Living with other MGTOW’S?

[ChatterParticipant 63]

Looking for your feedback on this..

Been red pilling for a number of years now. Lots of things I love about this independent life but there are other areas that could be improved. One area that could be improved on is the loneliness that is sometimes felt by being totally independent and keeping women on the outside. Have been wondering about the possibility of living (house share style arrangement) with other men with similar views as on this website to help address this loneliness.

The drive/motivation for this idea wouldn’t just be to live together but to support each other as well. To spend our time and resources helping each other as a group of men, to benefit ourselves, instead of benefiting women. To build genuine, supportive friendships with other men with a similar point of view and similar experiences of women.

Do you think it would work?
Would you ever consider living in a house share with other MGTOW(ish) men?
Do you think there could be any problems with this arrangement?

[Anonymous 42]

Chatter wrote:

Have been wondering about the possibility of living (house share style arrangement) with other men with similar views as on this website to help address this loneliness.

We got a house with 30 acres in Vermont, in the middle of nowhere if you want to rent it? it’s only a 40 minute drive in 4×4 to the nearest store and back. That’s if it doesn’t start snowing at the pass. Then you’re f~~~ed without tire chains ON ALL 4!

You’ll f~~~ing love it!

Your “loneliness problem” is because you’ve never endured ISOLATION! We have a diesel loader for all the snow! You’ll be done in no time flat! Only takes 4 or 5 hours to dig yourself out! Otherwise use the snowshoes in the shed only 200 ft away, another half hour!

P.S. They’re predicting flash floods from a low pressure hitting the next few days, the dirt road will likely be gone again as it always will. Sometimes the isolation lasts for months before you can drive anything but an ATV 4×4 through all the spoil and runoff from the scouring wash.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I can’t stand female company for more than 10 min.

Men company top 3 hours.

Im not lonely at all. And I don’t want anyone living near me.

Your place is perfect for me MGTOWer but… I don’t like snow much.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Sounds like heaven to me. I live in a flat -I hate other people they are all programmed blue pill t~~~s.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Perhaps.

But I’ll tell you what didn’t work. I tried setting up a Pua house 9 years ago. 6 of us moved into a house together. We were all about the same age and had met one another on a pua forum.

The first couple of months were great. We’d all go out, help motivate each other. But then reality caught up with everyone.

The first guy moved out because he started clashing with the rest of the guys, not cleaning up after himself… moving in an 18 year old southern Florida white trash chick he met on some spring break college trap.

The other guys lasted a year or so longer but it became evident that learning to attract women was the least of everyone’s issues.

We all used getting pussy to try and mask our real issues. Thinking that the more women we got to adore us would solve everything was a red pill I only figured out two years ago.

Guys moved out bit by bit (most got girlfriends until the house was only full of non puas). All I cared about was that they were able to pay rent and were courteous and not messy.

In the end, most issues people have, and continue to have, stem from how they were raised. It always goes back to your mother and father (if you even had one).

All those inner demons came to light in this house, and the women we did end up attracting only helped magnify the insecurities we were looking to hide as puas.

Searching for a woman to help “complete” you. That’s what being a pua is ultimately about. And that’s why the house failed. Because we were chasing pussy. Chasing a lie.

A mgtow house could def work. But it will probably go much smoother if every guy already has their own setup.

I have a roommate right now who I suspect may be mgtow, but we have nothing in common. The only thing we do have in common is that we both never talk about or bring women around. We pretty much do our own thing. My favorite type of roommate is the one you never see.

[Anonymous 42]

Carnage wrote:

but… I don’t like snow much.

It’sallbs wrote:

I live in a flat -I hate other people they are all programmed blue pill t~~~s.

The only “blue” here is the burning blue sky, the burning blue moon, and the blue hue that touches everything from all the snow and ice! Moon shadows and Aurora Borealis too! With cloud cover you can’t see at all, even after your eyes adjusted!

My Buddy putting on his boots, I brought my own snowblower to clear out a parking spot so I don’t block the road that got it’s start as a cart path over the Rochester Gap.

The driveway is only a 1/4 mile long, hell of a struggle to get to the loader! It also doubles as a snowmobile trail and it’s a corridor, which gets priority for grooming! It’s like driving on a hotwheels track! But don’t get ejected, there’s nothing but trees to stop you!

I’ve had more f~~~ing fun than most people dream of!

Green mtn. National forest from opposite Chittenden Resivour on a trail to Bloodroot Pass (VAST corridor 73) the next mtn. range over from my back yard. Michigan Rd. Pittsfield, VT. The Pico ski area and behind that Killington, I know every trail and every tree over thousands of acres skiing on and off trail, and backcountry (wrong turn and you’re in another town many miles away from the resorts, like 25 or 30 miles).

^^^^^ALL THIS HAPPENED “AFTER” I BECAME ORGANIC MGTOW!

HOGGING EVERY BIT OF MY LIFE TO MYSELF!

[Anonymous 54]

Keep yourr hands off MY f~~~ing food!
Hey! Its your turn to wash the dishes asshole.

Turn that s~~~ down!!

You know what…

Im gonna pass.

[Anonymous 7]

Nah, I like living alone.
Now a MGTOW State where every one has their own cabin, house, tepee, adobe, cave, tent or whatever the f~~~ you want to live in would be cool.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Awesome MGTOWER.

Definitely all in same house… bad idea.

An all MGTOW island? Now for that I’m on, but everyone in his own f~~~ing house.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Chatter wrote:

Would you ever consider living in a house share with other MGTOW(ish) men?

Didn’t think this was possible, until i found myself living in the situation by happy accident.

NYC real estate is crazy expensive. So it’s common to find older people (30s, 40s, 50s) sharing the rent for an apartment. I live w/2 other guys now – 3 bedroom apartment, modern building in a nice part of the city, close to the subway.

I like having company around sometimes, but we never “go out” together or anything, just trade dirty jokes when we pass each other in the kitchen.

I don’t think the other 2 guys know what MGTOW is, but they’re living that life. We get along really well – pay the bills on time, don’t make a mess, etc.

GoodKid44 wrote:

All those inner demons came to light in this house

I was thinking about why my setup works – mostly because the “roommates” & I don’t have anything to prove. Maybe part of that is age? Dunno, but this is a sweet f~~~ing setup, and i would definitely look for an arrangement like it wherever i move next.

[DocParticipant]

If you are lonely you need to work on what it is making you lonely so you can continue living alone.

I am with Carnage. I can handle company of others (kids excluded) for a few hours then I’m done.

Living with others robs you of valuable time to just be you. Work on you, improve you etc.

If you think living with someone will solve the loneliness thing it’s not a long term solution.

Fix the problem of loneliness at its core so you can continue being alone.

Alone is f~~~ing power

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Tower,

Got any farms I can work on year round?

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[Anonymous 7]

Doc wrote:

Alone is f~~~ing power

^^ Yup.

If I get lonely living alone I will get a puppy.
Dogs are better house mates that people anyway.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Chatter wrote:

. One area that could be improved on is the loneliness that is sometimes felt by being totally independent

Learn to enjoy your own company and you will never be lonely. If you cannot enjoy your own company no one else can fix that. Roommates SUCK!

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

I always happen to like living by myself. Supporting myself. Feeding myself. Etc. Even when I was young, I worked as hard as possible to move out of my parents home. I think I just do not like to be around people too much. I guess, I am like a recluse. It sometimes sucks, but I am’s what I am’s (Popeye).

Can’t really change a person’s personality. That is where women screw up. They think men can be changed or fixed. Bulls~~~.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

It’s a cool idea…i would like even better if we could all live close together. We could pop by each others house, meet up for drinks, got shoot some guns in the countryside, i mean the possibilities are endless.

Actually i am hoping we will be able to set something up like this someday. I love chatting with all my mgtow brothers on zoom and hearing from them on the forums. Being able to hang out in real life would just be too awesome.

[ShyGuyParticipant 75]

Ive lived with room mates before, didnt care for it. I got my cat which is enough for me. I only really feel lonely on my off days when Im home all day. Being around the general population doing something like shopping or hanging out with a friend at a bar usually cures it and Im craving to be back home by myself.

Look not to the shames of the past, but to the glory of the future.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22546]

See, this is the thing. Lots of people dont understand how they are wired.

I think a lot of mgtow people just need small doses of select, high quality time with people they want to be around. Not 24/7/365 in your space all the time.

Better yet. Spend a few hours of good time with people at their place, and then come home to sanctuary.

Part of not wanting unnecessary drama is keeping life simple. Unless you have financial or medical issues, do not live with anyone else. Male or female.

There are lots of people I can handle for a few hours, and then I need a break for a week. I like being alone, I need a lot of quiet reflective time to work and think without house noise and interuptions and roommates friends coming by.

You live with someone else you increae the unnecessary drama. Dont do it.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

For men who have been recently divorced and young guys that are unestablished, or for guys just trying to save money. I actually think it’s a good idea. Financially it’s a good idea. And being most conflict between guys occurs because of women, yeah MGTOW’s living together would probably be a good thing.

But just for the sake of living together to live together, depends on the individual. I think most guys would prefer to be alone, at least have their own space. But with every space being so big, that often leads to waste. Cost vs. Benefits.

I know co-living spaces are becoming a thing now. It’s like dormitories for grown ups. Get a small room with a small bathroom or a community shower area. Community kitchen area and community game area. Etc. And the cost is much cheaper, yet the owner’s/landlord make more money in the long run. It’s a win/win.

The whole thing is just cutting cost. Most apartments are built for the idea of someone having a family or getting in a relationship or being in a relationship. For most single men, that means a lot of waste. Unused space and money being thrown in the toilet.

That being said, it could be a good idea. Depending on the individuals who wish to share rent and what not.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[ChatterParticipant 63]

Really interesting to read others opinions. I can definitely understand the contentment of being alone. I love it for the most part. Do my own thing when I want and be totally myself. Being left alone is one of my greatest pleasures at times, and yes working on inner issues is always important – I think especially for men who have had to bottle everything up forever and not be bothered about a thing – from going to war and being blown up, to homelessness, to so called “positive discrimination” that we face every day.

I just watched some of the videos posted on another thread about the forgotten homeless men – in Manchester, UK, the city where I was born and grew up. Nobody gives a s~~~ because there white males and not immigrants. I’m not against these groups btw, nor am I a hater – just “equality” of treatment doesn’t seem that equal from this white man’s perspective.

I went through the PUA phase too, so interesting to read the house scenario – validation in abundance once skills were mastered – but still totally get where you’re coming from as it doesn’t solve anything. Kind of like a drug really – great at the time but ultimately damaging to your physical and mental health. Insecurity pushed me into the PUA world and utter disappointment/disgust in women made me leave it.

I guess the “loneliness” comes from a sense of isolation/feeling cornered due to the current overwhelming phase of feminism. It seems to be everywhere, from people I work with to the media. On the odd occasion I do plug into the media the constant hate from the media seems relentless, terms like “Toxic Masculinity” and the BBC (I’m in the UK) is a constant barrage of man hating crap. It’s good to know that websites like this exist. Before it came along I thought it was just me, witnessing bitch after bitch in society. My thinking was to create a group of men who felt the same way as me – people are usually stronger in numbers.

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