Like mother, like daughter

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Ten years ago, I dated a single mother with two daughters.
After a year and a half, it was going downhill fast, so I left.
Fast forward to yesterday, I was walking through Target.
I run into the older daughter, now 19 or 20.
She’s pushing a shopping cart with a small child, and PREGNANT.
She gives me a big hug, and tells me how much she misses me.
She says “You’re the only man that ever cared about me and my sister.”
I felt strangely panicked, I had to get out of there as quick as I could.
I said “I’m already running 15 minutes late, so I have to go.”
She gives me another hug, and says “I hope I get to see you again.”
I said “OK”, and got the hell out of there.
I’ve been down that road, I’m sure as hell not backtracking.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

F~~~ Yeah……….Run like f~~~ Brother – well done for avoiding ANY more interaction than was necessary! She was casting you the bait to somehow wind you back in with her mother, or even worse maybe her!?

Young mgtow’s here – whatever your girlfriends ‘appears’ to be, she WILL end up being/looking/acting, just like her mother – and if you’re already thinking, yeah maybe so, but her mother is cool and all that s~~~e etc etc, STOP and THINK, and then do as our brother did above, RUN LIKE F~~~!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[NeoSe7enParticipant 112]

“Young mgtow’s here – whatever your girlfriends ‘appears’ to be, she WILL end up being/looking/acting, just like her mother.”

This is 100% factual/spot on. If you want to see what your gal will look like in a few years, spend some quality time with her mom. If she is a raging bitch/cat hoarder/iceberg—guess what your darling little snookums is just around the corner from being?

Not your circus, not your monkeys. Run like hell.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

NeoSe7en wrote:

“Young mgtow’s here – whatever your girlfriends ‘appears’ to be, she WILL end up being/looking/acting, just like her mother.”
This is 100% factual/spot on. If you want to see what your gal will look like in a few years, spend some quality time with her mom. If she is a raging bitch/cat hoarder/iceberg—guess what your darling little snookums is just around the corner from being?
Not your circus, not your monkeys. Run like hell.

The “daughter becoming her mother” thing is so spot on, it’s ridiculous. One of my abusive exs was already becoming like her mother over a year into the relationship, and was physically and verbally abusive to me…and I knew her mom was abusive to her in the same way. This is something to avoid like the plague.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

The code word I use for my ex when I’m talking to my buddies is: “the apple”.

Code for her mother? You guessed it! “The tree”.

…Why oh why didn’t i see it coming?

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Spot on, but if my X was like her mother, then she would be a nice woman. In fact, my mother-in-law is a good woman, as she is from a generation not yet tainted by feminsm.

She was hard-working (she is retired now a good 5 years), easy-going, that like her house shining like a diamond ring, cooked like a pro, too. She now is married to a nice man (a little older than her, she became a widow about 6 or 7 years ago). A really fine woman.

But, her daughter is spoiled, she want to have it all, and no consequences. The typical c~~~.

Anyway, I don’t want to disprove the theory. I am just pointing an exception.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[OldBillParticipant]

My father didn’t share much with me, it was a generational thing. He did share a few observations with me, however, that have always stuck with me.

First: “If at first you don’t understand something, follow the money.”
Second: “Sooner or later, you have to talk with them.” (In reference to choosing women solely on looks.)
Third: “No matter how beautiful she is, there’s someone somewhere sick of her s~~~.”
And in response to this thread: The turd doesn’t fall too far from the bird

Finally, my grandmother once dropped an observation that stunned me: “If a women isn’t any good in the kitchen, the chances are she isn’t any good in any other room in the house either.”

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[HitmanParticipant]

Yep..next stop, c~~~sville!.

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