"Let me check with the wife"

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Does anyone else get infuriated with this response from blue-pill male friends when they try to meet up: “Let me check with the wife”? Happened to me again the other day. Drives me mad.

Did you mean “gatekeeper” there? “Jailor”, maybe? Or “master”?

If her girlfriends ask her to meet up, does she say, “oh let me check with my husband”? I guarantee she doesn’t.

I know some of you guys don’t hang out with blue pillers and I can see why. I’m isolating myself more and more. Then again, I do have some close friends who are blue pill, and I’m not going to give up on them, so I quietly tolerate this nonsense and then drop in red pill thoughts when we do finally meet.

But it still annoys me. Just grow some f~~~ing b~~~~ and put things in the diary without permission.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[Anonymous 42]

That’s the leash effect! They’re trained like little poodles from hours and hours of scolding and pussy door slamming, locking, then reopening, training him with rewards vs. scolding and door slamming! I never lasted long enough to get trained to obey the pussyhole master! I always walked out on my trainers and never went back!

[Anonymous 18]

Men want sex. Women control sex.

Replace ‘wife’ with ‘cocaine’ and a junkie will check on his supply before he ventures on a week long trip.

What the man is actually saying is, “I want to do what you suggest. It sounds fun. However, from past errors on my part when I sought fun that didn’t involve my wife, she refrained giving me sex. I shall avoid making such errors now. Wait, let me seek counsel with her; up on her approval, I will be delighted to partake in this activity”.

Women are boring outside of sex for most things concerning men. But when you deprive the married man of any fun outside of her realm, sex becomes the one and only source of his pleasure. He soon forgets the pleasure of being in passenger seat of his bro-dude’s convertible reminiscing about old times.

Stems from female survival instincts.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

LionOnTheLoose wrote:

Does anyone else get infuriated with this response from blue-pill male friends when they try to meet up: “Let me check with the wife”? Happened to me again the other day. Drives me mad.

Did you mean “gatekeeper” there? “Jailor”, maybe? Or “master”?

If her girlfriends ask her to meet up, does she say, “oh let me check with my husband”? I guarantee she doesn’t.

I know some of you guys don’t hang out with blue pillers and I can see why. I’m isolating myself more and more. Then again, I do have some close friends who are blue pill, and I’m not going to give up on them, so I quietly tolerate this nonsense and then drop in red pill thoughts when we do finally meet.

But it still annoys me. Just grow some f~~~ing b~~~~ and put things in the diary without permission.

You won’t change them they can only want to change themselves. You can just keep planting the red-pill seed like you have been doing.
Once they realize their “b~~~~” are in a jar somewhere kept by their wives maybe then they do something about it.

As for me : I got a pair hanging…. (and I’m damn proud of it too !)

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Whats this c~~~ obsrssion on controlling men?

Oh yeah they do nothing for you, and if a c~~~ says shes a good cook its over for the other one.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

LionOnTheLoose wrote:

Does anyone else get infuriated with this response from blue-pill male friends when they try to meet up: “Let me check with the wife”? Happened to me again the other day. Drives me mad.

Did you mean “gatekeeper” there? “Jailor”, maybe? Or “master”?

If her girlfriends ask her to meet up, does she say, “oh let me check with my husband”? I guarantee she doesn’t.

I know some of you guys don’t hang out with blue pillers and I can see why. I’m isolating myself more and more. Then again, I do have some close friends who are blue pill, and I’m not going to give up on them, so I quietly tolerate this nonsense and then drop in red pill thoughts when we do finally meet.

But it still annoys me. Just grow some f~~~ing b~~~~ and put things in the diary without permission.

If her girlfriends, she says, “let me tell him I’m going to be late” or “tell him what I am doing.”

Now, of course as mgtow this line just grates on the soul.

HOWEVER it is a wonderful line to use to go stealth/grey man with. You wanna quietly get out of something you don’t want to do? Perfect line. Gotta check with the woman.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Only a complete simp would accept being chained to a leash like that. I check with myself and no one else. To quote Lester Burnham in American Beauty…”I Rule!!”

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s the leash effect! They’re trained like little poodles from hours and hours of scolding and pussy door slamming, locking, then reopening, training him with rewards vs. scolding and door slamming! I never lasted long enough to get trained to obey the pussyhole master! I always walked out on my trainers and never went back!

This is so true: looking back at how it was, I really did let myself be “trained”. And I can see my ex wife learnt that from her mum, and how she had zero respect for her dad. Glad you resisted mastery!

Anonymous wrote:

What the man is actually saying is, “I want to do what you suggest. It sounds fun. However, from past errors on my part when I sought fun that didn’t involve my wife, she refrained giving me sex. I shall avoid making such errors now. Wait, let me seek counsel with her; up on her approval, I will be delighted to partake in this activity”.

Love this.

A huge irony to all this which I only started to appreciate after I started giving zero f~~~s about women is that women *hate* these guys when they’re like “let me check with the wife”. They say they want a mangina, but the more a man becomes like this, the more they seem to subconsciously hate them, and desire someone who’ll be a bastard to them. I have been truly shocked at how much more women were attracted to me when I started not to care what they thought, cancelled on them, didn’t reply or whatever.

I honestly am so grateful every day that I am a man. Women seem to have this awful contradictory mind where they secretly hate the things they claim to want, and want the things they hate.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

LionOnTheLoose wrote:

If her girlfriends ask her to meet up, does she say, “oh let me check with my husband”? I guarantee she doesn’t.

As usual, reversing the genders exposes the hypocritical bigotry.

This is why I have only a few friends. To me, a man saying “let me ask my wife” is code for “we’re not friends anymore,” which is okay by me.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Oh man, that reminds me of a buddy of mine, everytime I call and ask to come over, he always checks with his girlfriend.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Just this weekend a friend goes “let me check with the BOSS”

He couldn’t meet up.

Why? His daughter is having sleep over with 2 friends

His wife is there

But said she needs him & he can’t leave

W….T….F

[WA4SWJParticipant 366]

I hate it too. “Grow a pair you simp” is what I think when I hear that.

Ed

[HermitParticipant 1121]

Translation: “Let me find out if this is going to create a s~~~storm that isn’t worth it.”

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Spineless cucks! Grown ass men don’t ask permission. I remember as a kid there were still men that TOLD their wives wtf they were doing. They didn’t need to ask for permission.

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

surfdude12 wrote:

Just this weekend a friend goes “let me check with the BOSS”

He couldn’t meet up.

Why? His daughter is having sleep over with 2 friends

His wife is there

But said she needs him & he can’t leave

W….T….F

“Boss” wtf?! At least he’s honest there. My approach would be:

This is so depressing. But it reminds me of how bad it got for me.

Here’s an example: on a number of occasions, my ex-wife demanded I turn up for work late because she wanted to wash her hair in the morning, and “needed” me to be there to pass her freaking shampoo and other stupid potions to her in the shower. I cannot believe that I tolerated this. Then again, at that stage the physical violence she used against me was quite frequent, and I knew I’d get at least another black eye if I said no, and possibly more of her threats with a kitchen knife.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[WallyParticipant]

I noticed that men in the church would refer to their wives as their “better half.”

She’s the BOSS because of crap like that.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9540]

Sounds like a master/slave statement. He’s the slave and must check with his master if it’s OK to do something. It’s a freedom killer. I bet these men were happier and freer before getting married to a master woman.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Anonymous 14]

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

A while back I asked one of my guys to handle a trade show, “You want to take a trip to Vegas?”

He told me he’d have to ask wifey.

Then I asked one of my guys who was single. “Sure thing. When do I need to be there, Mr. Sidecar?”

See if you can guess who I promoted to manage that group.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

LionOnTheLoose wrote:

Women seem to have this awful contradictory mind where they secretly hate the things they claim to want, and want the things they hate.

There’s a neat nugget of truth. If only this could be packaged as a little red pill and dispensed to young boys. It takes men nigh on 30, perhaps 40 years to understand this fundamental principle in its entirety.

Also, this ‘let me check with the wife’ impulse is very frequent in classic car ads on ebay – “the wife says it has to go”.

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