Light at the end of the tunnel

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

And i dont think it is a train.

I started my MGTOW journey about 6-8 months ago. Roll led me here in a roundabout fashion. Many of you have read my ongoing story through my posts here.

Yesterday my wife finally left. An incident this past week brought to light planned infidelity and schemes behind my back, and I called her on it. After telling her we were separating, the excuses and lies continued, up until she was about to leave, when the truth started to hit her.

I am still losing, as I will have to support this for now, but my house was quiet and peaceful last night.

I am hopeful this is the end of the tunnel approaching, as I believe I can see a future now.

Now, to go start my first full day alone!

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

TAKE THE DAY OFF FROM WORK AND ARRANGE TO HAVE ALL YOUR LOCKS CHANGED TODAY !!!

PACK ALL HER S~~~, AND PUT IT IN A SAFE SPACE OUTSIDE THE HOUSE TODAY !!!

She’s gone NOW, the trick is to Keep Her Gone !!

SHE WILL COME KREEPING BACK, YOU NEED TO AVOID ANY CONTACT BECAUSE SHE WILL CALL THE POLICE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Gerald: Enjoy it, but be ready. Next comes the shaming, stabbing you in the back with everyone you both know, and the lawyers. You’ve most likely got a long year or so ahead of you. But the feeling at the end of that s~~~storm is 100 times better than how you feel right now.

You can also expect her to be nostalgic at times. “It’s a shame we couldn’t make it work.” That’s a s~~~ test to see if she can still manipulate you. She may even be bolder and try to monkey branch back to you when she can’t find a better branch. Because a guy that will knowingly bang a married chick isn’t a better branch. He will flake on her after dropping a couple of quarts of jizz down her throat and she’ll feel like the whore she is. Be ready for all of it. Keep it civil but short. NO is your new best friend.

Enjoy the feeling you have right now and understand that it’s even better when the papers are signed. I can’t even begin to tell you the feeling I had walking out of the court house with a notarized divorce decree.

Good luck sir.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 43]

change the locks
change banks and credit card numbers
change phone number
change bedroom furniture
pack up all her s~~~
leave it at a storage place, one month paid
give her the key and 30 days to pick it up
restraining order
new email address

Go through the house and remove all traces

never speak to her again without a lawyer present
do not text
do not email
do not talk to anyone she sends with a message

your reply is silence.

Woot! you go boi!

[AttonParticipant]

Throttle the s~~~ out of that diesel electric locomotive and get to the end of the tunnel.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[HitmanParticipant]

Do what the fine men have listed.
And if you must communicate with her,always use text or email. Save all texts with a backup app.
No talking on phone as she can accuse you of anything.
Protect yourself brother. .and congrats on your new freedom.
NEVER GO BACK! !!

[Anonymous 13]

Great news.

Now get a bodycam.

Seriously.

[Anonymous 6]

Do what these men have suggested. The one thing that I’ve learned about the fellas who are on this website is that they are the real deal, they KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE. Please listen to them!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

What the other guys say is true but that’s about dealing with her. Think about dealing with yourself. It’s a big change.
After my divorce and she left, I was alone. It’s a weird, awkward and sometimes disturbing feeling. Ride it out. I would leave the TV on all day just to help cope with the change. Expect some odd feelings and don’t give in to the negative ones. You can get weak at times and find yourself slipping in to old bluepill thinking. Once you get over the hump it’s like being born again. You take control of your life and own everything you do. Your confidence triples.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Well mem, thank you all for the advice and thoughts. Am doing one better I think, and moving.

I am near the end of the month, and think I can get out of my lease, so am going to just move I think.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Space is your friend. Stay strong brother! Keep us in the loop

[OldBillParticipant]

Congratulations, Gerald. We’re all happy for you.

Let me strongly that you read the suggestions made by both May 7th and SpiritRR. While the actions they suggest may seem extreme, the personal wisdom they are sharing with you was gained though their own personal horrors. They have already lived through what you may very well be facing in the future.

Heed their warnings and be prepared.

We’re all pulling for you.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Gerald, congrats on your new found liberation!

Stay strong and like the wise men above have suggested – do these things to protect yourself.

In addition – busy yourself with some positive hobbies. Hike, run, read, garden – some things to get you outside and healthy. Keeping your body worked out will ease your mind as well.

Don’t do like I’ve done in the past and crawl into the bottle or the beer can! That has been my mode of coping and trust me – it only brings you further down.

Reach out if you need us.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I kicked my cheating wife out the day after Christmas, joined MGTOW 7/Feb/17. Nothing about taking the red pill is easy but perhaps the positive side to the pain is that we learn from it and grow wiser. I am only starting to discover my freedom and it came with it’s bumps, there may be more. We can not only survive but we can flourish as better men than we were before.

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