List of things I don't like in my relations~~~

[Manboy87Participant 68]

My gf still lives with me since she moved in a few months ago.

My experience with having a woman that lives in my home:

-laying on my couch as I’m typing in the morning right now, because she has serious hot flashes overnight, and I despise sleeping even a foot next to her. Uncomfortable to cuddle with her. It’s my second time sleeping on my couch by myself while a woman lives with me, and I actually had a peaceful sleep, no matter how uncomfortable my little couch is. I remember hearing that some husbands and wives slept separately which got me scratching my head before. Now I see why.

-she only works an hour or two a day, so I get annoyed by her being home all the time. I work at home, and now, considering moving my little office to somewhere further away from home so I’m not constantly interrupted about food while working. “What are we gonna eat for lunch?” “I want to cook chicken for dinner, is that okay?”

-the mess of her clothes, underwear, socks, work clothes all over my apartment, she even left her clothes on the side of my toilet.

-I told her to have a hobby so I can be left alone to work on my projects. Her hobby has always been picking her nose. Not even kidding. She has hot flashes, and constantly has mucus stuck up her nose somewhere, so she just picks her nose for hours every day. It’s her passion. She even picks her nose in front of the mirror.

-constantly tells me to take My dog out for potty, even though I always took her out every day for years before she moved in. She just likes to command me to do this even though she knew I always take her out. I kept reminding her she sounds too much like my mom, because it’s very unattractive to me that she tells me what to do. My mom can tell me to do chores for her cuz she’s getting old, but not my gf.

-more dishes to clean. I don’t have a dishwasher, so I’m forced to have to clean 2x more dishes. Worst when she “cooks” food, which causes 3x more dishes. She cleans my dishes, too, but she’s much slower at this.

-she sleeps too much. Naps too much.

-she farts more than I ever could in my entire life. Amazing how girly I feel when she farts more than I do. Again, hot flashes, humongous mucus stuck in her nose, too much yogurt she eats. Estrogen does that s~~~.

-she often looses her debit card, cochlear implant, wallet, or cell phone everywhere we go. We were lucky to find her things at the theater, mall, and a roller coaster place. Just yesterday, she lost her card again. Ridiculous.

-constantly talks to me about marriage and I keep saying no. I had to explain to her over and over again on why I don’t want to marry. Everything I explained about not wanting to marry went into her ear and out the other. I signed to her about this s~~~, too! Both vocal and hand sign language and she still talks about the stupid marriage.

-she gets disappointed every time I’m in a good mood but asks me what’s wrong every time I don’t. Talk about drama.

-she asks me too many questions. She wants to know everything I think about. VERY ANNOYING!!

-she wants to go everywhere I want to go. EVERYWHERE I go, she’s there. One time I rode my bike to the dollar general, she decided to arrive there in her car. Not a bad thing, but then she talks too much everywhere I go.

-She even talks to me in sign language every time I try to eat my damn food. Dinner, lunch, breakfast, even snacks. You can listen to your woman while you eat, but it’s worst to use your eyes on her to ensure she

-she interrupts by talking while I’m watching an interesting movie. Why can’t she talk while we watch these boring ass-kissing scenes in romantic movies?

-when she talks, she repeats the words after she hears them. For example, I said I wouldn’t watch it due to how ugly the Power Rangers costumes were in the new movie, and she would say the exact same thing making it seem like she had the same interest as I do.

Even after all of this s~~~ and then more, my dick still wants to boink her cuz of her cute 5’2 ft tall frame and size 5 feet and a face like Elisha Cuthbert.

Sometimes it feels like I’m in no place to speak here, cuz I let a girl live with me, but at the same time, I think it’s important for a lot of young men to know what it’s like to have a girlfriend to live with you.

I can’t imagine what it’s like to be married. Marriage doesn’t look good to me at all.

[Anonymous 3]

It gets better once you get married. Trust me, now go.

[joetechParticipant]

Now you see why we recommend against co-habitation. Lucky you.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 6]

Why are you putting up with all of that! That is one stinky relations~~~, you should ditch that bitch pronto and try to salvage what is left of your sanity!

[Anonymous 1]

List of things I don’t like:

1. Relations~~~s

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Well if you’ve read anything on this website you know any advice will be to dump her. But it’s good of you to make the list for any guys thinking about having a woman move in with them. Combine this thread with the earlier one on what it’s like living by yourself and you will see the clear winner: no cohabitation.

Order the good wine

[MeshakParticipant 280]

Let her go Bro. This type of behavior will change you and you won’t like the person you’ve become. Make the decision and tell her she has to move. This is the downside to living with someone. If they have their own place, you won’t be annoyed 24/7 by their annoying s~~~.

It will NOT get better, only worse.

Better yet, tell her you’re done AND she needs to move out. You’re in misery so just put yourself out of it.

Peace

Meshak

[Anonymous 13]

Get out now, rather than later.

Why waste anymore of your life on this going nowhere annoying relations~~~.

ALSO

It’s going to get a HUNDRED times worse.

They never get better, only worse.

All this before marriage too.

Imagine it after marriage with two crying kids.

Imagine it when she calls the cops and you then go to jail.

RUN.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

We all get what we tolerate. –TaxGuy.

Any other questions??

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 1]

Simple, show her the door throw her out

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Hate to break it to ya, But THESE are the Good Times !!

It’s Bad NOW, and It ONLY gets WORSE !!

I don’t know HOW or WHY YOU let this lil Cupcake move in, and it REALLY doesn’t matter, ALL that Matters is GETTING RID of HER ASAP !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 12]

How the f~~~ is a deaf person (lost her implant again…) allowed to drive!
What the firetruck are you doing to yourself!

List of things I don’t like in my relations~~~
get up and fix it by taking ONE action that fixes all of these symptioms: remove the Tumor.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Manboy87 wrote:

My gf still lives with me since she moved in a few months ago.

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

We all get what we tolerate. –TaxGuy.

Any other questions??

Damn right.

@manboy… if your girl is not an absolute delight to be around, dump her like an anchor. If she is not the kindest, most loving and enjoyable person you know, what are you doing putting up with it for more than 5 minutes??

Manboy87 wrote:

-constantly talks to me about marriage and I keep saying no. I had to explain to her over and over again on why I don’t want to marry. Everything I explained about not wanting to marry went into her ear and out the other. I signed to her about this s~~~, too! Both vocal and hand sign language and she still talks about the stupid marriage.

You know what I did once?

I wrote out my own marriage contract and I laid out EXACTLY what I expect – and what I am willing to do and I held nothing back. The #1 item on it was inspired by Einstein (yes the very genius) who also had it stipulated in his own marriage contract. So when the topic of “marriage” came up, I would hand it to her – with a pen.

Right at the top . . . .

#1. You will stop talking when I request it.

“LOL! You’re not serious”.

(with a big smile) “Oh, but I am. Not talking is asking nothing from you. It takes less effort and energy than applying lipstick. Compared to all the list of things you want and expect from your husband in order to be “happy”, if my bride is not even willing to DO NOTHING to please her husband . . . then she is simply not marriageable“.

Anonymous wrote:

List of things I don’t like in my relations~~~

/audio/no-compromise-get-out/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Bro, do you enjoy pain and agony? Do you lust for a chaotic life?

Here’s the next thing you say to you FCD.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Manboy87 wrote:

My gf still lives with me since she moved in a few months ago.

My experience with having a woman that lives in my home:

-laying on my couch as I’m typing in the morning right now, because she has serious hot flashes overnight, and I despise sleeping even a foot next to her. Uncomfortable to cuddle with her. It’s my second time sleeping on my couch by myself while a woman lives with me, and I actually had a peaceful sleep, no matter how uncomfortable my little couch is. I remember hearing that some husbands and wives slept separately which got me scratching my head before. Now I see why.

-she only works an hour or two a day, so I get annoyed by her being home all the time. I work at home, and now, considering moving my little office to somewhere further away from home so I’m not constantly interrupted about food while working. “What are we gonna eat for lunch?” “I want to cook chicken for dinner, is that okay?”

-the mess of her clothes, underwear, socks, work clothes all over my apartment, she even left her clothes on the side of my toilet.

-I told her to have a hobby so I can be left alone to work on my projects. Her hobby has always been picking her nose. Not even kidding. She has hot flashes, and constantly has mucus stuck up her nose somewhere, so she just picks her nose for hours every day. It’s her passion. She even picks her nose in front of the mirror.

-constantly tells me to take My dog out for potty, even though I always took her out every day for years before she moved in. She just likes to command me to do this even though she knew I always take her out. I kept reminding her she sounds too much like my mom, because it’s very unattractive to me that she tells me what to do. My mom can tell me to do chores for her cuz she’s getting old, but not my gf.

-more dishes to clean. I don’t have a dishwasher, so I’m forced to have to clean 2x more dishes. Worst when she “cooks” food, which causes 3x more dishes. She cleans my dishes, too, but she’s much slower at this.

-she sleeps too much. Naps too much.

-she farts more than I ever could in my entire life. Amazing how girly I feel when she farts more than I do. Again, hot flashes, humongous mucus stuck in her nose, too much yogurt she eats. Estrogen does that s~~~.

-she often looses her debit card, cochlear implant, wallet, or cell phone everywhere we go. We were lucky to find her things at the theater, mall, and a roller coaster place. Just yesterday, she lost her card again. Ridiculous.

-constantly talks to me about marriage and I keep saying no. I had to explain to her over and over again on why I don’t want to marry. Everything I explained about not wanting to marry went into her ear and out the other. I signed to her about this s~~~, too! Both vocal and hand sign language and she still talks about the stupid marriage.

-she gets disappointed every time I’m in a good mood but asks me what’s wrong every time I don’t. Talk about drama.

-she asks me too many questions. She wants to know everything I think about. VERY ANNOYING!!

-she wants to go everywhere I want to go. EVERYWHERE I go, she’s there. One time I rode my bike to the dollar general, she decided to arrive there in her car. Not a bad thing, but then she talks too much everywhere I go.

-She even talks to me in sign language every time I try to eat my damn food. Dinner, lunch, breakfast, even snacks. You can listen to your woman while you eat, but it’s worst to use your eyes on her to ensure she

-she interrupts by talking while I’m watching an interesting movie. Why can’t she talk while we watch these boring ass-kissing scenes in romantic movies?

-when she talks, she repeats the words after she hears them. For example, I said I wouldn’t watch it due to how ugly the Power Rangers costumes were in the new movie, and she would say the exact same thing making it seem like she had the same interest as I do.

Even after all of this s~~~ and then more, my dick still wants to boink her cuz of her cute 5’2 ft tall frame and size 5 feet and a face like Elisha Cuthbert.

Sometimes it feels like I’m in no place to speak here, cuz I let a girl live with me, but at the same time, I think it’s important for a lot of young men to know what it’s like to have a girlfriend to live with you.

I can’t imagine what it’s like to be married. Marriage doesn’t look good to me at all.

You work all the time and she works no time, and you’re the one sleeping on the couch? WTF? If she’s having hot flashes, then she’s in menopause and already into the “wall stage”. Hurry up and trade down. She’s your girlfriend, not your daughter. If she can’t contribute imo, you should kick her the fk out. Doing so will give her some level of responsibility. She’ll have to work full time to afford her own place.

[Manboy87Participant 68]

Wow. I read my post again. Felt like 4th grade level in English for some reason. Weird.

Cohabitation! That’s the word I should remember. Vaguely remember the word, cohabitation. Maybe that’s why I’m in a position I’m in now.

Mostly read about marriage, divorce, or s~~~ty dating but barely anything about cohabitation. I have read about living with a sister, or a female roommate, though.

I thought if I DON’T marry her, then I should be good as long as she lets me lead the way, but with the responses here… it worries me.

Kicking her out feels just as bad as cheating on her. Doesn’t feel right to just… kick her out.

Men feel more guilty cheating on her because of some kind of innocence she has. Kicking her out, like moving her things back into her car, and expect her to go live somewhere else even though she drove all the way across the state to live with me, feels more cruel. It just makes me feel like a bad guy if I do this. It’s not like she beat up my dog.

My gf is not that bad. Her character is a little different than hearing girls, cuz she’s a bit more submissive. In my experience, hearing girls were a lot more disrespectful to me compared to my current gf. She even pays half of my rent and some of my other bills. She also lets me drive her car, because I don’t have a car at this time. My new truck has mechanical problems.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

You need to learn by getting burn.

No skin off my nose if you don’t learn now. Do what you want, you know where to find us a few years later.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 12]

Manboy87 wrote:

My gf is not that bad. Her character is a little different than hearing girls, cuz she’s a bit more submissive. In my experience, hearing girls were a lot more disrespectful to me compared to my current gf. She even pays half of my rent and some of my other bills. She also lets me drive her car, because I don’t have a car at this time. My new truck has mechanical problems.

Needing a hearing aid is, as you describe, a huge game changer and shifts your relationship into a different sphere that most of us cannot understand.

I dare to ask you the question:
Where would she be if she did not have you?

Would she be able to live a life of her own, overcoming her weakspot and adapting to life?
Would she be able to have a job and hold it down for years at a time?
Pay rent or own a house and manage her finances, do the taxes and other bullshiet paperwork?
Would he be up to snuff when it comes to owning a circle of Friends and staying in touch with Family?

I somehow get the feeling you accept this weakness of hers, this handicap if you will,
because it makes her submissive and less bitchy.

However, the Price you pay is a life of a Dog that sleeps on the sofa, accepts excuses for her to basically be a stay at home woman useless, messy, and getting embarrassingly fatter by the day.
She needs you, so she is just a little bit less s~~~.

Following you around like a lost Dog who senses you have bones to share.

Wanting to marry you because nobody else will ever take her, and she knows it.

Come on, make an effort her with me, and draw her as a Caricature, everything dialed up to 11, past the point where we are nice, into the pain zone.

Because that is what life with her will be like: 2, 3, 4 more decades with her getting more and more attached, more and more nagging, more and more useless and dependent. Dare i picture a Landwhale in the making?

And the thing you get out of it is
“she nags less than the average, pays half my rent and lets me drive her car.”

I am not saying Dump her and move on, what i want you to do is look at yourself in the mirror.
And i also want you to find the answer to the question:

Why did you make this Topic?

It is an honest question i am trying to make you think here.
*I* do not need the answer, but *YOU* might need it badly.

Stop doing s~~~ and think for a moment or an hour.

[Remove me!Participant]

Dude,
Coming from a man who WAS married, I did 9 years in my tour of duty, I hope you made up half of the things on this list. My wife was deplorable, but I still didn’t have a list this long. The sex is only for a bit, you are giving up your mental health for the booty. Trust me, it ain’t worth it. Plus, you are being conditioned and trained. You will start getting used to being her bitch, then you will suddenly wake up and be a married bitch. Run, brother, run. Or just change the locks.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Manboy87 wrote:

My gf is not that bad.

Excuse me . . . . but NO.

You don’t give someone +points because they are “not that bad”. Just listen to yourself. That’s not a reason to stay with her – at all. That’s like taking another guy out for dinner, because he didn’t pull a knife on you.

REALLY?

A woman once who stayed with me for 4 days loaded the dishwasher, pressed button on an appliance, folded 2 loads of laundry, and put the dishes away. When I came home from work after leaving her to lounge in the sun all day, I made the mistake of being “blown away”.

But why?? Isn’t that the least she can do after I charioted her to and from the airport, prepared and paid for all meals, went grocery shopping and stocked everything, took her out and showed her good time and treated her like royalty?

NO.

Why do men do this? Why do men give intolerable women special points and recognition for being “not that bad”?

It’s because –>> most women are “not that great”.

Just because most women wouldn’t have folded my socks and towels doesn’t mean I should be “blown away” by one who does. Biggest mistake you can make.

Oh yeah. That’s why. Because your standards are so in the basement, you’ll tolerate a list of unacceptable s~~~ and justify it because she’s “not that bad”. Its’ time to up your standards , hombre. EXPECT MORE FROM HER. Immediately.

Don’t stay in a “relations~~~” – which you describe spell out as “s~~~” – because she’s “not that bad”. She needs to be no less than f~~~ing fantastic and better than every other woman you can be in a relationship with.

She’s not. And you know she’s not.

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Women know it too. They think batting their eyelashes or just being friendly on a basic level is “so nice”. They think not flaking on a date or showing up at all is “special”. They think allowing you to buy her dinner is a “privilege”. They think only taking $3 million + property when she could have taken you for much more is doing the husband a FAVOR.

Imagine as a man, what level of arrogance is required for that. To think that you’re “better” and deserve special recognition for NOT going to prison or committing a crime.

… and they are laughing at men for believing it.
You can hear her snickering too.

It’s because manboys (no offense) have allowed women to really do not much of anything at all, to warrant working one year of your life to afford a useless ring so you can KNEEL DOWN and ask her for her permission to love her until death.

See how stupid it is?

It’s a “relations~~~” until you decide it’s not. But when you’re talking about your girlfriend like she is “not that bad”, it’s time to reevaluate. PRONTO.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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