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    It’s interesting to me that there are people here that had a single event that brought them to this line of thinking. I guess in some ways I had an event that forever shaped the way I view woman. Only for most of what I’ve seen, it was divorce or horrible, and relationships my experience was a decade ago, when I was 12=13. the event itself was very minor, but it showed me just how petty, conniving, and unnecessarily unforgiving a woman can be.

    When I was 6 I went to kindergarten with my cousin and the story’s antagonist at the time. She happened to live next door to the girl, with whom proximity was enough to spark a friendship. I, in my wizened age, was attracted to her. and that would have been the entire story, had I truly been wise enough not to tell my cousin of this fact. Her reaction, I see clearly now, was actually quite predictable. She immediately called her friend and told her over speaker phone that I liked her. I was mildly humiliated by the laughter, but it meant little to me. Eventually I moved on, went to different schools, and only had to see the girl occasionally when I spent time with my cousin. Despite the fact that I did nothing further to antagonize her, literally did not speak to her, she still treated me as though I was some gross stalker following her around. I don’t really remember much of my contact with her other than that. So at some point when I’m twelve or thirteen, said girl throws a Halloween party, and I am at my cousin’s house that night, so I go. And it’s a s~~~ty party for young teens, as expected. I had no interest in the people there, so I focused on food. I have no real idea how long I was there, but I remember at some point she walks up to me, and tips the plate I’m holding onto me. I’ll admit I didn’t really know how to react other than to wipe the queso off my costume. My cousin was livid with her friend, and both she and my aunt yelled at her quite a bit while I merely walked away, uninterested in being there any longer.

    Now aside from the fact that I am 100% positive that her parent’s weren’t home, which kind of baffles me in hindsight, the most vivid memory I have is of her face. She wasn’t really even apologetic, or even resembling it. She was upset, but that was only because she was being yelled at, you could see it on her face. As though she was entitled to treat men like s~~~. I remember at one point before that incident that my cousin said the girl’s father was from some foreign country and that he treated her like she was inferior to her brother because she was female. I thought afterwards that maybe he was on to something.

    My cousin quit being friends with her after that, although I recall it took a while. I think she’s more sensible than most women, if still no unicorn(sorry, some realizations are beyond my limits.) I also can’t help but feel the outrageous level of c~~~ her friend showed me may have helped.

    The point is that there is something wrong with women that I don’t feel any woman can adequately explain. They don’t need to. Their actions speak volumes. A little girl in my life held a 6 year grudge because I had the audacity to like her. So she showed just how much of an ugly c~~~ she really was.

    Not to draw this out too much longer, but I have one more point to make. Many people I see here seem to have some notion that modern western women are really the problem. You are too focused on a single subset my friends. THEY ARE ALL LIKE THAT. We’ve known it forever. Look at the Greek myths, and you will find a conniving group of bitches. Hera with her constant attempts to murder her husband’s children with other women. Every wife of every ruler that was dethroned by his wife urging her son to kill their father, first to Uranus by Kronos, then to Kronos by Zeus. Stories like all things are a picture of the people who tell them, and this shows that even as far back as the Greeks, and farther still, we were able to see what they were.

    And we did nothing to stop them until after it was they had screwed us.

    This is why I went with Helen be Damned. It is not worth a war over some stupid c~~~.

    "You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

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    Seeing a females true nature is very revealing. The narcissism was strong in that one to believe that you were stalking her for years when you rarely saw her.  Look forward to hearing more from your view on the nurture aspect of women and the societal impacts of various issues. Welcome Helen Be Damned

    It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

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    Welcome to MGTOW,

    I know in my personal experience that women are always scheming and plotting. I’ve learned that placing blind faith in women whom are family is just as dangerous as placing blind faith in strangers. If you don’t think for yourself and always keep a watchful eye to the behaviors of women you’re libel to fall into their traps. Whether those traps are intentional or even conscious is immaterial. What is important is that they exist.

    I find myself often looking to the wizard rules from the Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind. I believe that two rules are very important to keep in mind when dealing with women.

    Rule 5: Mind what people do, not what they say, as deeds will betray a lie.

    Rule 10: Willfully turning aside from truth is treason to one’s self.

    Regards,

    Great-Oz

    "Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

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    Including the all important first rule: people are stupid, they will believe a lie because they want it to be true, or because they are afraid it is. Men believe much of what women say for this reason.

    "You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

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    Yes, the first rule is the first, because it is the most important. I used to believe that women wanted to help and that by trusting them I would be able to become better. In fact the exact opposite was true. Now, I strive to keep that concept in the front of my thoughts.

    "Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

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    Was unsure where else to post my new favorite quote, and so: “Don’t try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other.” Almost true, but it is more accurately said “Don’t try to deal with women. As you grow to understand them, you will grow to hate their actions.” The other is, however, more colloquial, concise, and amusing.

    "You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

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