[Looking for advice] How to deal with women in college classrooms

[MedicalScientistParticipant 159]

Good evening gentlemen… MedicalScientist here.

I’m looking for a way to deal with women and their stupidity because, I swear to god, I’m starting to lose my cool and I want to stay as calm as possible… I need help on this, any advice from any veteran??

So far, thanks god, I don’t talk with them but I hate it, when teachers force me to work with them in groups. I love working alone, because I can think more logically on my own rather than being with a women since all they do is ask for help and gossip.

Would you help a desperate young man?

"Never theorize before you have data. Invariably, you end up twisting facts to suit theories instead of theories to suit facts."

[TuneoutParticipant]

Well brother whenever I’ve had a work related situation that involved dealing with women I just grit my teeth,put on my best
‘nice guy’ poker face and am careful of what little comes out of my mouth!

Just politely help them if they ask,then block out all the hen
talk and concentrate on your education.

They’ll just see you as the ‘nice’ boring guy that doesn’t say much and leave you alone which is what you wanted!

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Keep your head down, and get through it. These wack job colleges will eat you alive if they detect a deviant (intelligent) thought. You must conform to their bizzaro world ideals. Get your degree and get gone.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[HitmanParticipant]

i guess i would tell you that if they keep asking you to help them,
maybe the teacher should be told ..
hey, if they need your help, they’re not learning as well as you..
rat them out.

[Anonymous 18]

Call that inner mangina out, smile and be agreeable. The more you resist and push them away the more they’d be drawn to you. To figure you out.

Don’t be a mystery. Don’t be an asshole. That makes women wet.

Be a genuine, nice guy. And they’d leave you alone.

For example: ‘Oh hey!! 😀 How was your weekend?’ ‘OMG!!! Tell me ’bout it?’ ‘No way, you did that?’ ‘Oh wow, just wow. Like MIIIINDDDD BLOWWWWWNNN. Awesome, you are!!’

[Anonymous 25]

If I start a new job I always subtly drop it into conversation that I have a girlfriend even if I don’t. A woman shared that tip with me for getting women in the office to leave me alone and she was right, it worked great.

Women will wonder why you don’t pay them any attention and get nasty if you don’t, if their little hamster brain can come up with a reason that preserves their vanity (like you have a girlfriend) they put it down to that and don’t get bitchy.

I don’t want a girlfriend, but if saying I have one gets women to go away and leave me alone, that’s fine by me.

[OldBillParticipant]

MedicalScientist wrote:

I need help on this, any advice from any veteran??

First, only deal with them when you absolutely must deal with them.

Second, when you cannot avoid them be polite, terse, and dismissive. Act and speak around them as you would around a rabid animal.

Third, when truly cornered “down them in cream”. Lie through your gritted teeth, staple a smile on your face, and escape as soon as you can.

Dealing with s~~~ty people and s~~~ty situations is part of life. It’s best you learn how to do both early in life.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

dont act as asshole in college..either they will try to rape you or complaint about you…Many guys told you to be nice boring predictable guy in front of them..thats true she will bore with you in 5 min

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’m almost done with college, so here are my 2 cents.

Situation 1: Asks you for help

I had this one chick in my economics class that was always asking for help with classwork. I was polite but never spoke more than necessary. When the classwork wasn’t graded, I would feed in some wrong answers so that I seem less dependable. It forced her to actually think since she couldn’t rely on me to get it right every time. She never left me alone completely, but at least she was actually contributing to the group. She even caught one of my legitament mistakes once.

Situation 2: The flirt

Me and a friend were talking in one of the school lounges waiting for our performance to start. All performers are required to dress fancy. Guys tuxedos, gals dresses. Our professor is by the door and one of the females walks in. Professor starts showering her with an incessant stream of praises. Occasionally he glances at us like, “you seeing this goddess?” She comes over to us and smiles, “Do you mind if I sit here?” I return a warm smile and say “Go ahead.” She takes a seat and looks at the two of us expectantly. She was polite so I give her a second to start a conversation. But she doesn’t. Time to deploy the female kryptonite! I ask my friend “Have you played Fallout 4?” The look of surprise on her face… hahaha. She lost to a video game.

If I’m in class and a woman tries to get friendly, I just keep responses short like “yes” or “no” and if they are being more aggressive I’ll speak up more and drive the conversation back to the classroom subject. Mention the upcoming paper so they can start panicking about how much they’ve procrastinated. I can’t bring up video games in those classes without being an obvious ass, and we all know that being an ass would lesser the repulsiveness of the games.

Ex:

“I don’t think we’ve had a conversation before.”
“No we haven’t.”
(That was a brief response but now she is being awkward. I better followup that comment in order to not be an ass)
“There’s just too much to do. (Insert laugh here) Speaking of which, have you started your research project yet?”
“bla bla bla, me me me, bla bla bla, more about me me me me me”

After a minute of this, I just interrupted and said “Well, I have to get going to my next class. See you.”

Situation 3: Feminazi

Ignore them. I’ve had one walk into class wearing a fake mustache as a “protest” of the wage gap (myth). They seek attention, give them none. If you see them in the hallway and make eye contact, smile or wave or do what you have to do to be friendly. Don’t raise suspicion, don’t make yourself a target. This is their turf and they know it. You’ve seen the misandric posters and you’ve listened to the feminist professors twist facts.

[BoarParticipant]

For those s~~~ty group projects, get individual responsibilities in writing! Deliver exactly what is expected of you at the last possible minute and not one iota more. Document document document. If there are verbal changes to the project document those as well.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[MedicalScientistParticipant 159]

Wow, sorry for the late reply gentlemen… I appreciate all of these advices, it’s like diamonds raining all over my head.

And yeah, sadly where I live (Dominican Republic), these women are so freaking LAZY and the best option I’ve got is what you guys say: only treat them when needed and disguise myself as a nice guy since it’s the best women repellent in the world.

"Never theorize before you have data. Invariably, you end up twisting facts to suit theories instead of theories to suit facts."

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I was just frank when I was in college. I pointed out how stupid women were in front of the class and rationally explained why, intentionally forgot names, pointed out contradictions in the professors teachings,etc.

I was the “oh s~~~ not him again” guy. And I had a riot, and ironically got some respect from my male peers along the way.

I still graduated with a 3.3 gpa without studying at all for the last three years.

Most of the advice on this forum is predicated upon “surviving the system”. And a lot of it is true and good, but one day you will wake up and realize how actually difficult it is to escape the system. (I am close to it, but still not there)

So:

-Either be patient and “hope” it pays off or
-Just be frank with everyone you meet, hoping one of them will chopped your head off.

Either way you are getting out of the system. I personally don’t believe in the “work hard and it all pays off 20 years down the road” philosophy. Mostly due to personal experience. None of us escape this world alive.

So take this “advice” for what you will.

[MedicalScientistParticipant 159]

John Doe wrote:

I was just frank when I was in college. I pointed out how stupid women were in front of the class and rationally explained why, intentionally forgot names, pointed out contradictions in the professors teachings,etc.

I was the “oh s~~~ not him again” guy. And I had a riot, and ironically got some respect from my male peers along the way.

I still graduated with a 3.3 gpa without studying at all for the last three years.

Most of the advice on this forum is predicated upon “surviving the system”. And a lot of it is true and good, but one day you will wake up and realize how actually difficult it is to escape the system. (I am close to it, but still not there)

So:

-Either be patient and “hope” it pays off or
-Just be frank with everyone you meet, hoping one of them will chopped your head off.

Either way you are getting out of the system. I personally don’t believe in the “work hard and it all pays off 20 years down the road” philosophy. Mostly due to personal experience. None of us escape this world alive.

So take this “advice” for what you will.

Thanks, I really appreciate your knowledge, but about being frank here in DR… well, it’s impossible. Believe me, when I was in high school I indulged myself in pointing out mistakes that teachers made but instead of getting a “thank you” they just faked a smile and they got resented about it. I then observed that those who kept their mouth shut and didn’t do their homework (compared to me, I was a work horse and put a lot of effort in academic stuff) got better grades than me… So, what did I do? Same thing as them and my grades went up.

I just want to get my degree, leave this country for good and never look back.

"Never theorize before you have data. Invariably, you end up twisting facts to suit theories instead of theories to suit facts."

[John DoeParticipant 743]

MedicalScientist wrote:

Thanks, I really appreciate your knowledge, but about being frank here in DR… well, it’s impossible.

I am assuming your going into the medical field, and that you are actually interested in it. If that is the case then loosely put “keeping your mouth shut” is the best option like most of these guys say. Only because it appears you are motivated by your job/career/calling (whatever you want to call it)….only because of that.

[RyshParticipant 134]

In my studies, we also had some group work. OK, we were only men, so that wasn’t a problem. Typically, a group of four with four different exercises to take. Each week, we assigned who of us got to prepare what exercise. We were a team because we realised that this would divide the workload by four for each of us. None of us even looked at the exercises the others got because of “not my problem”.

So, do a clear assignment. Don’t let the chicks get away with freeloading and some unproductive babbling. Force them to work.

For general avoidance, the others are right, being the asshole only will get them after you. But being the nice guy will get them after you, too, however just for freeloading.

Being the nerd works best. Whenever they want to chit-chat, just talk about the work, or about technology. That will drive them away for sure. If that doesn’t help, computer stuff is next in the line. Or chess. And strictly avoid things like dancing in turn.

[MedicalScientistParticipant 159]

@rysh Indeed, intellectual/logical conversations always drive women away… Thanks man, really appreciate it!

"Never theorize before you have data. Invariably, you end up twisting facts to suit theories instead of theories to suit facts."

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

I dunno, I’ve always, since grade school, hoped that when forced into a group, that my partners were girls and not boys. Girls, I found, were always more likely to take schoolwork more seriously than boys, and put in a more diligent effort.

But good on you for working alone, if you think you can do it. I have two suggestions:

1. (I’ve tried this and it was fine) Do projects yourself anyway. You’d have to have some pretty stupid people in charge if they refused a project that met all the requirements but because you didn’t work with people.

2. (Never tried this but hilarious suggestion; don’t actually do this, as quickly as possible!): Make up some names to put on the report with you. If it’s a three person report, put “by MedicalScientist, Omar al-Zeber, and Alex Martinez.” The class is substantially large, I presume?

They’ll come to you and say they can’t find those names on the class list, and you say “that’s not my problem.”

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Make up some names to put on the report with you.

That’s a terrible idea. Unless you use clearly made up ones like Santa Claus. But even that is a bad idea…

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Do projects yourself anyway.

That can work, as long as you can handle the workload.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

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