Letter to judge

[bih13Participant 2]

Hello my MGTOW brothers,

I am in need of your advice. I have a temporary hearing coming up on the 20th of this month. My lawyer has asked that I write a letter to the judge including anything I would want the Judge to know, what I want and why. So my question are:: Is there anything specific I should avoid saying? Are there certain things I should bring up that would put me on the good side of the judge?

I haven’t seen my son in almost a year, and I really don’t want to mess anything up so I’m kinda nervous about what to write. It doesn’t help that my ex stated I abused her so she ran away. My lawyer has done a good job so far in defending me from her accusations, but I really need the judge to see me in a good light. Thanks in advance.

[Anonymous 42]

Not allot of details, but in a letter to a judge never lie or try to bulls~~~ them, and never divulge any incriminating information about yourself. It’s best to show all the positives and omit the negatives, and if you actually did something wrong, at least show some remorse and put aside any pride. Good luck on seeing your kid, I hope it goes your way!

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

I hope your kids love you so much they desire to be with you- did not happen to me– she dished me out as bad dad so get a good lawyer,
Funny that this lawyer wants a letter from you, they only usually want your money, not a single other thing from you.
Maybe don’t even write a letter? I don’t know, the courts are completely feministic.
I ask God to help you because of children, just saying don’t get your hopes up, what terrible advice i give you with my experience.
cheers.

[HitmanParticipant]

bro , let the judge know that you love your children , wish to be able to see them regularly , like ” how i have prayed for the chance to play catch with my son / or how i wish i could bring my kids for ice-cream on a warm afternoon ” start with how you work hard , manage your finances well and even if money is tight , how you wish to ” go for walks/ bike rides ..help them with homework , make popcorn ,spend time reading with them ” etc…keep it simple , paint yourself in a really good light , WITHOUT over-doing it …how you pray for their well being every evening , and that it would be terrific for the kids to see their dad as well as taking some of any stress from their mom , so she can have more free time while they are with you ….good luck ! listen to your heart , hope that helped even a little.

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

hitman!
oldest girl 23 shacked up 4 years commerce job.
son 22 going http://www.norcat.org/common-core-training/
youngest 17 shacked up on welfare with zero respect for the man.
NOTHING to further discuss in these courts. Except they want money.
2008 is long gone.
I am history with these kids.
Redundant.
Cheers bros.

[HitmanParticipant]

just hoping this guy may have a chance ..sorry to hear what you shared bro, i got the one child i see alot , for now anyway..future unknown..

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

hitman, i agree hope he gets a fair shake, love you man, signing off.
cheers.

[HitmanParticipant]

goodnight brother..

[bih13Participant 2]

Great advice guys, I appreciate it. I do have a lot I want to write about, but I like the point you made hitman, about making it easier for the ex wife. It makes it seem like I really don’t have to fuss about crap with her, just focusing on the baby.

Stopmockinman, bro thats really tough. I’m really sorry you had to go through that. Since loosing my son I’ve learned the concept of just moving forward. No matter what or how hard, you gotta try to keep moving forward. Better yourself in any way that will come in handy in the future. Including emotionally. I’ll keep you in my prayers brother.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

If the wife convinced the children that you are a piece of s~~~ (which I can almost guarantee she did), you’re going to have a tough battle to face.

Show your financial responsibility, your care as a father, sacrifices you will make. Paint the picture that you are not the monster she made you out to be.

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