Legalized prostitution and male confidence.

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Tim941 wrote:

Marriage contracts need to be renegotiated and the lawmakers and judges and the ABA (at least in the US) need to re-tool those legal contracts to allow for sex workers.

You have the passion to maybe pursue something like this. I will support you in your quest, Tim.

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ghost wrote:

You have the passion to maybe pursue something like this. I will support you in your quest, Tim.

Thank you, Gambit, for your endorsement. It’s a subject of my unpublished short story. How do feel about fiction (optioned to film) as a way to mass communicate and change attitudes toward pending legislation?

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Tim941 wrote:

How do feel about fiction (optioned to film) as a way to mass communicate and change attitudes toward pending legislation?

I think that may be one of the best methods of “mass” communication. I am on board with it.

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ghost wrote:

Tim941 wrote:

How do feel about fiction (optioned to film) as a way to mass communicate and change attitudes toward pending legislation?

I think that may be one of the best methods of “mass” communication. I am on board with it.

Wish me luck. I hope my manuscript will happen as I need it to.

I’m not sure how long our topic will last here. I wish the title would have had “sex work” instead of prostitution, a conventional label that is a pejorative like “marijuana” was and still is for cannabis—the natural remedy that also is a wonderful fiber crop, and for oil too.

The male confidence aspect of getting laid seems to be not so common. When Puff admitted he was addicted to pussy, that was a deeply heartening confirmation I needed in my own life. Like this forum in general. Males are waking up to biases against us and said males really love the 1999 science fiction action film written and directed by The Wachowskis for its rich metaphors.

For what it’s worth, I’ll add that the cousin of a friend is a male model. I found out last night that he routinely makes five figures per weekend in “donations” for his philanthropy in the sexual gratification of very rich females at exotic locations around the globe. I bitch about four figures. Puff has it down to three. Males clearly make more than females in sex work that is operated as a legal technicality by virtue of the versatility of words.

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Tim941 wrote:

I’m not sure how long our topic will last here. I wish the title would have had “sex work” instead of prostitution, a conventional label that is a pejorative like “marijuana” was and still is for cannabis—the natural remedy that also is a wonderful fiber crop, and for oil too.

Feel free to start a new one and provide us updates on your work. I think it will help everyone.

Tim941 wrote:

For what it’s worth, I’ll add that the cousin of a friend is a male model. I found out last night that he routinely makes five figures per weekend in “donations” for his philanthropy in the sexual gratification of very rich females at exotic locations around the globe. I bitch about four figures. Puff has it down to three. Males clearly make more than females in sex work that is operated as a legal technicality by virtue of the versatility of words.

Not surprised.

Tim941 wrote:

Wish me luck. I hope my manuscript will happen as I need it to.

All the best, brother. I have no doubt that you will make one hell of a difference with your work. Your knowledge, writing skills and passion are indicative of that.

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ghost wrote:

All the best, brother. I have no doubt that you will make one hell of a difference with your work. Your knowledge, writing skills and passion are indicative of that.

How very kind of you, Gambit. I think this kind of interaction at this particular website shows the kind of love described in Holy writ.

My depression from being denied the kind of time on body I desperately need is severely hampering my work. I will read all of you here and try to learn and help our condition as I can for what I have left in me. Of course, I’m honored to have this opportunity to visit with you all this way.

I feel like too many males have been given such a raw deal, and we’re injured and hurt. That is not emasculating to admit. Tough guys get hammered every day. To have a rising gynocracy outlaw male exigencies is a doomed effort. Let them try. They’re at war with biology? That’s a failed enterprise at the get-go.

The only place on earth I’ve heard of that is managing sexual realities among mature adults is New Zealand. Any New Zealanders—Kiwis—here? I’ll be studying that situation soon.

Thank you, Gambit. I can’t afford the premium access here so I can’t contact you. I’m curious to meet you. Can you try to find me somehow?

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Tim941 wrote:

I’m honored to have this opportunity to visit with you all this way.

As are we, Tim.

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ghost wrote:

Tim941 wrote:

Celibacy is a crime against the truest meaning in life: sacred sexual bliss. The present state of civilization is mismanaging this natural-born sacred human gift.

Perhaps, but what choice do we have? Marriage is not a viable option for me and I don’t care to have meaningless sex.

Exactly, Gambit. Marriage to a Modern Woman is not a viable option for any Sane Man. As I said before, in a different topic, Meaningless Sex is a waste of time, because it will not ultimately satisfy a man.

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sjt1975 wrote:

Marriage to a Modern Woman is not a viable option for any Sane Man. As I said before, in a different topic, Meaningless Sex is a waste of time, because it will not ultimately satisfy a man.

Spot on, SJT.

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ghost wrote:

sjt1975 wrote:

Marriage to a Modern Woman is not a viable option for any Sane Man. As I said before, in a different topic, Meaningless Sex is a waste of time, because it will not ultimately satisfy a man.

Spot on, SJT.

Us males to have sex with females is a minefield. Like Jon said in the movie (Don Jon, 2013), “When it comes to the actual f~~~ing, first of all condoms? they’re terrible. They just are. But you gotta wear one because unlike porn, real pussy can kill you.”

Fellas, with much respect, I submit that the labels “man” and “woman” are societal constructs for our actual biological realities: a male gets called a man after exhibiting some version of maturity (let the females deal with their ideas on WGTOW).

I’m 60. In my experience with sex (cis-hetero is my orientation), the honeymoon wears off in about three months but can last for not much more than a year. I’ve often heard this idea “meaningless sex”, but if honesty and candor and its subsequent integrity matter, meaning is first the ultimate subjective experience. Meaning is defined by the individual.

For males like me who never learned “game” and who don’t know how to get laid, the moment of finally getting with a female and having the enjoyment of mutual sexual orgasm, the sexual climax itself is an initial very important aspect of meaning.

I think what is intended is that the biological bonding that develops after sex leads to a desire for a more lasting and regular sexual intimacy with the addition of trustworthiness and integrity and the absence of lying and subterfuges tied to material resources (Maslow’s conventional criteria).

I just saw the 2016 film “Sticky: A (Self) Love Story” that I recommend. Masturbation eventually falls short of the ability to “satisfy a man.”

Commonly, abstinence from sexual orgasm sort of works to suppress an extremely powerful cosmic force: survival of our species amid all life in earth biosphere. Animal nature cares not of our subjective experiences. It just intends for an adequately viable population to be sexually successful. This is probably according to the Pareto distribution: the 80/20 rule (or vice versa 20/80 depending on your POV). Does that mean that about 80% of us males are unlikely to achieve “meaningful” sex, and where we’re better off suppressing the urge to indulge orgasm through sexual abstinence?

Sticky shows to me that societies have made grave errors in demonizing the sacred sexual orgasmic bliss. Our bodies naturally crave love and to be touched by a beloved other. Society has erected (pun intended) barriers against our fundamental nature. It’s immoral and frankly a crime against humanity. To monetize it is insult to injury.

One remedy is an open declaration that this general crime against humanity be acknowledge and then for reparations. First, decriminalize all sex work everywhere. No more arresting “Johns” for seeking out what our bodies need by nature.

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