life of a white knight?

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

Hey ,

 

I got a visit for the ex-wife who  came over tonight and lectures me on how I behind on child support. I tell her she will have to wait. I should be up to date with all my payments by the end of summer. I think she is stressing out about money ( or the lack of it). I love how in one breath she is crying how she has absolutely no money for the kids school supplies but in the next breath is bragging about how she is taking the kids to this water park and that amusement park with the season pass she bought around this past Christmas. Even with the pass, its still at least a $100 to $150 for the day with the gas, tolls and food.

This was followed by how wonder her life is since she moved out a few weeks ago. She is a great role model for mother of the year (has the boyfriend who she has been seeing since last years staying over 4 nights a week). It was the typical conversation ( your a deadbeat, loser, asshole,..etc.. etc). The best part of it was how she had me on speaker talking to me like this with the new boyfriend listen in. I said “oh great, that fantastic!! I wonder how long before he realizes this will be his future!!! The look on her face was priceless!!

I have come to a conclusion that people who have to bolster themselves up on the internet and brag on how great their life is cry for help on how pathetic their lives really are. I wonder how long before her white knight in shining armor realizes the life he has created  for himself is a p~~~ poor choice?  But hey what do I give a s~~~, he got me my freedom.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Let the white knights burn with the one’s they are trying to save!!! My skin crawls when I see these type of half men act the way they do,I was on a public transit commute when a women boarded with 3 kids ( assuming how they look from 2 fathers) some guy says “How can a father let the mother of his kid’s take transit,even if I had a car I would let her drive while I take transit”,I couldn’t believe my ears, he’s saying even though her careless self centered azz made her bed he should lay in it. There is always some desperate guy that will take some used vagina in and it gives hope to the other’s while hurting the game for men smh……

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Legend of the SamuraiParticipant 67]

If she needs money for your kids why is she spending more than what she has my mother raised me on her own and was able to do it fine she really shouldn’t be attacking you for the money sure its child support but I hate it when women get pregnant then run and try to make the father pay for it entirely while they spend their money and bulls~~~ and cry about it I applaud you for being able to catch up being behind is not a bad thing the fact that your trying to catch up is amazing and proves that fathers aren’t the stereotype dead beat that Feminists and White Knights try to claim

Oh give me land lots of land under the starry skies above but dont fence me in

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

This is one of the major reasons why we filed for bankruptcy chapter 7 a few years ago ( thank god for that!!). It’s a matter of learning to live with in your means and actually save money. Am I at partial fault ?..yes .. Do I take full responsibility for how another person spends both of us into the poor house when there is limited amount of money coming in and doesn’t pool their money into the household expenses??… HELL NO.

Will her white knight  try and save her?.. s~~~ yeah!!!.   He will only learn after he has realized she has drained all of his resources (time and money) on a family that was not his!! I loved the tonight’s speech of ” I would have stayed married to you if you were making money and able to support your family”. It only goes to show how she saw me  just  as a ATM machine!! I said this was the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. No more sleeping on a couch for 8 freaken years without sex. Gone are tha daily ” you suck speeches!!  I welcome freedom with open arms.

You  know who is to blame for that?   F~~~N me!!! I let it happened because of societies standard of you  stay in a bad sexless, loveless marriage because that what has been drilled into your head. P~~~ poor blue pill thinking!! Swallowing the red pill is a very difficult thing to do, but at least you get to see the world for what it truly is!!

[Anonymous 5]

I can’t wait to hear how this story ends later. There is two options:

1. He is a blue pill mangina and she is golddigging him. When he runs out of money, she leaves him for the next guy.

2. He is a just using her for sex and once she starts trying to golddig him, he bolts.

Either way, you win in the end because she will always be unhappy no matter what she does. Then as she gets older, she won’t even be able to find a guy to use her for sex haha.

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

Anonymous wrote:

I can’t wait to hear how this story ends later. There is two options: 1. He is a blue pill mangina and she is golddigging him. When he runs out of money, she leaves him for the next guy. 2. He is a just using her for sex and once she starts trying to golddig him, he bolts. Either way, you win in the end because she will always be unhappy no matter what she does. Then as she gets older, she won’t even be able to find a guy to use her for sex haha.

I would go for option #2. I think he will dump her after he gets fed up with all of her and the kids  crap. She is already telling the kids– don’t give him a hard time, you know how hard it will be for a mom with multiple kids to find a guy to stick around? ( yes they are all mine)

Yes she will be unhappy no matter what she does. I see it already. She got a house her parents bought her ( sorry loaned her the money for–aka they hold the mortgage), the kids ( who are starting to drive her crazy) and the boyfriend ( for how long no one know).

I just need to stay focused on the future and no be sucked into my past!!

[peterfaParticipant 833]

Since I decided just to tell women what I think of them on the Internet, I notice my sex life has practically not changed at all, and I get the same abuse from men and women. Turns out, if you try, they call you a creep, if you don’t try, they call you a jerk. The difference is now you’re in control.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Bright guy wrote:

It only goes to show how she saw me  just  as a ATM machine!! I

That is all we are, wallets,

Women are money addicts and they need their fix, they spend and spend it, and then, over time, they need even more because the old amount doesn’t satisfy them, they look for more and more money while riding the carousel,

and then they hit the wall,  and they can no longer support this money addiction, this is their “moment of clarity”

This is when you hear “Where have all the good men gone?”

This is when, we as men, laugh.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

BD wrote:

Bright guy wrote:

It only goes to show how she saw me just as a ATM machine!! I

That is all we are, wallets, Women are money addicts and they need their fix, they spend and spend it, and then, over time, they need even more because the old amount doesn’t satisfy them, they look for more and more money while riding the carousel, and then they hit the wall, and they can no longer support this money addiction, this is their “moment of clarity” This is when you hear “Where have all the good men gone?” This is when, we as men, laugh.

Hey BulletDodger,

you forgot one thing answer– Daddy I need more money!!!  ..lol ..Their moment of clarity comes when they hit the wall and Daddy is either no longer willing or is no longer around  to fed their money addiction.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Good point Bright,

You’re much better off without her, Ignore her as much as possible,

I can’t even count how many times I’d have a woman living with me, her endless droning voice spewing mindless irrelevant boring bulls~~~, and how I would have given anything for some peace and quiet,

We now have it, and ain’t it great. Life is good.

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[WolfParticipant 890]

BD wrote:

I can’t even count how many times I’d have a woman living with me, her endless droning voice spewing mindless irrelevant boring bulls~~~, and how I would have given anything for some peace and quiet.

We now have it, and ain’t it great. Life is good.

I can relate. Amen to some peace and quiet!

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

BD wrote:

Good point Bright, You’re much better off without her, Ignore her as much as possible, I can’t even count how many times I’d have a woman living with me, her endless droning voice spewing mindless irrelevant boring bulls~~~, and how I would have given anything for some peace and quiet, We now have it, and ain’t it great. Life is good.

It was a slow day for her yesterday.  I only got 20 text message..2 emails and a visit. Do you think something is wrong with her?..lol.. I thought the point  of divorce  was to get away from each other.i guess she didn’t get the notice with the divorce  papers she served me..

I love the texts and emails saying  if I don’t set up a payment  schedule she will mail my mother and brothers  the status of my arrears with my child support.  I would think this is almost getting to the point of stalking or harassment. Sometimes you just can’t fix crazy!!!

 

 

[WolfParticipant 890]

Bright guy wrote:

It was a slow day for her yesterday.  I only got 20 text message..2 emails and a visit. Do you think something is wrong with her?..lol.. I thought the point  of divorce  was to get away from each other.i guess she didn’t get the notice with the divorce  papers she served me..

There has to be a better way. If you ignore all these text messages, emails and calls, what will (or can) she do?

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

Wolf wrote:

 There has to be a better way. If you ignore all these text messages, emails and calls, what will (or can) she do?

She will come over and start in with me in the house. Here is an example of her craziness:– On Sunday I take my youngest son to his friends birthday party. I leave after being there for 4 hours because I have to meet up with some coworkers to hitch a ride to another state for training. We both agreed I would take my sonn back to her house by 630 ( which I did). In the car with my coworkers,I  kept getting text message on how upset my son was that he didn’t get any birthday cake. (I left the party early but the kids parents gave him two larger cupcakes, 8 brownies and 3 large cookies). When I didn’t answer her or the phone I got a voicemail stating I will not be taking my kids because I need to explain what happened at the party with my son.

I sent her picture of my son at the party the next day having a great time.  You can’t fix crazy.

[Bright guyParticipant 156]

I wonder if her action as considered to covered by stalking laws?

[BDParticipant 1146]

Bright guy wrote:

I love the texts and emails saying  if I don’t set up a payment  schedule she will mail my mother and brothers  the status of my arrears with my child support.  I would think this is almost getting to the point of stalking or harassment. Sometimes you just can’t fix crazy!!!

Bright guy wrote:

She will come over and start in with me in the house. Here is an example of her craziness:

You are not married to her so she has no control over you. Don’t open your door. Your only transaction with her is the children. I would consider a camera for any encounters.

Bright guy wrote:

When I didn’t answer her or the phone I got a voicemail stating I will not be taking my kids because I need to explain what happened at the party with my son.

I hope you still have this voice mail. This is important. This issue has no relevance to you taking the kids, this is her manipulating you, and it may even be illegal. I’m not very knowledgeable about child custody. I would expect more antics from her and it would be wise of you to document it, at least in some sort of diary, and save that message. It would be wise for you to know your rights, and don’t let her get away with anything. Never deal with her yourself, ignore her as much as possible, instead, use the appropriate authorities.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Two words: Restraining. Order.

Get one. You’re divorced. Make certain she understands what that means. And I do mean ALL that that means.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

White Knights are funny … dangerous …. but funny.

[MantelarParticipant 77]

i recommend reminding her that you’re divorced now and you think its best you establish some boundaries.  you can of course, do what you like, but i recommend not letting her in your house, any longer.  emails and text should be civil and to the point.  save all of them, no matter how much they disgust you.  keep conversations on the kids, and when she brings up money, do your best not to contribute – its pointless trying to explain to her anything about money because she’s not going to change.  like it or not, she’s going to be living hand-to-mouth forever and no amount of money is ever going to fix it for her or your kids, unfortunately.  just get caught up on your payments, best you can and don’t give her a dime more.  not ever.  you’re better off burning your money.

i never talk with women about money.  its a losing conversation.  since they have nothing to offer, the best you can do is +$0.00.  i realize you can’t avoid it entirely…she’s still dumping on you pretty badly.  its using up you time, which she obviously thinks she’s entitled to take and use whenever she likes, and that’s every bit as bad as her taking your money.  if your message is simple and consistent, it will sink in soon enough.  maybe try – i’m sorry but that’s just not my problem anymore.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Mantelar wrote:

emails and text should be civil and to the point

And by civil and to the point he means they should regularly be screened by your lawyer and filed for historic purposes such in the case that they are ever needed again to be used as fuel/propellant/ flack to light a small fire in her panties.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

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