Learning to Get to the Source

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

Why did my losses hurt so bad? Sure, I probably loved those women very much, I am sure I did. But, why was it so hard to see them walk away with a smug smile on their face? Why did I endure so many sleepless nights? Why was the thought of them with someone else like a curse that turned my stomach?

Well, I am cutting through to The Source…slowly. It is what I was educated to see in women that’s not there. It’s an illusion, an illusion women will fight to death to keep “real”. It’s what the nanny state burns through millions of taxpayer dollars to keep alive, like a Frankenstein monster. What is beat into you in the social stratum. What earns you ridicule and shaming when you see it for what it is. When you refuse to sit in silence and nod your head. It’s what fuels feminist insanity and propaganda.

It’s a pedestal…..a pedestal.

It hurt so much to see these women I loved leave. Because, I build them up so high on a pedestal. There is no pedestal brothers. The pedestal is not equality. We have been duped to think that it is equality. A grand scam.

Cut out the pedestal, and you slow start to see the pain fade away. The women who have abandoned you, blamed you, played all sorts of mind tricks on you. They used this illusory pedestal to their advantage. Alcoholics have to first admit there is a problem, this starts them on the road to a new life, free from the clutches of their addiction.

I have to admit that I have put the women of my past on a pedestal….pretty f~~~ing big one at that.

There is no pedestal.

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Excellent post. 100% agree. When I put those women on a pedestal , I’m only thinking about GOOD times or IMAGINED scenarios that will NEVER happen. I’m not seeing reality. I’m not seeing that she is only concerned with how much money I make, that she doesn’t care about who I am, what my personality is, etc. Its like I’m wearing red colored glasses and thus not seeing the whole picture, I’m seeing a distorted (all red) picture.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

I was just briefly triggered by this part:

‘the thought of them with someone else’

None of them mattered to me that much, except for one.

I would be lying to myself if I claimed to have thought about any of my ex-pumpkins with another guy.

But there was one. And after it was over, the thought of her being with other men absolutely destroyed me to the core of my soul.

It was devastating.

But I wasn’t condition or trained by the state to feel that way. It wasn’t the result of any feminist tactics or propaganda.

I loved her. I absolutely adored her. And I will never deny that my capacity to have loved a woman, originated from anything other than who I am as a man.

And that is the fundamental difference between us and them. We know what unconditional love is and can experience it. They are unable to.

And I will never blame societal conditioning or anything else for the love I had when I know it came from within.

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

Sky-O wrote:

I was just briefly triggered by this part:

‘the thought of them with someone else’

None of them mattered to me that much, except for one.

I would be lying to myself if I claimed to have thought about any of my ex-pumpkins with another guy.

But there was one. And after it was over, the thought of her being with other men absolutely destroyed me to the core of my soul.

It was devastating.

But I wasn’t condition or trained by the state to feel that way. It wasn’t the result of any feminist tactics or propaganda.

I loved her. I absolutely adored her. And I will never deny that my capacity to have loved a woman, originated from anything other than who I am as a man.

And that is the fundamental difference between us and them. We know what unconditional love is and can experience it. They are unable to.

And I will never blame societal conditioning or anything else for the love I had when I know it came from within.

The last 2 I loved very much too Sky-O. I did. I don’t mean to resign it all to some conspiracy or social brainwashing.

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[Anonymous 42]

It’s nice having time and distance from relations~~~s!

It’s like I’m worlds apart from all those painful memories!

Thanks for reminding me Sky-O and Medic, and for putting this enormous grin on my face!

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

@sky-o

Yeah man. I agree with what you wrote 100%. Mine couldn’t understand my depression and devastation after she cheated, and then abandoned me. I was asked “why can’t you be a man?”. Women don’t understand unconditional love because they are not capable of it.

Men are.

I am.

But no more.

The answer, is no.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I never had the urge to be with any of my ex’s after we broke up. I was married twice and lived with 3 other women for more than 3 yrs each.

The last one I could never replace but couldn’t live with her alcohol addiction.

She’s the one I missed the most not because I was so attached. After I went my own way I never got attached to any women but this one was young and hot.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Great post, Medic

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

I have to admit that I have put the women of my past on a pedestal….pretty f~~~ing big one at that.

Yes, that’s a problem. Blame social conditioning, or too much Walt Disney during early development. That’s not a joke, either. Take the marketplace scene from Aladdin… where she does nothing but walk around, and Aladdin says “WOW” like the sun rises and sets in her pants. He can’t even see straight.

Here’s “the source”…..

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You see enough that when you’re 4, 11 and 17 and that’s the way you think you’re SUPPOSED to act before you even know the girl. But there is one thing a man learns which the pedestalized female needs to be reminded of . . .

A man put her on that pedestal.
And the same man can just as easily take her OFF.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 18]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

It’s what the nanny state burns through millions of taxpayer dollars to keep alive, like a Frankenstein monster.

Just earlier this week I genuinely pondered this and struggled to accept it. I wanted to deny it but I must thank Rollo Tomassi’s work in deconstructing the feminine imperative. And yes the gynocentric evil witches are throwing millions and millions to keep the sham going.

It gets me depressed to think of well-meaning brothers out there who believe in genuine love. Who take sides with women in denouncing the red pill truth. For her its a matter of keeping the scheme going, for him its both avoidance of the bitter truth but also the comfort of a woman’s deceitful ‘love’.

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

It hurt so much to see these women I loved leave. Because, I build them up so high on a pedestal. There is no pedestal brothers. The pedestal is not equality. We have been duped to think that it is equality. A grand scam.

It is a mistake to believe that you and every other romantic (myself included in years past) believed in pedestal of our own creation. We had no option but to accept it as a universal truth. It was part of respect and praise for womenkind.

But in conjunction to your first quoted message, it plays into the bigger agenda of male disposability.

For anyone dealing with red pill rage, reality sucks but it gets better.

Truth sets you free brothers. Believe in it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

Why did my losses hurt so bad? Sure, I probably loved those women very much, I am sure I did. But, why was it so hard to see them walk away with a smug smile on their face? Why did I endure so many sleepless nights? Why was the thought of them with someone else like a curse that turned my stomach?

Men are the romantics. Just listen to music and compare what woman write to what men write. Men assume that woman feel the same way. NEWS FLASH They don’t. This HUGE mistake ruins many a man. They don’t want the flowers. They want to see if they can get you to buy the flowers to test their level of control.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[MACHOParticipant]

Awesome post MGTOW_Medic,

yep that’s where the pain comes from, taking them down from that pedestal, it’s a very painful experience.
(once you have given them your heart, soul.. not mentioning your wallet, house etc.. )

Time is what heals those wounds.

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

Why did my losses hurt so bad? Sure, I probably loved those women very much, I am sure I did. But, why was it so hard to see them walk away with a smug smile on their face? Why did I endure so many sleepless nights? Why was the thought of them with someone else like a curse that turned my stomach?

Keymaster wrote:

there is one thing a man learns which “the pedestalized” female needs to be reminded of . . .
A man put her on that pedestal.
And the same man can just as easily take her OFF

Right on the money KM

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[wyrParticipant 591]

It’s not your loss, it’s their loss. Everyday your value increases while theirs decreases.

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Many men feel that romantic love for a woman in the source of inspiration for creativity like music. I “fell out of love” with my son. I had too due to him turning against me and toward his mom at age 14.

In our society love for women and mothers is the only one sanctioned by society.

The loss of that love also stymied my ability to create songs about love especially.

I think that self love is the only love that is reliable. Especially in a society that makes men congregating with one another to be illegal.

The first amendment to the U.S. constitution:

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[AttonParticipant]

Sounds something like that Tesla did but never stopped doing.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

Yeah man. I agree with what you wrote 100%. Mine couldn’t understand my depression and devastation after she cheated, and then abandoned me. I was asked “why can’t you be a man?”.

F~~~ it, you felt that way precisely because you are a man.

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