Learning not to give a f~~~

[SilentParticipant 303]

In my blue pill years, I’ve always gave a f~~~ about what other people expected of me. I was worried about what people thought about my appearance, my job, my sex life, (or lack there of) my beliefs, my social life, and my standards in women.

During my blue pill years, I tried to change myself to fit in with crowds I didn’t belong to. Whenever I did something to “offend” them or got me kicked out of their little clubs, I thought that it was me that was the problem. Because of this, I would go out of my way to be extra “helpful” to them. I’d even waste large amounts of time trying to help set up events, give a few donations here and there, and even promote the group I was in to get more members.

I’m also really “anti-social”. I feel the happiest and most productive when I’m alone. When I was growing up, my parents had home-schooled me and I didn’t have that much interaction with kids of my age. As a result, my parents, especially my mom, thinks I don’t want to hang out with other people because of this and as usual, they both have a big f~~~ing insecurity problem with how they raised me.

I keep telling them that me wanting to be alone is just a personal preference. However, because of their insecurities, they just keep blaming themselves. If they won’t listen to reason, I figure it’s not my problem. They have to learn to deal with it. As an experiment, I tried going to a hang out group at a comic store to play Magic The Gathering. I felt like a complete outsider because I really don’t like being around people unless I have to. I only went once and never went back there. I Just felt so out of place.

As far as my sex life goes, I’ve never really knew what my sexual preference was growing up. I experimented with loads of porn and I’ve only ever had sex with a few women. I entertained the idea of having sex with men, but never went through with it because the idea of it just felt weird. Once I hit a certain age, I knew without a doubt I was straight. The reason I’m bringing my sex life up is because I listened to all those retarded PC liberals saying stupid s~~~ like “sexuality is fluid” “If a man can’t handle seeing gay guys kiss he’s insecure about his masculinity, blah, blah, blah.”

I’m also an atheist. But, digesting the red pill was very hard at first, because, as you know, most atheists in general are PC liberals that promote all kinds of retarded s~~~. I never did become a full blown mangina, but I entertained the idea for about a week and gave up on it because it just felt like I was lying to myself.

After I was completely comfortable in my sexuality, I noticed that whenever I voiced my standards in women, some woman, no matter who it was, had something negative to say about it. They always gave me a disgusted look and called me a “sexist” or a “misogynist.” Because of this, I actually became a white knight for about a year or so. Once I figured out that this white knight bulls~~~ wasn’t working, I researched feminism, chivalry, marriage, and eventually found out about MGTOW.

Now, I don’t give a flying f~~~ about what other people “think” I should do. To help myself learn to do this, I listen, read, or watch MGTOW content almost on a daily basis. Which is why I’m thankful that this website exists. With it being an archive, I have hours of content to help me re-program my brain and flush all the gynocentric bulls~~~ I was taught at an early age down the drain.

[HitmanParticipant]

Good for you brother! now flush that crap right down the f~~~ing toilet where it belongs. You live for YOU, no one else is going to do that for you. .it’s your life to do with as you see fit.

[Anonymous 54]

Nice not giving a f~~~ isnt it ! Some of us enjoy solitude more than anything else in life. People can not understand this. But hey..i dont give a f~~~!!

[experiencedParticipant]

Part of programming by society i.e. laydeez, is the term, “anti-social.”
I highly doubt that you are anti-social.
What you are is = not pro-social.
You see a situation on your right, a social one, you decide to continue straight ahead. OR it never even occurs to you to turn right.
Had you gone right, it would’ve been perhaps “pro-social.”
This is different from making it “a point” to go to the left.
You. are not. anti-anything.
You are merely continuing on your way, straight ahead. Good on you!

LAYDEEZ/society/mangina’s/white knights will ALL attempt to shame you saying you acted in an anti-social manner. This is their lie, ignore them.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[SilentParticipant 303]

@hitman

Will do. I only wish I took that advice during my blue pill years. I’m just glad I took the red pill in my early 20s!

@Bone

Haha, yep, it is. Plus, solitude is a great thing!

[SilentParticipant 303]

@experienced

Well, I can agree with that. For the most part, I don’t like being around people at all. And when I do enjoy the company of others, it’s usually older men or other MGTOW.

Most men my age are PUAs unfortunately.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Silent wrote:

retarded PC liberals saying stupid s~~~ like “sexuality is fluid” “If a man can’t handle seeing gay guys kiss he’s insecure about his masculinity, blah, blah, blah.”

Yeah, until you turn the tables on those pukes.

Very often, when you get a group of guys together, they try to “gay you out” and “what are you a F~~?” you…. just because you might be carrying an umbrella when it rains.

I always use a very specific stock response for that:
“Well I could certainly be gay long enough for YOU to blow me.”.

Then you’ll see who’s really “insecure about their masculinity”. Suddenly this crowd of idiots gets very comfortable because they just found out you’re insecure about nothing. Anyone who uses the word “masculinity” in a sentence is insecure about it enough. They don’t need to project it on other people. And since gays more often take YEARS AND DECADES to come out of their goddam closets…. it’s actually the gays that are more insecure than anyone else.

These people need to be shut down and shut the f~~~ up before lecturing others on their “masculinity”. And if she’s a woman? Please. Her opinion is totally insignificant.

If a man can’t handle seeing gay guys kiss he’s insecure about his masculinity

Just look at the way that bulls~~~ statement is structured.

“If a man can’t handle….”

“Honey, if I see a piece of dog s~~~ on the street, and have no interest in looking at it, it doesn’t mean that I can’t handle it. It means that I am not f~~~ing interested in it…. just like I am not interested in your worthless dogs~~~ opinion.”

Careful with all comments that start with “if”. Feminists, gays and women use them all the time. This is a vaginized way of bringing forth something that has NO PLACE IN REALITY… followed by a declaration as if it’s all true.

• “If you really loved me you would.._____ (insert stupid stunt and female demand)_____”
• “If you were secure in your masculinity… _____ (insert bulls~~~ here )_____”

All attempts at getting you to QUESTION your own “masculinity” even though it’s a non-f~~~ing issue. I can’t even tell you how many women I have encountered who I REFUSED to tell exactly what they wanted to hear, and they would say “What are you, GAY???”

“Tell you what…. why don’t get down on your f~~~ing knees, take out your boobs and open your mouth. Then you can tell my b~~~~ on your chin how “gay” I am all you want. I would really LOVE that. Say… 10PM your place?”

.. preferably in front of as many other people as possible.
That’s called truly “not giving a f~~~” and women are never prepared for it.

“EW GROSS NO WAY!!!!!”.

“Why not? What are you…. GAY????”.

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[SilentParticipant 303]

@keymaster

I always use a very specific stock response for that:
“Well I could certainly be gay long enough for YOU to blow me.”.

Haha, I’m definitely using that line when other white knights and manginas try to say something stupid about my sexuality.

“Tell you what…. why don’t get down on your f~~~ing knees, take out your boobs and open your mouth. Then you can tell my b~~~~ on your chin how “gay” I am all you want. I would really LOVE that. Say… 10PM your place?”

That’s a great quote as well. And it’ll definitely shut most women up.

******

It’s always hilarious to watch the f~~~ers eat their own words.

I always hate their hypocritical views on men and women. They say they’re for equality most of the time, yet, when a woman decides to stay celibate and avoid men, she’s “independent.” And when men decide to stay celibate and avoid women, they’re called “gay, loser, pedo, creep, etc.”

At least now since I found out about MGTOW, I can be a master at not “giving a f~~~” what other people do. Most of it doesn’t affect me directly either way.

[KeithParticipant 482]

At the risk of seeming self-absorbed, I do enjoy my own company and never feel lonely. I am a highly social creature, probably by training and not by nature. My job requires a substantial investment in interaction with others both socially and professionally.

I make the best of it by being open to listening and learning and watching the interactions at various gatherings. I have become much more open minded and receptive to things that I would have previously found distasteful as a result of this cultural exposure. This has helped me learn to “not give a damn” about the crap other people do that does not affect me.

I cannot waste energy worrying about abortion, gay marriage, the Supeme Court, etc. there was a time when I did invest time and effort to the social issues, but Through exposure to others ideas and people, I learned to release my burden because I don’t have a dog in the fight. If you want an abortion, have one, you want to marry a dude, marry him, I just don’t care. Opposing ideas do not scare or threaten me.

I don’t care what people think of me or my ideas, I live my life for me (and my dog) and nobody else. I would not presume to impose my ideas or my values on someone else.

ONCE UPON A TIME there was a man who never found a wife and he lived happily ever after. The End.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Love the quotes, @keymaster!

I like the variant: “Darling, it’s easier to call me gay than admit you aren’t even attractive enough to turn a straight man on.”

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Congrats at being able to digest the red pill. Though I didn’t realy have it as hard as you, I stil consider mysef as an introvert: I draw power when I’m alone….I never get bored with myself…and I constantly keep thinking ..

I can’t stop thinking, that is one of my main probems…so half the time, I’m not really in this world, rather in a world of my own.

Glad to have you! Welcome to MGTOW .

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 54]

Most of the things in life that we enjoy in life,the inventions that make us comfortable,art,literature,great musicians,movie script writers to the great philosophers thru the ages where created by Men who enjoy solitude. Hanging out and drinking with married men bitching about there wives is a waste of time. Allways be yourself!!

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