Learning and realizing

[redCanine3669Participant 90]

if I don’t feel comfortable, I should walk away and disengage.
that is self-control.

even if my body wants human interaction, I should walk away and disengage because the human interaction is not healthy for me or others.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

Precisely. Whenever someone gives me s~~~, I just walk away without giving any kind of emotional response. “I dont need to be here so bye”

Brother, we need to stick together.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

redCanine3669 wrote:

I should walk away and disengage because the human interaction is not healthy for me or others.

How is human interaction unhealthy for you or others?

redCanine3669 wrote:

I should walk….. that is self-control.

Actually, being surround by people you can’t stand and not losing your s~~~ is closer to “self control”…. but since you can’t even abide “human interaction”, you have some work on yourself to do.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[redCanine3669Participant 90]

Keymaster wrote:

but since you can’t even abide “human interaction”, you have some work on yourself to do.

yeah, true. I’m comfortable talking with dudes but not so good talking with the opposite gender, even casually or professionally. only time I talk to them is after I watch a love movie or something.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

redCanine3669 wrote:

but not so good talking with the opposite gender

There is no special skill required for that.
Just stop thinking of them as “the opposite gender”.

Talk to women like you talk to a man. They won’t like it, but that’s not your problem.

redCanine3669 wrote:

only time I talk to them is after I watch a love movie or something.

Then stop watching “love”/romance movies. They’re BAD for you.

Pretend she doesn’t have a vagina at all.
Congratulations. You’re cured.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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