Learning to live alone is so much better

[Anonymous 16]

I am 44 y old, been dating since i was 19, a part from a very few women which i had great sex, the rest was a total bore fest.

At 23 i was dating this girl who had a horse face she cheated on me, i was in adult school where i met 2 strippers and there my new life started, i learned the game i was in the gym a lot boxing, even did some pro wrestling in indy circuit in Montreal, got long hair and a tan chiseled body and that was it from 23 to 30 it was on, i had sex with so many women it was amazing.

Then social programming the worst kicked in and i had 2 long term relationships, 3y and 9y i changed i became a good guy, never cheated even if the opportunities where there, took care of my girlfriend, when she was sick lost her job. And then after 9y she cheated on me with a coworker, he was her soul mate, lost my house and her…. today its been 4y and i reflect on this she was very bad sex and a numb nut egoistical person. I am glad she left. Looking at my options i guess that i will remain single for the rest of my life, at 44 most women have kids, i don’t meet anyone and when i go out i get hit on by 25y old (that is a total mystery to me another post i guess). I use the money from my house to buy a condo, build a small gym in a room, got myself fit again, learned to cook, and now trying to develop new passions. I don’t need a women in my life to be happy i miss sex but i am not ready to put up with so much crap dating to just have a small amount of fun time. Most people tell me the same normal things single people get told one day she is gonna hit you when you least expect it hahha and the rest. I feel with age and experience, i don’t need drama in my life or someone else kids, to many women now they tell me i am hard to approach, its just that during those years being single i guess i got tired of women, couples, hearing how my work buddies are bored to death seeing so many people cheat and so on.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Welcome to MGTOW.

You’re now among friends.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

We are always alone. It’s just now and then some fkg annoying slurr gets to walk about the house.

The older you get the less it happens.

I’m down to 3mins before any female that enters my place is p~~~ing me off.

[Anonymous 16]

ILiveAgain wrote:

We are always alone. It’s just now and then some fkg annoying slurr gets to walk about the house.

The older you get the less it happens.

I’m down to 3mins before any female that enters my place is p~~~ing me off.

OMG hilarious and i tough it was all in my head, being single for so long i get the same effect, i don’t see myself getting back in a relationship, and women get on my nerve a lot…….. i am normal hahahaha.

[<<>>Participant 435]

Take up new hobbies teach yourself chess you can play online with anyone from around the world or at any cafe/bar on the planet it will also give you perspective on life decisions. Learn a musical instrument to pass the time express complex emotions and as a mental discipline. Learn another language this can be good for many obvious reasons. Enjoy yourself and welcome brother!

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I have live alone ever since I first left home. I find there is peace and security in solitude. I answer to no one but myself, and the only person I need to please is myself.

Don’t let any of the brothers give yo s~~~ about the cats. Many years ago I had a cat too. He was wonderful. He was an outdoor cat so in the three years I “owned” him he used the litter box exactly once. Playing with him was a riot. It was never a good play session until he drew blood. He loved to hide behind things wait for me to pass by then launch himself onto my back leg. He was also a killing machine; opossum, squirrels, rabbits, birds, other cats. Even saw him kill two Blue jays in one day. (mated pair I guess)

The only time I ever saw him back down was against a really big Mantis. I couldn’t believe it–a big bug? OK the bug did swat him a few times in the face but still he should have torn it to pieces instead of just walking away.

Had him three years, and then one night he got hit by a car. Didn’t kill him out right and somehow he managed to stagger back home. He was in a lot of pain and clearly dying. I had to put him down myself. That was hard let me tell you. I’ve never had a pet since.

[<<>>Participant 435]

PistolPete wrote:

That was hard let me tell you. I’ve never had a pet since.

F~~~ man, I’m sorry for your loss. I travel a lot so no pets but now I’m doubly sure!

[Anonymous 16]

PistolPete wrote:

I have live alone ever since I first left home. I find there is peace and security in solitude. I answer to no one but myself, and the only person I need to please is myself.

Don’t let any of the brothers give yo s~~~ about the cats. Many years ago I had a cat too. He was wonderful. He was an outdoor cat so in the three years I “owned” him he used the litter box exactly once. Playing with him was a riot. It was never a good play session until he drew blood. He loved to hide behind things wait for me to pass by then launch himself onto my back leg. He was also a killing machine; opossum, squirrels, rabbits, birds, other cats. Even saw him kill two Blue jays in one day. (mated pair I guess)

The only time I ever saw him back down was against a really big Mantis. I couldn’t believe it–a big bug? OK the bug did swat him a few times in the face but still he should have torn it to pieces instead of just walking away.

Had him three years, and then one night he got hit by a car. Didn’t kill him out right and somehow he managed to stagger back home. He was in a lot of pain and clearly dying. I had to put him down myself. That was hard let me tell you. I’ve never had a pet since.

That is a sad story bro, i got 3 a blue Russian he was sick when i got him cost me 1000$ for treatment he staid at the vet for a week 3 months old no way he was gonna die on my watch, also got my ex calico cat she told me if you don’t want her i am putting her down selfish bitch and another female cat. Got 3 2 of them are 5y old and my last one is 11. Cost money for food i buy good food for them, i live in a condo so they never ever go outside except summer on the balcony that’s it. You build a bond for sure i love them a lot. The are funny but also sometimes p~~~ me off what can i say hahaha.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I always thought living alone was awesome, it wasn’t something I had to learn how to do. I can have people over when I want, or I can have silence when I want. Nobody f~~~s with my stuff and if I have to clean up a mess at least its my mess I’m cleaning. I’ve had girlfriends spend the weekend plenty of times, and by Sunday afternoon when they were getting ready to leave its always been like thank god, get the f~~~ out of here…I couldn’t imagine having them up my ass all the time. Well…I’ll be honest…that get the f~~~ out of here might have crossed my mind a lot earlier than Sunday afternoon lol…it was like soon as they come over friday night they expected me to provide nonstop entertainment all weekend.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Anonymous wrote:

i got 3

Mine was one of those marmalade ring tails–they are half wild. When I put him down I was pretty traumatized and way back then I still had a GF. I call her, tell her what happened and what I had to do and she says: “big deal grow up”.

Fortunately this was over the phone–had it been in person there would have been a good chance I would be digging TWO graves that night.

[Anonymous 16]

PistolPete wrote:

yannick44 wrote:

i got 3

Mine was one of those marmalade ring tails–they are half wild. When I put him down I was pretty traumatized and way back then I still had a GF. I call her, tell her what happened and what I had to do and she says: “big deal grow up”.

Fortunately this was over the phone–had it been in person there would have been a good chance I would be digging TWO graves that night.

I went to visit my blue a few times during that week my ex never, she paid for her calico and to be honest when she left me the cats where not in the house anymore, i went to live with my mother for a while, i would have never ever given her that cat back. This is why i try to enjoy them now, i know when the time comes that i need to put them down it will hurt like crazy but i will have given them a good life.. f~~~ these selfish bitches.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Absolutely! Its not like I could have done it the quite safe way with a veterinarian, it was a Friday night and I had to shoot my dear friend. Maybe he could have lasted to Monday but why make him suffer for two days just to have the Vet put him down? More than likely he wouldn’t have made through the night.

I only spoke to her one time after that. I was deathly sick with mold poisoning and asked her to drive me to an urgent care center. I had a fever of 104 and could barely walk. She said she could not because (if you can believe it) she had to drive her 16 year old boy to a free dental clinic 1.5 miles from her house to have his teeth cleaned.

A male friend took me to the clinic and I came close to going to the hospital. Where was I on her totem pole of priorities? Very low it would seem. Never spoke to her again after that.

[Anonymous 16]

PistolPete wrote:

Absolutely! Its not like I could have done it the quite safe way with a veterinarian, it was a Friday night and I had to shoot my dear friend. Maybe he could have lasted to Monday but why make him suffer for two days just to have the Vet put him down? More than likely he wouldn’t have made through the night.

I only spoke to her one time after that. I was deathly sick with mold poisoning and asked her to drive me to an urgent care center. I had a fever of 104 and could barely walk. She said she could not because (if you can believe it) she had to drive her 16 year old boy to a free dental clinic 1.5 miles from her house to have his teeth cleaned.

A male friend took me to the clinic and I came close to going to the hospital. Where was I on her totem pole of priorities? Very low it would seem. Never spoke to her again after that.

And you wonder why we hate them, f~~~ing bitch, my ex was awful too man 9y i loved her to death, i would have give my life to save hers, she did coffee one cup enough water for her, she cooked for herself, sex twice per week times 15 minutes between her weekly shows don’t talk shut up make it quick, when she left me i went into a depression, then after 3 weeks i called this escort agency that hot chick arrives with her 34dd cubs super hot sex like never before, hell money well spend, wasted 9y with a selfish hoe….. lesson learned.

For animals you need to understand what loving animals is, some people see animals as nothing. They die who cares, i am very sensible to animals and many things in life. I hate selfish people for my ex its a good ridence, i had this dream of growing old with that hoe and taking care of her and all hahhah yeah dream. I had back pain at some point thank god for PRP and prolotherapy that cured me but before that she told me i am not going to waste my life with an handicap like you. Yeah bitch karma but then again f~~~ her.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

You what the difference is between a woman and an animal? The animal is honest–always.

[Anonymous 16]

PistolPete wrote:

You what the difference is between a woman and an animal? The animal is honest–always.

hahah no difference there lol.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Beer wrote:

I always thought living alone was awesome, it wasn’t something I had to learn how to do. I can have people over when I want, or I can have silence when I want. Nobody f~~~s with my stuff and if I have to clean up a mess at least its my mess I’m cleaning. I’ve had girlfriends spend the weekend plenty of times, and by Sunday afternoon when they were getting ready to leave its always been like thank god, get the f~~~ out of here…I couldn’t imagine having them up my ass all the time. Well…I’ll be honest…that get the f~~~ out of here might have crossed my mind a lot earlier than Sunday afternoon lol…it was like soon as they come over friday night they expected me to provide nonstop entertainment all weekend.

You have described my life to a Tee. Except I don’t let woman over anymore. The joy of sex is far less than the joy of solitude and I have totally lost my patience for female BS.

“If you don’t learn to love your own company you will always be miserable”

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 5]

I moved to a new house last year . And a dog and cat came with it . Now the cat and me were very close . When I was reading a book she would lay on top of it to make sure I petted her last month I found her body on the garage floor I was d very sad I cried for hours . I think some ass hole killed her on purpose . One of my three dogs got shot with a begun last week . I’d like to find the ass hole who did it.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Anonymous wrote:

One of my three dogs got shot with a begun last week . I’

I understand. Its heart breaking. Here in the south someone harm another man’s dog and it is ON BABY!

Years ago when I lived in NC I was driving to work one morning on Leicester HYW (four lane) and a 50 yards in front of me two dogs were crossing the lanes. Some asshole swerved to deliberately hit one of them. IT WAS ON! Me and about 8-10 other drivers took out after him. He knew it too because a couple of the guys in the on coming lane did u-turns in the middle of the road. He went blowing through red lights and guys were still after him. I lost the pack on the I-26 turn off. Don’t know if they ever caught up with the jag-off but if they did…

[Sanguissman69Participant 32]

Living alone is the single best thing I have ever done for myself. Watch what I want, eat when and what I want. Take part in activities that interest me while also not having to feign interest in something that cupcake wants to do. The nights were the hardest at first, but now…it is the best thing I have ever done. Women, not even once…

"I live for myself and I answer to nobody" - Steve McQueen

[Anonymous 16]

PistolPete wrote:

doom93 wrote:

One of my three dogs got shot with a begun last week . I’

I understand. Its heart breaking. Here in the south someone harm another man’s dog and it is ON BABY!

Years ago when I lived in NC I was driving to work one morning on Leicester HYW (four lane) and a 50 yards in front of me two dogs were crossing the lanes. Some asshole swerved to deliberately hit one of them. IT WAS ON! Me and about 8-10 other drivers took out after him. He knew it too because a couple of the guys in the on coming lane did u-turns in the middle of the road. He went blowing through red lights and guys were still after him. I lost the pack on the I-26 turn off. Don’t know if they ever caught up with the jag-off but if they did…

Because some people hate animals, a reason why i never let my cats go outside i never thrust people.

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