Long gone and it took a long time

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

So I should introduce myself as Ive already posted a couple of topics.

Im a flawed man who still kicks himself for under appreciating his selfless father . That still bothers me to this day. Ive also made a lot of mistakes in life strategy but Ive learned.

Ive always been a bit of an athlete and that set me in good stead with girls. But very early i noticed their poor character that made me retiscent to become too deeply involved.

However i did drink the koolaid of progressive thought and ideals. That only really was discarded whe I realized I was alone in actualizing these ideals of helping others, non violence and peaceful cooperation.

Nice thoughts but the world doesnt work that way. If you really want to get f~~~ed over and laughed behind your back ; by all means follow my path. Hope you enjoy a lot of mental anguish.

After arriving very late to a decent paying work path ; I accept Im way behind. Tjat has forced me to focus on work and self improvement at the expense of a romantic life. Luckily, I found out later.

While I was on the sidelines I observed the absolute slaughter of married men being destroyed. By women who talked a great game, but wouldnt hesitate to implode it all for their own interests.

Not that im giving guys a pass either. So many so called friends f~~~ed me over that ive become one wary nasty MOFO if you get on my bad side.

Well this intros a start. More detail if you adk on certain areas.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Long Gone. The red pill can take a little while to go down. Stay the course, you will be fine.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome,
I did not appreciate my father enough either.

You said your behind but your here now and in time you will see you are probably farther ahead than you realize.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 16]

Welcome brother.
I dont apreciate my father at all couse he is a jerk.
But i have seen good men f~~~ed over too.
Dont dwell on it couse now you know the truth, now make your old men PROUD by being the better men And not falling in his mistakes.
Dont you think a father is good father is his soon succeed where he failed?

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

You are all right of course.

Ive long swalloed the Red Pill .. mine wasnt rage ..more like dismay that i believed the lies about how things worked.

By taking actions such as tossing the Tv, ditching clingers and users , and GMOW ; life has become much better. No one can manipulate or control me . I make my decisions and hold responsibility to that.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Welcome brother your story and mine are very similar.

Good father/bad mother=saw women’s true nature early on

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

I flipped back and forth woth women. Attracted by the outer beauty , repelled by so many nasty little bitches.

In my deepest blue pill stages I believed their lies about them always being the victim and couldnt reconcile their behaviour with the propanada of the day. Thats a mind f~~~ let me tell you.

[Anonymous 42]

Long Gone wrote:

Nice thoughts but the world doesnt work that way. If you really want to get f~~~ed over and laughed behind your back ; by all means follow my path. Hope you enjoy a lot of mental anguish.

Hey Long Gone, you’re out of the storm with sun on your face! You’re mindset is in the right place! I see a man that’s cured and only needs time to feel allot better!

Some men NEVER learn!

Long Gone wrote:

By taking actions such as tossing the Tv, ditching clingers and users , and GMOW ; life has become much better. No one can manipulate or control me . I make my decisions and hold responsibility to that.

Dude,,, YOU’RE CURED!

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Anonymous wrote:

Long Gone wrote:

Nice thoughts but the world doesnt work that way. If you really want to get f~~~ed over and laughed behind your back ; by all means follow my path. Hope you enjoy a lot of mental anguish.

Hey Long Gone, you’re out of the storm with sun on your face! You’re mindset is in the right place! I see a man that’s cured and only needs time to feel allot better!

Some men NEVER learn!

Long Gone wrote:

By taking actions such as tossing the Tv, ditching clingers and users , and GMOW ; life has become much better. No one can manipulate or control me . I make my decisions and hold responsibility to that.

Dude,,, YOU’RE CURED!

Spot on some men never learn.

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

Well things are much better. Not yet to my next stage in life but Ive prepared all the groundwork.

Im doing things that no one really knows about. Before I liked to discuss with others. Now it doesnt matter.

I have my own morality which is I believe solid . Im carving new paths about women and relations …might shock some or hi five others. Always voluntarily.

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

Best word I ever used :

NO

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Great introduction! Welcome.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Long Gone wrote:

… mine wasnt rage ..more like dismay.

Our new member coined a new phrase — “Red pill dismay”. It’s so polite that I have to ask, are you Canadian by chance? Ha!

Welcome!

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

Correct sir!
I didnt even say oot and aboot either.

[survivorParticipant 610]

Hey Long Gone welcome aboard:

I wouldn’t say I under appreciated my dad, but I certainly misunderstood his actions in a lot of ways. I see his mistakes now as a bad reaction to my very stubborn mother, especially his drinking which basically tore the family apart. But I understand him much more now as I am the one in a tough relationship with a woman who refuses to even try and make things work. Don’t be hard on yourself and treat every chance as a learning opportunity, even with mothers. One of the most important lessons around here you’ll soon find out is to take care of yourself. You can bet most women will not.

God bless and welcome to the neighborhood.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[Long GoneParticipant 88]

Yes I see.

But I cant really deny my negative actions when he was trying and had a hard job. Though we had good relations I still did actions that in retrospect I cant believe how insulting they were. Its on me and I cant wash that.

Though I was under a lot of work pressure in a changing social environment ..its small compared to my actions.

Any reading with a dad.. that you get along with ..appreciate him respect him and let him know .

Regret like this is my weight to carry for the rest of my life. And deservedly so.

[AttonParticipant]

Welcome to the dark side.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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