a f~~~ about the next person only yourself. Well then that makes you just one more self centered asshole who is actively contributing to the decline of our way of life.
But whatever. You’re not the 1st asshole in this world. The majority are people like you.
And it takes no degree of character or courage to have your outlook and state of mind. One of caring only for yourself.
That in no way will help the already worn out fabric of our society.
The answer to the crisis that faces the world today is not more assholes. But rather more compassion and caring for one another. As there is so much damage done.
But you live and think as you choose. Makes no difference to me. Just like my point of view should not really bother or disturb your selfish pursuits.
There is space for both. And plenty more.
“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”
Love is a made up word. Words describe objects, places things. Love is a word for an ildescribed emotion, vague in definition hence the truth be known. Weemins love purses, jewelers, Resources. How can this be love? Many confuse love with caring, empathy, generosity, association.
It’s just another combination of letters ment to confuse the space between black and white to surve a purpose at a given time without the chance or need for proof.
skip the cavernous vag and go your own way
When we step toward new newfangled harmony and balance there’s the need to kill one another. Welcome to mousetopia!
Does your nihilism bring you any joy, harmony or balance?
What children? Not only has the family been rubbed out they sacrificed untold millions butchered, dismembered, torn apart, and sold as human butchery for deranged medical experiments!
Joseph Gerbils, v.2.0, Cultural Feminazi Marxists trading in human body parts.
And we’re the bad guys???
Tower I’m not sure what you mean. Let’s say those things are true. Does this mean we give up on society and our fellow man. Or give up the fight for what is right and true?
F~~~ed up people do f~~~ed up things. That does not mean we simply roll over.
“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”
Anonymous5What about love? Can I take that bulls~~~ to my grave too? LMFAO!
Family, love, and that horses~~~ that comes with them doesn’t matter once your dead.
I don’t give a f~~~ about the next person, I only care about myself.
If family and love are horse s~~~. And you don’t give a f~~~ about the next person only yourself. Well then that makes you just one more self centered asshole who is actively contributing to the decline of our way of life.
But whatever. You’re not the 1st asshole in this world. The majority are people like you.
And it takes no degree of character or courage to have your outlook and state of mind. One of caring only for yourself.
That in no way will help the already worn out fabric of our society.
The answer to the crisis that faces the world today is not more assholes. But rather more compassion and caring for one another. As there is so much damage done.
But you live and think as you choose. Makes no difference to me. Just like my point of view should not really bother or disturb your selfish pursuits.
There is space for both. And plenty more.
I’ve never kill anyone, robbed, or stab. I’ve done wrong to none. But, I’m an asshole?! For trying to live my life for myself, and not for others?
Last time I checked, I don’t have any kids, so I owe nothing to nobody, but myself. Love is nothing, but an overused word. It have no meaning, and no purpose in our society.
Again, the only thing that matters to me is money. I can survive without love, but, can you survive without money?
Anonymous1Love:
I love clean water
I love fresh air and the forests that produce it
I love good tilled earth
I love a healthy nutritious meal
I work to maintain what I love because it loves me back. That is the only love I believe in.
What is “Love” anyways ?
Ask 10 different people, and you will get different answers.
The term is probably the most overused, and abused term in the English language.
The term has very little meaning. “I Love my NEW Shoes !!” , “I Love my New Hair Color”, “I Love my New Dildo”, “Honey, I Love You ”
They ALL Mean about the SAME.Right on! It is a nebulous term used here that has not been defined in the context of male-female interactions. The Greeks referred to it in terms of eros and agape.
Interesting post.
We all probably have different viewpoints on love.
I could be wrong, but I think scripture states that God is “agape” love. “Agape” is unconditional, not manipulative, and is concerned with others.
After the fall, man’s love became “phileo”, a different type of love. “Phileo” is conditional, often manipulative, and self-centered.A woman who claims to love you places conditions on her love. “I will love you as long as you are attractive, entertaining, and make enough money. But if you get sick, or lose your job, or become unattractive then I’m gone.”
I enjoy helping people, even though I don’t expect to be treated well in return, particularly by women.
If you want love, get a dog.
I’ve never kill anyone, robbed, or stab. I’ve done wrong to none. But, I’m an asshole?! For trying to live my life for myself, and not for others?
No, what makes a person an asshole is when they do not give a s~~~ about anyone outside themselves. Or call family or love horse s~~~.
Those were your words. Not mine. I simply put an appropriate label which corresponds to the words and meaning you put forth.
If you are unclear of the meaning of an asshole. But do not give a s~~~ about anyone outside yourself. And hold those views about love and family. Then perhaps you should give some thought as to what constitutes an asshole.
Some people have plenty of money but no love in their lives. Celebrities often have this problem. Survival and contentment are not the same thing. Joy. Happiness. These things cannot be purchased with money.
But if it does it for you. Keep on doing what works. For me, I happen to need both. I think both money and love are important. Friends. Family. Again, that is what is important to me. But this will vary person to person.
“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”
I could be wrong, but I think scripture states that God is “agape” love. “Agape” is unconditional, not manipulative, and is concerned with others.
After the fall, man’s love became “phileo”, a different type of love. “Phileo” is conditional, often manipulative, and self-centered.A woman who claims to love you places conditions on her love. “I will love you as long as you are attractive, entertaining, and make enough money. But if you get sick, or lose your job, or become unattractive then I’m gone.”
I would think most MGTOW would agree that the “love” you have outlined here that for a woman is more exploitation and manipulation. A parallel example could be give for men that is also exploitation and manipulation of the woman.
The point is that relationships based upon either exploitation and manipulation are excluded from a definition of love. Ever note that women write and talk about “relationships” much more often than men?
If you want love, get a dog.
I was waiting for that truth.
Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.
Anonymous42Does your nihilism bring you any joy, harmony or balance?
I’ve been on this battlefield we call life and far as I can tell it’s living hell out there! Cast not your pearls before the swine, especially when life itself has shown you as a matter of fact you now live on a modern pig farm. There is such a thing as hopeless and this society has pasted that mile-marker DECADES AGO!
Does this mean we give up on society and our fellow man.
Holdup, stop right there, who’s society? What fellow man? I’m dismembered from this society by standing law.
All the rules have been changed to create a living hell for anyone that thinks they can contribute anything good.
Good cannot seat itself in evil and there’s no seats left to be taken! Good itself has been forced into exile by the written letter of the law overthrown by this Cultural Marxist Revolution (woman’s liberation).
Liberated isn’t enough! They’ve returned to destroy that which they liberated themselves from, that being us, MEN! I’m all done fighting, let it implode.
Adam should have abandoned Eve to strike out on his own!
I know plenty of men that would trade yet another rib to get out of the deal they’ve been swindled in!Marriage is for gays, lesbians, transgenders, and women, IT’S THE WORST DEAL ON EARTH FOR A RIGHTEOUS MAN! Submit or go it alone? I CHOOSE GO IT ALONE!
give up the fight for what is right and true?
Sometimes the best way to fight is to abandon the fight and strike out on your own!
Let them slaughter one another while you live in relative peace and comfort.
If you want love, get a dog.
I loved my dog.
Then there were several other times where I was just plain mistaken.
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