Lifelong Mghow here, new to the manosphere.

[K1W1007Participant 19]

Hi brothers,

I’m a lifelong 43 yr old Kiwi MGHOW, although I have been in 3 LTRs over the years. (3yrs each 2 were LDRs) However, I have never been engaged or married. I asked my GF to marry me when I was 24 but thank f~~~ she said NO as we were too young! She saved me from the plantation!

As an ESL Teacher, I have travelled overseas for many years starting up projects to deliver technical training in English for foreigners, such as Saudi Arabia, Thailand and currently, China. (Of course I’m using a VPN as MGTOW.COM is blocked here lol) I often travel, so LTRs were off the table for practical reasons mostly. However, I lived in the UK for years and it was there when I had my first RP moment. My GF at the time asked me what I thought of a jar full of pebbles to put near the fireplace which cost around $20! I knew then, that marriage and women’s BS was just not for me. I dumped her ass and never looked back.

As a young guy, I traveled all round the world, the USA Asia, Europe etc. and had an absolute blast. I always felt the pressure form society to be in an LTR though, so I would seek that even though I knew I didnt really make me happy or content apart from regular sex. Every time I got to the 3 year mark though, I had this little voice telling me, “This is bulls~~~, you’re giving half your s~~~ to someone just for being nice to you?” I guess some of us are just natural MGTOWs who don’t cave to pressure.

Once I discovered Tom Leyksis and Bill Burr et al. I knew I was a confirmed bachelor. Although I have had relationships during that time, I never committed fully, and always had an exit strategy in mind. I was still blue pill in the sense that I didn’t know about the feminist agenda etc. but I essentially started going my own way when I was in my mid thirties.

I’m certainly a ‘moderate’ MGHOW, in that I don’t shun women or avoid them. But of course, I’ll never marry or have an LTR and I don’t actively date or do pickup. My focus now is building a future with my (extended) family in NZ as I wan’t to live Asian-style where we all share resources and live close by as we did in the past. I think this is a positive way for MGTOW to build wealth and a support structure without some f~~~ing wife dominating the home, and claiming the wealth as hers with little input.

Anyway, I hope I can be of some support or inspiration for younger MGTOW here and look forward to being part of the community.

Stay strong brothers,

K1W1

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you! I feel a more subtle approach to women is indispensable for a good life in our society today. I, too do not shun women but I do not take seriously anything they say. I spent a lot of time with hurt & rage & it doesn’t pay off. There is no upside to it from my point of view.Thank you again for posting. I am new here, but I have been aware of the feminist BS for years.I come & go as I please. Stay aware and remember somewhere there’s a beautiful woman & a man whose tired of f~~~ing her. The best thing a woman has is man’s imagination. I am awake now, the long sleep has ended. Thanks again

[K1W1007Participant 19]

Thanks Johnny

Stay strong brother

[Anonymous 6]

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to the manly end of the manisphere!

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

K1W1007 wrote:

I guess some of us are just natural MGTOWs who don’t cave to pressure.

Welcome to mgtow and interesting you say that because aside from the external influences, I think mgtow can also be genetic. I have quite a few family members who are mgtow so it might run in the genes or something.

Back in the day I tried multiple times trying to conform and it never worked out well so I’m just going to keep things that’s more natural to me.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[MACHOParticipant]

Joey Alfio wrote:

Back in the day I tried multiple times trying to conform and it never worked out well so I’m just going to keep things that’s more natural to me

Men are born leaders! It’s in our genes! Females suffer from penis envy so.. They keep on trying to enslave us all!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, K1W1
Beer’s in the fridge

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

K1W1007 wrote:

Anyway, I hope I can be of some support or inspiration for younger MGTOW here and look forward to being part of the community.

Looking forward to this.

Welcome to the forums.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[AttonParticipant]

A man who values what he has created a sane man indeed.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[K1W1007Participant 19]

Yeah, there is some truth in that I think. However, I have an uncle who went MGTOW years ago but he’s just a bitter old drunk now who thinks everyone is against him. I guess for those guys they didnt have he tools, support or knowledge that we have so they couldn’t get past red pill rage abd turn it into positive outcomes. Another younger cousin is MGTOW but he is much more content, so I think the age plays a part also.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Welcome Kiwi, it’s sad the UK has opted to ban this site at the provider level, they don’t realize they can’t stop what’s taking place by banning websites, especially not in the UK, so many of our brothers call it home.

See you around the forums.

[K1W1007Participant 19]

Thanks bro

Well here in China where I’m working now is brutal. These guys are so blue pill it’s wild. But woman are also in that they must also get married by 27 or be ostracised as ‘leftover women’. So everybody is blue pill here. I guess they pretty much blanket censor most western websites without really knowing the content. However, China does have a problem with ‘house boys’ or ‘herbivore’ men as they call them in Japan. Not MGTOW, pretty much incels who just play games 24/7. Can’t wait to get out of here!

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