Let The Anger Go

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

When I first found this place a long time ago (I am one of the first 5,000 members back when the regular poster rate was about 2% or 100 active posters) –

I created a profile, read a lot of topics, did not post an introduction, and waited 14 months before my first post [That tragically resulted in me getting pounded, ripped apart and thrown to the wolves. LOL]

Back to focus: What caused me to wait 14 months before ever posting was all of the anger.

No. NOT MY ANGER. The unbridled anger I observed here. I was not angry. Lacked any ‘red pill rage’. I was lost, confused and broken. Psychologically and emotionally, every ounce of energy had to be directed towards my survival. I never had the luxury (yeah, I just said that: luxury) of being able to channel or direct any energy towards being angry.

And some of the anger (towards women) that I witnessed here ranges from genuine, honest frustration masked as anger in some men’s final act of breaking free. Justified. . . Considering the stories I have read here, yes. Justified. However when it begins to look like four year olds throwing temper tantrums on a playground because their favorite toy was taken away (pussy) and / or there are subtle or even open, proud thoughts of violence (real or preferred) towards women then it just starts to get ridiculous and pathetic.

That’s when some kids on the playground need to grow the f~~~ up. And it’s sad hanging out with them.

Now, in closing and rather than go into every aspect of MGTOW philosophy:

If I met an orangutan and we hung out for a few months together and I invested a considerable amount of time teaching her to play Beethoven’s fifth concerto in E minor and my efforts proved futile, I wouldn’t get angry. It’s just not possible for an orangutan to do that.

I don’t get angry that my dog has cost me $5,800 in vet related bills in the last year and a half and he has not gone out and got a job to help pay those bills. He’s an 8lb toy breed cotton ball. No business is going to hire him. He would be horribly ineffective at security. Could never calm down enough to work detecting drugs or explosives, etc And none of those jobs would even pay him.

I don’t get angry that pigs cannot fly. Elephants can’t change the oil in my Jeep or that chinchillas are unable to give me profitable stock advice.

Women. Inherently. By the very nature of who and what they are:

Are incapable of unconditional love. Do not experience true and genuine empathy & remorse. Are self absorbed, narcissistic, manipulative and psychologically disordered.

They cannot under any circumstances, ever be what a man would hope or desire them to be.

Period.

Acceptance of that enables any residual anger to be released and let go of.

Let The Anger Go

[Anonymous 3]

Great post!

Not only that, we have expectations on how the world should be (fantasy) instead of how he really is (reality).
The disillusion (the end of illusion) is traumatic and anger inducing.

Yet things are as they are. We have to make the best of what we got.

Acceptance brings peace, while sometimes also brings a lack of motivation. Pussy is a hell of a motivator, if you lose that motivation you realize something: what is it that intrinsically drives you?

What is it that you want and will work for?

Its a new world, and a scary one.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

Anonymous wrote:

what is it that intrinsically drives you?

Engaging in hardcore anal with death when jumping out of planes and surviving.

Turning death into my bitch.

I will in fact die someday.

But prior to that day – That ONE time that death finally got what it wanted, I’ll be laughing over how many times I f~~~ed it.

F~~~ed it hard. Teased it first and it came up empty every time leading up to final time when it gets me.

But it will be funny because I cheated it so many times prior.

Never fear something. Once you fear it then it owns you. Every minute of every day.

Embrace fear. Grab it’s hair, pull back hard. Whisper in it’s ear that she’s a slut. Then f~~~ fear.

[bladeParticipant]

F~~~ living life all serious and s~~~ you will end up been apart of the heart attack club .

As i have swallowed the redpill and getting older i try to stand clear of drama .

ANGER CONSUMES THOSE THAT HOLD IT .

Everyone gets angry including myself it is human nature , normal , natural, enviromental whats around you .

Its what you do with the anger and how to use it productively not destructively . I think this plays apart in men who have been brought up by single mothers . They don’t know what to do with there anger because they haven’t been in a home or tribal enviroment .

F~~~ times have changed but i won’t , i adapt to the enviroment i choose to live in . I am responsible for me . If i can admit my faults to myself . LOOK AT THEM . LEARN FROM THEM . LAUGH AT THEM . MOVE ON FROM THEM . BUT NEVER FORGET THEM LESSONS LEARNED .

ANGER can bring mistakes . Think before acting . Been an angry c~~~ makes you tired as well . Energy that can be better used elsewhere.

HUMOR IS DYING and so are smiles . Smiles think back .

Something funny for any c~~~ who is angry or p~~~ed off . Keeping it on the skyo theme . Lol .

Runs 2:00

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Awesome Sky-O.

There is alot of chatter here that just takes a dump on women. I’m one of the lucky ones who has not had my heart ripped out by the chicka chickas, and the experiences of others here has filled in the gaps of my experience.

The main reason I landed here was actually more to do with manginas, especially younger men around age 30 who were still worshipping the golden gash and at the same time acting like women by bitching and backstabbing a brother instead of acting like a homie and being a brothers keeper.

I guess I was on quest to discover why these blue pill morons were so f~~~ed up and bitch faced f~~~heads, and at the same time why half of them treated their woman like s~~~ also. I guess what I am saying is that these pussy whipped bastards were being c~~~y as f~~~ at the expense of a relations~~~ they seemed not satisfied with.

To me manginas trying to out-alpha the other men are some of the biggest cuck f~~~s in the game. Basically they were my crazy bitch repellant as the ones who had so called made it were not selling the green grass on the other side.

Armed with red pill knowledge, I have been able to rethink the whole game and stop taking life so seriously. Letting go of the rage and understanding the myth of the unicorn has shifted my focus and energy soul deep, and allow me to move on from broken dreams and GMOW in terms of what’s best for me and not trying to live up to other peoples expectations.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[bladeParticipant]

Should put this on a thread of its own but i this is a good place for it . Its pretty cool .

Redpill phases we are all at different points in our journeys. Its healthy to vent on here rather than out there and end up in the s~~~

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[StealthParticipant 5373]

Great post.

Thank you.

Anger is a virtue of war.

It’s a seemingly appropriate response to injustice. Some of us experienced actual violence from our partners, from our families, from the state, in our honorable service of each of the above, and were literally left for dead. Robbed of years of our working life. Like Maximus in the film Gladiator. Who lost it. Consumed with anger. Gave his life up in pursuit of revenge. For some men, that is worth it. Was he a four year old throwing a temper tantrum? Depends on how you look at it. But he was also fighting to restore the state.

The desire to return that violence or larceny seems natural and to some real extent if it were legal would provide a check on it continuing to happen. Instead, citizens are left powerless to defend themselves from opportunistic divorce.

If you are separated from instilling balance, exorcising that anger can be tricky.

You could bury all anger from sight and wear a mask of apathy, Listen to the voices that want to control you by saying that’s just how it goes and you are a hapless martyr, your days/years don’t count, and getting robbed is nothing to get worked up about.

A seemingly better move is to learn from it. Learn that your parents, your pastor, your spouse, friends, even God himself, have all lied to you, have made a game of seeing how far you’ll go, and to never trust them again. Wasn’t it you who signed your own self up for the hanging? Yes, but it was sold to you as something else. Well now you know better and everything you’ve ever done down that road was the practice of your own death. Imagine what your life could have been had it not been stolen from you by other people you had no control over. If you’re just lucky, you might have one more chapter left before you croak.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Well. GO your own way. GLad it works for you.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Anonymous 3]

Stealth wrote:

The desire to return that violence or larceny seems natural and to some real extent if it were legal would provide a check on it continuing to happen. Instead, citizens are left powerless to defend themselves from opportunistic divorce.

If you are separated from instilling balance, exorcising that anger can be tricky.

Yes, that is the core of the issue, isnt it?

If you could have your retribution without consequences, then balance would be restore in society as well. Because people would think twice before trying to destroy a man’s life.

But as it is, we have been robbed of retribution as well. Not only by the law, but by our own principles!

So, this is an untenable situation. Balance is not restore because vengeance is denied under the penalty of loss of liberty or soul.

So, we are presented with a choice:
– chose vengeance anyway, probably going out in a blaze of glory (not so glorious when it happens, but that is what we think).
– move on and remake our life as best as we can.

The problem is when people do neither. They do not exert revenge, because they are restricted by law and values, neither they carry on with their life, because they are burning in the fires of injustice.

Acceptance is easy to speak, but hard to do. I personally like to reframe things as a learning experience. The had lessons are those that I refused to learn the easy way.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

‘Retribution without consequences’

Not even possible

None of you have learned yet.

After all of the heartbreak, anguish and pain:

Dealing with it is NOT about retribution

Focusing (and / or fantasizing about) retribution denies you of the most fundamental gifts that you were blessed with if you chose to accept them.

Which are:

Finally learning the truth

Realizing you are stronger than anything you thought you needed in your life to feel complete

Regardless of the injustice, betrayal and loss – As a man: You cannot be broken if you continue to get back up

‘Retribution’ – The last sanctuary of a loser that has come to terms with the fact that he is incapable of dealing with the world.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

#FULLGROWNMGTOW

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Great topic. One that should be brought up several times a year as new members join and other leave. Some will not be ready, some will not get the concept. A little anger goes a long ways, if you can not let go it is a downward spiral.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Good post, I only have one issue with it: I have never expected more from an orangutan or a dog than what they can do. I have never been indoctrinated/enculturated/socialized to believe them to be other than what they are. When it comes to women, on the other hand… It was pretty much like with Santa Claus and the Easter bunny. Except that when it comes to women, the bulls~~~ does not stop at a certain age. It is one thing to finally accept their true nature. It is quite another to accept that the bulls~~~ just goes on and on. After all, you can walk away from women, but you can hardly walk away from a society that is full of s~~~.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5116]

Hating women for what they chose to become, is like hating a pig for rolling around in it’s own s~~~…they both can’t help themselves.

Sovereignty above all else.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Yup…Good post…I too understand the initial rage as I went through it myself. Living in rage is however not productive. It is then much better to channel that rage to do something productive for yourself and make yourself better. It is difficult to recreate yourself when faced with complete freedom. We were so used with being blue pilled slaves that we are initially lost as to what to do with life so a lot of us stay in rage mode….

Move on. Grow and make the most out of life… We are in this journey together brothers in each our own way…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Nice one. I’ve also had misgivings about the anger towards women on here–although I still feel a lot of anger towards my ex 3 years after I left her (and yes, she was one of the physically violent ones, although in some ways the other stuff she did was worse), I don’t think the tantrums about women on here are necessarily helpful.

Where I’m getting to with all this is that my anger is directed more at how our Western societies are changing: I don’t think the current state of affairs is necessarily the fault of women, more that it’s what happens when monogamy declines.

Then again, I can empathise with everyone in the 1960s who saw the 1950s monogamous family unit as oppressive and wanted out. But I just don’t think realised quite what they were unleashing.

I know some of you guys are more Zen than I am about the world we live in and I appreciate that a lot. Peace

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[President SnowParticipant 72]

I will admit: I was angry.
I was angry because I didn’t understand.
Since I didn’t understand, I finally decided to make an effort to understand.
Now I do, or I’m at least a little bit closer to understanding than I used to be.
My anger has mostly subsided.

I sometimes feel I’m still an angry person due to my more aggressive stance in conversation and social situations. That may just be a side effect of becoming uncucked. There’s still more to learn about myself.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3787]

Great thread and replies, guys.

[GeraldParticipant 3631]

Great post Sky-O, but I am left with one question… is the dog ok?

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[CuckSniperParticipant 449]

Naw. I personally NEED to keep some anger. I use that anger as motivation to keep female c~~~s away from me.

I am perfectly fine around females and what not at work and social events. But if any talk about relationships are brought up or some slut wants to get down, then f~~~ that.

I don’t want a relationship with any female and if it requires me being angry, so be it.

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