Last Night

[Anonymous 9]

So last night I invited a chick over, and here the weather is kind of crazy at that with rain, and heavy winds.

She makes the hour drive to see me.

But it all goes downhill when I bring out the bottle of Svedka vodka – she becomes visibly upset because I flatly refused to buy the Grey Goose that she mentioned early that evening.

Svedka imo is a pretty good vodka. Not as expensive as Grey Goose, and from most blind test most couldn’t tell the difference.

After he pitching a fit, and going to the couch not saying a word, I ask if she would like to go home?

She says all I have to do is say the magic words.

I quickly showed her the door.

Crazy bitch.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Saved by brand value perception! Offer up a prayer to the gods of marketing and be grateful for being spared the shallow incoherent mewling of mentally deficient herd animal.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[Anonymous 9]

+ 1 to you guys.

Yeah, it was a matter of brand value perception. That’s exactly what it was.

I wasn’t buying a $40 dollar bottle of vodka for that bitch. Now I’m really glad I didn’t.

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

I would almost call that a MGTOW s~~~ test, don’t buy what she wants you to buy, she got the arse, therefore she doesn’t respect you or your property, test failed and you showed her the door. Another one who will be asking “where are all the good men?” in due course.

Of course let’s not forget if you’d bought the “right” brand you’d have been screwed either way, being either friendzoned because she now knows can twist you round her little finger or worse accused of rape because of course if she’s been drinking she can’t consent to sex and you know how that story goes.

[Anonymous 9]

Definitely.

Being accused of rape is the first thing I thought about when she left.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

So last night I invited a chick over…

That was your first mistake.

Your second, equally huge, mistake was inviting her over to “hang out”. I know, I know, “hanging out” is all you Gen X, Gen Y, and Millennials ever do, but the incredibly vague nature of that term was a big part of the problem. “Hanging out” can mean anything. It can be Netflix and dinner, it can be cooking dinner, it can be video gaming, it can be drinking, it can be sharing a bong, it can be foreplay, it can be sex, it can anything and everything and that’s why “hanging out” is a problem.

When you asked that c~~~ to hang out, you meant one thing and she heard another. You wanted to kill a bottle of vodka and watch some TV while she thought it was a date. Those differing expectations led to her leaving in a snit and you’re lucky she wasn’t p~~~ed off enough to cause real problems.

IF you’re going to ask a woman to come over, provide a SPECIFIC REASON for her to do so. No vague bulls~~~ about “hanging out”, you explicitly name a specific activity so there can be no misunderstanding. Of course, with women there’s always a misunderstanding because their devious little minds cannot comprehend the idea that someone would say what they mean and mean what they say. However, if you explicitly state that she should come over to watch Game of Thrones and share a joint, she can’t get too angry when all that happens is you two watching Game of Thrones and sharing a joint.

I’ve several women I invite over regularly, but each knows why she’s been invited before she arrives.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Anonymous wrote:

I quickly showed her the door.

Respect.

[markParticipant 451]

OldBill wrote:

IF you’re going to ask a woman to come over, provide a SPECIFIC REASON for her to do so. No vague bulls~~~ about “hanging out”, you explicitly name a specific activity so there can be no misunderstanding.

Could not agree more. And that achieves many goals, among them she knowing that she is dealing with a real man, and you having proof that she knew that the purpose of that date was sex (that could help a potential rape allegation).

I have long ago switched to honesty, and it has saved me lots of unfruitful dates. It has not made me more successful or handsome or anything, but what it has done for me is that whenever a chick comes over, I get laid.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

gllahone84 wrote:

I quickly showed her the door.

Respect.

+1. Crazy sloot is probably getting the tingles now too, lol. Don’t put go putting your dick in crazy though, that’s the rule.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[KeymasterKeymaster]

OldBill wrote:

IF you’re going to ask a woman to come over, provide a SPECIFIC REASON for her to do so. No vague bulls~~~ about “hanging out”, you explicitly name a specific activity so there can be no misunderstanding.

That’s why I love using the line:

“you wanna come back to my place for a f~~~ and a pizza?”

“OMG!!”

” What………….you don’t like pizza?????”

Anonymous wrote:

I flatly refused to buy the Grey Goose that she mentioned early that evening.

Excellent move, man. And don’t even think about it. I hang out with fair number Russians once in a while. Vodka is water to them, and they will tell you not to bother with that “Grey Goose” nonsense. She’s just trying to see how much money you will waste on her ass. She will drink what you serve her – and be grateful for it – or she can get the f~~~ out.

I once had a woman over and she watched me hand-cut 2 bowls of strawberries right in front her while we are talking. I put the ice-cream and a piece of dark chocolate in the bowl….. and AFTER THAT she pushed it aside and said “Oh I can’t eat strawberries. The seeds get stuck in my teeth”.

I sent her home right there, and never called her again.

If she isn’t grateful for what you do for her, tell her to hit the f~~~ing road.

She EXPECTS “grey goose” vodka and if you DON’T buy it you’re an asshole?
She can finger-bang herself. What you do for her will be a +1 or GET OUT.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 5]

TRUTH: Feminism freed men and enslaved women.

According to every version of Feminist dogma we’re no longer bound to provide for or protect or excuse women.
Women are absolute equals and should be treated as such.
Any s~~~ tests from women like the one related by the OP should be treated in exactly the same way as we’d react if a man pulled the same narcissistic stunt.

I love that women will no longer make a hard working man a sandwich.

If a woman feels demeaned by the traditional role of making a sandwich then I believe a man or woman is abusive for insisting she make one.
Of course. I won’t be playing any traditional roles either. That’s only logical.
I won’t be demeaned by working 8 – 10 hours to buy her that dress. She gets paid exactly the same if she does exactly the same work as I do.
I won’t be giving her the proceeds of 1000’s of hours work so she can have that car or furniture or holidays she wants either.
I won’t be spending 100’s of 1000’s of hours paying for that dream house she so desperately wants to impress her family and friends either.
I’m quite happy to make my own sandwich though.

Feminism,,,,bring it on!!!!

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

If she isn’t grateful for what you do for her, tell her to hit the f~~~ing road.

That’s a cure-all for any given man! If all men had that attitude; women would change their s~~~ personalities over night!
I’ve always felt women should grateful for men, instead they chose to be selfish and spoiled while outright neglecting men!
A mans life is better spent following his own instincts, rather than serving the selfish wants of today’s narcissistic female.
Today’s female is only capable of a raw s~~~ty deal, they have no sense of fairness, or an ounce of empathy!
Unleash these monsters to devour each other, they’ve already eaten enough good men!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s a cure-all for any given man! If all men had that attitude; women would change their s~~~ personalities over night!

I agree with that!

She EXPECTS “grey goose” vodka and if you DON’T buy it you’re an asshole?
She can finger-bang herself. What you do for her will be a +1 or GET OUT.

If you think of it in terms of integers, EVEN IF HE BUYS THE VODKA —- he’s at zero. Because she expected it. And if what you do for a bitch is not a +1… you have to kick that bitch out! Whatever you do for her, it has to be a +1 or DUMP HER.

I was a part-time bartender and women don’t know the difference.
NONE of them would even buy the more expensive vodka for themselves!!! So why should he??
A woman will NEVER pay $9 for a $6 vodka/ OJ .

20 years ago it used to be “ABSOLUT” vodka. A Russian will laugh if you bring that to a party. Better off bringing EVIAN water.

“GreyGoose” means the same to a woman as a BMW / Ferrari hood ornament on a car. Nothing. It doesn’t even tell her he has any money!! It only tells her he SPENDS money. She doesn’t know value in a man like she doesn’t know value in vodka. Grey Goose means the same to a woman as horsepower and thrust-to-weight ratios.

I would have asked her….. “Grey Goose” huh??? What do you like about it? What makes it better than Stoly?”

Sound of crickets chirping will follow.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 9]

S~~~ like that is why I’m MGTOW.

I couldn’t believe she got that mad over some liquor. From now on I have to make my intentions clear, and stop using the hang out excuse for getting up with a chick.

By just being upfront it eliminates a lot of problems beforehand.

[Anonymous 42]

KeyMaster, you’re right! When the f~~~ are us men ungrateful for anything? It takes a really spoiled rotten bitch to expect anything, let alone the best available!
One time I was eating dear meat on the snowmobile trail in the middle of nowhere, I was grateful for the kindness more than the meat! A woman would have said something like “GROSS, I’m not eating that! Isn’t there something else?”; that’s the one thing about women I really can’t stand. NO GRATITUDE!

[Anonymous 18]

In all fairness on a lonely rainy wet (lol) night for the hour it took her to drive over I would have got myself going. And totally expect to take her to bed.

I would have laughingly joked about its all the same. Quit being a spoiled brat (think: superfluous c~~~). At least some foreplay and rub and tug are in order when I expect a woman to drive an hour to see me.

You are a better man than me.

Only if I could be in her head listening to the thoughts as the hour long journey back home began.

Men like you give me hope. I just don’t invite c~~~s over anymore.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

OldBill wrote:

Those differing expectations led to her leaving in a snit and you’re lucky she wasn’t p~~~ed off enough to cause real problems.

You lucked out brother. You’re lucky she wasn’t p~~~ed off enough to cause real problems (false sexual assault accusations)

This scenario is exactly why I suggest people consider getting and maintaining video surveillance of their domicile, with backup to the ‘cloud’ or other off-site storage. Cloud or off-site storage is important so the lying skank, her friends, or the cops can’t compromise the evidence. (We all know the skanks would never destroy exculpatory evidence)

I also suggest people maintain audio recordings. DV charges against a mayor were recently dropped because the mayor had an audio recording. I have a keychain voice activated recording device which downloads to my computer and then to the cloud. Works well and might save my butt someday.

I loved OldBill’s suggestions- always provide a lady with a specific reason for coming over. (OldBill – you’re a genius. I honestly never thought of this before.)

I have had women get mad at me when I didn’t spend what they thought was an acceptable amount of money. It really is a no win situation. If you did spend the money, she would lose interest because she would consider you a weak man and women are never attracted to weak men. She tipped her hand nicely and you got a glimpse of her gold-digging heart. You absolutely did the right thing, although you risked p~~~ing her off and being accused with some type of false sexual assault.
I don’t know if it the right thing to do, but I will usually put up with their shenanigans for the evening and then never call them again.

Nothing worse than a gold-digging skank. I sometimes will let ladies come over to drink cheap but good wine and watch old movies. I think I would go nuts if the skank refused the cheap bottle of wine and insisted on a more expensive bottle. (I used to be involved with wine clubs- a bottle doesn’t have to be expensive to be good). As someone said here- a great s~~~ test.
I say good riddance to the gold-digging skank. Thanks.

[OldBillParticipant]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

(OldBill – you’re a genius. I honestly never thought of this before.)

Definitely not a genius, just experienced. I was fortunate enough to develop my experience during an era where a guy could make mistakes with women and not get f~~~ed over. Young men today don’t have that luxury. They either need to get it right the first time or face dire consequences. That’s why sites this one are vitally important.

Your suggestions about audio and/or video recordings are good ones and I’m sure the tech savvy men here can easily set something up like that.

Nothing worse than a gold-digging skank.

Amen, brother, and today they’re all gold-digging skanks to some degree.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

She says all I have to do is say the magic words.

The magic words are “good” and “bye”.

Also never, ever take her back to your place. Always “hang out” (or whatever) at her place. Apart from that this was masterfully handled.

Also also, good scotch is worth paying for. Good vodka? There’s no such thing. Spending money on a particular vodka is just spending money for the sake of spending money. Which is what she really wanted to see you do. You made the correct choice there.

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