Living well the best revenge.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

It is said that living well is the best revenge. Not just regarding an ex girlfriend or wife you divorced. But other assholes in life who mock you and try to put you down.
What do you guys think? Have any stories to tell that show you agree or disagree with this?

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

For me, living well means having the freedom to do what I want and always having the option of saying NO, no matter how much influence the person has.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 42]

S~~~ometer reads 0! What more do you need to be content?

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Blue Skies wrote:

What do you guys think? Have any stories to tell that show you agree or disagree with this?

Yes. Living a BALANCED life is the key! It is the most effective and the easiest to do. Most people try so hard to get revenge by buying and showing off brand new cars and houses. It never ends well.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[TolzParticipant 165]

Revenge is just a waste of time. Live well for the sake of wanting to live well; not to show others how well you are doing. In today’s social media culture, this concept is a very difficult one to grasp. Would you still go on vacation if you couldn’t tell anyone about it? Would you still lose the weight and go to the gym if you couldn’t post before and after photos and no one would comment on the changes you made? Would you still save money if you weren’t allowed to show it off or if no one cared?

[WallyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

S~~~ometer reads 0! What more do you need to be content?

Today I had lunch with a doctor friend who Chases tail and he asked me if I was happy I told him I was then rephrased it as contentment, peace and quiet.

When I picture happy I picture some person constantly smiling and trying to maintain this one state but what happens when you face conflict you crash. It’s like trying to grasp a cloud. My friend talked about difficulties in his life and I told him there will always be some conflict but you can’t let things get you too low or too high.

There is no one to get revenge upon, I don’t hate my sister or any other woman who I felt has wronged me. Frankly I am content in my job, scuba diving, and photography, and other passions to care.

I know this is the same for most of us.

The MGTOW path is the path of peace and contentment

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 18]

Say what?

Living well is the best gift.

Revenge is … such negative emotion.

Forgive those that have transgressed, take pride and bask in your own glory to let pettiness go and live a lonely life. Without any thoughts on your part.

No one gives a s~~~ about anyone else more than they give a s~~~ about themselves. Exceptions include parents for their kids.

In that wisdom revenge is to validate someone’s root issue with your existence.

Forgive. But don’t forget.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

For ME, Living Well is NOT Giving a F~~~ about how “other people” measure “Living Well”.

I kind of get caught up in ENJOYING the “little things” in Life, and don’t pay much attention towards pursuing the “BIG THINGS”….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 42]

Wally wrote:

The MGTOW path is the path of peace and contentment

Without contentment you’re chasing a carrot on a string! I’m just as happy in bad times as good, however the bad times tend to filter out the weeds you thought were family and friends, never the less, life without weeds is much happier and better, no matter the pain involved in pulling them in the first place!

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Wally wrote:

When I picture happy I picture some person constantly smiling and trying to maintain this one state but what happens when you face

True. Happiness is a “positive” disturbance in the mind…it is very short lived. One should try their best not not chase after this ever so fleeting state of mind. It is volatile and can easily distort your perception on current events. Example, you buy a Ferrari and go to a local coffee shop and meet a good looking woman and you go for her without thinking carefully, because your mind is all in a distorted “happy” state where nearly every event in your current day has worked in your favour.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[neverAgainParticipant 1662]

Tolz wrote:

Would you still save money if you weren’t allowed to show it off or if no one cared?

yes, I would, so that I can retire and not have to obey orders from the managers/executives.

All good things come to an end.

[WallyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Wally wrote:

The MGTOW path is the path of peace and contentment

Without contentment you’re chasing a carrot on a string! I’m just as happy in bad times as good, however the bad times tend to filter out the weeds you thought were family and friends, never the less, life without weeds is much happier and better, no matter the pain involved in pulling them in the first place!

Truer words were never spoken

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

Happiness is a “positive” disturbance in the mind…it is very short lived. One should try their best not not chase after this ever so fleeting state of mind. It is volatile and can easily distort your perception on current events.

this is so true!

Awakened wrote:

I kind of get caught up in ENJOYING the “little things” in Life, and don’t pay much attention towards pursuing the “BIG THINGS”….

It’s not how much we have that is important, but how much we enjoy the things we have.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 7]

Sometimes you are living well. Sometimes not.

If in life you never experience the lows, you will never appreciate the highs.

I experience both, and at random.

As long as your life is always being pursued to the positive side of the spectrum, my friend, you are living well.

When down, the ability to get back up in a decent and skillful way with nobody being able to stop you is a profound illustration of you living well.

Live well, brothers!

[BushidoParticipant 637]

While being whipped around in the Red Pill raging whirlpool, (within days of the breakup) I provided an hour-long presentation to the command staff at my unit – from memory, without notes, without reference. (Context: My job in the military requires me to brief officers and senior staff at a regular basis. Holy hell it was funny to watch the audience glance back from time to time, trying to see what the hell I was reading off of!)

After establishing myself as a mental wonder of sorts, I spent time studying body language, mannerisms and speech – within half a year I became “The Guy” within our section and walked away from my first deployment with a medal for my achievements overseas- all while battling thoughts of suicide thanks to my blue pill past. Another year later I was promoted to become a non-commissioned officer (with a second achievement medal, a damn rare thing in 2 years) and proudly lead Marines under my charge to be the best in our field and maintain our reputation as the new standard.

Living well with NFG is not only the best revenge, but the best way to live. I went from an emotional wreck glancing a little too long down from the second-story window to the epitome of what it takes to be the best.

The X can go to hell. Her mistake was letting me grow to something she will never, ever see again- a Man going his own way to success after success.

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Being genuinely happy, successful and in control of your life most people don’t like to see.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Blue Skies wrote:

It is said that living well is the best revenge.

I don’t do it for revenge. I do it for me. Karma does the rest.
I live damn well and c~~~s run to my door to steal my resources.
MGTOW saves me on a daily basis.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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