'Looking after the kids'

[Just MikeParticipant 393]

A good mate of mine and I were shooting the s~~~ over a few beers the other day. He’s a good bloke, looks after his wife and two kids, nice house, well-paying engineering job etc. I like talking to him because, despite being married he questions the system a lot and calls bulls~~~ on his wife a fair bit. In another reality, without the family, he’d probably be a natural red-pill but he knows he has to make the most of the situation he’s in. Always that deadly balancing act…but I digress.

Anyway, his wife is a pain in the ass. Pretty hot but f~~~ing mental at times. He definitely married for the t~~~ and she definitely married for security.

So she’s always bitching about…I dunno, typical feminist bulls~~~ that sounds like she hasn’t given it an ounce of thought and is just regurgitating ‘rights and priveleges’ like she’s owed them. Doesn’t even know why. Takes for granted the awesome situation she’s in, provided for and looked after well. There’s no logic at all behind what she says…fellas, this is one highly emotional woman without a shred of logic on a 100/0 sliding scale.

What it boils down to a lot of the time is the same old ‘being a mother is the most important job in the world’ or ‘you can’t replace a mother’, to the point of her negating the fact that he goes to work every f~~~ing weekday and keeps a house over their heads. I said to him, ‘how about you both drop the ball and see which one impacts you first?’. He had a good laugh at that one; he gets it.

He said he’d love to take a few months off and look after the kids while she worked but it’s just not gonna happen. She’s got f~~~-all qualifications and no prospects even close to his; she doesn’t even realise this (I did say this woman had *zero* logic, yes?), she’d probably try to argue against it. I also think, in some small denial, apart from breastfeeding (at the moment), she knows he’d absolutely kick the s~~~ out of her at looking after the kids and keeping house. A lot of guys would. They’d belt that task to hell quickly and efficiently, rolling with kid-related spontaneous situations *and* get new projects around the house off the ground. Cos we make lists of things to do and stick to them, be it looking after kids, going to work, looking after/improving house etc. We get s~~~ done *no matter what*.

Women fail to realise that. Feminists know we still do most things better and could at least equal them in sole child-raising apart from some biological functions. I’m not even gonna go all bats~~~ crazy like feminists and say we can do it all and better but for, say, three or four months, do you reckon a guy could do as good a job at staying home/raising the kids as a woman could?

Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3301]

I work with a guy who runs his 23 year old girlfriend to work and picks her up every day as she can’t drive. He was telling me with a smile how she doesn’t like work and only wants to be a mother. Surprise, surprise 3 months later she is pregnant and is due next month. The strange thing is he is really happy and doesn’t realise how he has been played and now it is no sex and a lifetime at the plantation while she sits on her arse all day.

Motherhood for women is essentially retirement. Once the children go to school full time that is 9am until 3PM everday to do f~~~ all. My ex wife did this for years, every day I came home the house was a mess and I had to make my own dinner. I would spend the whole weekend cleaning as she did nothing, it used to p~~~ me off the sink was always full of dirty dishes that were “soaking” when the dishwasher was underneath. That is right, too lazy to even open the dishwasher, just put them in the sink.

Where I park at work there are million pound houses where every morning I see the wife put the children in the big SUV to take them to school before a busy day of doing f~~~ all. P~~~es me off that they have such an easy life because vagina.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

At any task where expertise or mastery can be demonstrated, men always outperform women. No exceptions. Men are better at child-rearing and raising functional adults. Women can maybe make it through suicide watch to get them into first grade, if they don’t kill their own kids first.

Yes, I went there.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[G.O.A.TParticipant 1459]

Dude, your friend is f~~~ed. There’s no such thing as making the most out of a situation with women. Just like you stated, she (women) don’t have any logic, they don’t think like we do. They have no honor, respect, love, accountability, loyalty, integrity, and so on.

It always baffles me, that it’s always the successful man, who end up in these f~~~ed up situation.

A single, successful engineer, with no bastard to take care of. Tell me how that sounds? All the toys, vacation, college pussy, and most importantly, NO UNGRATEFUL WIFE.

F~~~ all that honor, love, and whatnot. I’m doing ME. F~~~ society.

Money is God.

[GregB0Participant]

Just Mike wrote:

Takes for granted the awesome situation she’s in, provided for and looked after well

Hopefully you pointed out to him that this is a danger sign as she will start looking into other pastures soon because she does not value him.

Just Mike wrote:

being a mother is the most important job in the world’

As you correctly stated, he needs to provide her with some black and white data that shows how much he is providing to her, the kids, and the entire family which allows her to “only be a mom.” Not all of his resources of course, but certainly all the expenses that she could dig up anyway.

Last suggestion is for him to start carving out kids time and have her get out of the house to work a temp job / volunteer / whatever to prove that she is not the only one capable of supporting the kids.

If everything goes to hell in a hand basket, he can then at least say that he has indeed spent time with the children during any custody fights in attempting to get joint custody.

Best of luck to him.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

The pussy trap. Short term sexual gratification to get you on the hook, and a baby to keep you there,……minimum 18 years, maximum life time alimony.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[G.O.A.TParticipant 1459]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

I work with a guy who runs his 23 year old girlfriend to work and picks her up every day as she can’t drive. He was telling me with a smile how she doesn’t like work and only wants to be a mother. Surprise, surprise 3 months later she is pregnant and is due next month. The strange thing is he is really happy and doesn’t realise how he has been played and now it is no sex and a lifetime at the plantation while she sits on her arse all day.

Motherhood for women is essentially retirement. Once the children go to school full time that is 9am until 3PM everday to do f~~~ all. My ex wife did this for years, every day I came home the house was a mess and I had to make my own dinner. I would spend the whole weekend cleaning as she did nothing, it used to p~~~ me off the sink was always full of dirty dishes that were “soaking” when the dishwasher was underneath. That is right, too lazy to even open the dishwasher, just put them in the sink.

Where I park at work there are million pound houses where every morning I see the wife put the children in the big SUV to take them to school before a busy day of doing f~~~ all. P~~~es me off that they have such an easy life because vagina.

THEY, have an easy life, not their husbanks.

Most of these “upper Jones”, are in debt up to their eyeb~~~~. The debtors are not McDonald workers, but those who holds high positions. Doctors, lawyers, judges, engineers, bankers. Those are the people who’re drowning in debt.

Why?

Because of vagina.

No, thank you. I’ll pass.

Money is God.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh
I, like several of my friends were single custodial fathers.
We all somehow managed to fulfill all of our domestic and job related duties/responsibilities without the “aid” of welfare/social services or someone else “subsidizing” any costs and raised our offspring to adulthood.
Now we are all in our mid 50’s, most of us have physical “disabilities” (compared to other men our age due to our professions), and 4 of us are now custodial grandparents because our daughters can’t seem raise their kids themselves and social services HAD to step in for the child’s safety.

“Looking after the kids” is and has always been the easiest part of any day in my life so far.
Keeping my house clean, doing laundry, dishes, yard work, changing diapers, preparing food, bathing, feeding the sprogs, shopping, doing home/auto/yard maintenance and any other task is easy and I have to do all of that for myself anyhow.
I mean ffs ladies, if old men in their 50’s that are missing body parts, can barely walk or are in wheel chairs can get this s~~~ done easily, what the f~~~ is YOUR problem with doing it?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Grumpy wrote:

I mean ffs ladies, if old men in their 50’s that are missing body parts, can barely walk or are in wheel chairs can get this s~~~ done easily, what the f~~~ is YOUR problem with doing it?

They’re women. You blow off half a man’s body with an IED and he’ll still run circles around a woman, on his hands if he has to.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[CuckSniperParticipant 449]

Men know how to cook and clean. Which means females are only good for one thing. Sucking dick.

Bunch of f~~~ing C~~~s is all they are.

[HermitParticipant]

CuckSniper wrote:

females are only good for one thing. Sucking dick.

………and the sooner they realize this, the better off the whole world will be.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Want to really open your friends eyes? Ask him if he had a paternity test done on any of “his children”. Chances are if she is still hot looking she has banged some Chad and one of his kids are not his.

Na your friend is as blue pill as they get as soon as you ask that question watch him never talk to you again. They would rather lose a good friend then admit that there is a chance you could be right. Nothing good comes from knowing any blue pill man on a plantation because in the end they will always side with the wife.

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