Just wrote another alimony check

[TaxGuyParticipant]

They call it spousal support. F~~~ that, she’s not my spouse. I wrote those checks like crazy when she was my spouse. I paid for the house, the utilities, the groceries, her car and insurance. THAT’S spousal support, this is alimony.

OK, it sounds like I’m p~~~ed. Honestly, I used to be. I’m basically paying half the rent for her and her boyfriend’s place, where my kids spend most of their time. But lately it’s just been another bill to pay that comes due in the middle of the month. Write the check, stick it in the mailbox, and move on. A bill that will be paid off in 3 1/2 years, kind of like a big freaking car payment. But when it’s done I’ll have more money than I know what to do with.

By then I’ll have no debt, a massive pay raise, and maybe even a side gig to keep me busy when the girls don’t need a ride to all of their activities at night.

When you earn the money, you know you can always earn more. When it’s free to you, you fear the day the free money dries up. For some reason the thought of actually working for a living drives most women crazy. She should be working her butt off like I do and saving a bunch of that cash. But every time I talk to the girls and one of them has something going on, the other one is “going shopping with mom.” Yeah, when you don’t earn the money it’s really easy to spend.

Just thought I’d share. I used to be in a s~~~ty mood once a month when I had to write that check. Kind of like a divorce period that shows up once a month, just a different kind of blood letting. Now it’s just another bill, one that I know will go away soon enough. Excuse me while I check my pockets and briefcase…………….. I looked, fresh out of f~~~s to give.

I think this is a moment of red pill zen that Stealthy likes to talk about. Just thought I’d share for any of the brothers that has the monthly divorce period. They do get easier over time.

Have a great day gentlemen.

Order the good wine

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Thank you for posting. I hope ALL our younger brothers read this and post it on their foreheads. Then when some hot chick with an ace rack and butt smiles at you – remember the pitfalls of marriage and children in today’s world.

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

this is alimony.

Otherwise known as Vaginamony!

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[Anonymous 54]

I have no compuer. I do this on my peice of s~~~ pre paid cell phone.Why.. alimony. Why..vagina. Ok kids lets review..vagina-alimony-doing this on pre paid cell phone .Got it kids!

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

@ Taxguy. First, thank you for your insights. I look forward to your posts.

Now consider the mental/physical/spiritual benefit you receive from doing your job, and doing it well. Women cannot possibly even fathom these benefits. It’s far beyond where their adolescent brains will go. They see men doing “work” and think, “I can do that, and do it better.” Then they go through the motions, and either, create excess drama in the workplace to cast themselves as a victim, or sleep with the boss so they can quit work. They never bother to consider the unwritten blessings from a hard day’s work.

TaxGuy wrote:

When you earn the money, you know you can always earn more.

Again, well said. A friend of mine paid out $3 million cash to his ex wife and said “I don’t care about the money. I can always make more.”

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

@ Taxguy. First, thank you for your insights. I look forward to your posts.

Now consider the mental/physical/spiritual benefit you receive from doing your job, and doing it well. Women cannot possibly even fathom these benefits. It’s far beyond where their adolescent brains will go. They see men doing “work” and think, “I can do that, and do it better.” Then they go through the motions, and either, create excess drama in the workplace to cast themselves as a victim, or sleep with the boss so they can quit work. They never bother to consider the unwritten blessings from a hard day’s work.

TaxGuy wrote:

When you earn the money, you know you can always earn more.

Again, well said. A friend of mine paid out $3 million cash to his ex wife and said “I don’t care about the money. I can always make more.”

Thanks. When you make money with your brain, you get to be worth more as you accumulate information. When you make it with your looks, your value diminishes.

Like you said, a woman will look at what I do and say “I can do it better.” What she rarely says is “I WILL do it better.” Could she, maybe. WILL she, most likely no.

Order the good wine

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

3 and a half years isn’t too bad and then you will be free of her forever and rich. In 9 years time my payments will go down to half (eldest reaches 18 years old) and in 10 years I will be done. While she is currently spending like there is no tomorrow and getting massively in debt I plan to use the next ten years very wisely.

I save every penny I can, have zero debt and plan to buy a house in the next couple of months. My plan is then to carry on saving every penny I can to clear the mortgage and my goal is to be mortgage free in 10 years time just as I stop paying child support. This means at 52 I will have a house fully paid for and every single penny I earn from that day on will be mine.

She, on the other hand will still have a massive mortgage and realise that there is no more money from me. I am sure she will have dumped the current boyfriend for a succession of pump and dump assholes and will be single as her looks will have long since abandoned her.

As Popp says, men always lose the short game but don’t sweat it as you will definitely win the long game and that is way more important.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

As Popp says, men always lose the short game but don’t sweat it as you will definitely win the long game and that is way more important.

Love Popp. He is a hero many times over – not for his war experience but for the insight he gives men as to the true nature of male/female relations~~~s.

I feel the same way about Keymaster, and most of the contributors of this forum. All your help/input has helped me understand what happened in my marriage and placed my situation into perspective. I have received more closure from the lessons learned in this site then years of therapy could provide.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

Love Popp. He is a hero many times over – not for his war experience but for the insight he gives men as to the true nature of male/female relations~~~s.

I feel the same way about Keymaster, and most of the contributors of this forum. All your help/input has helped me understand what happened in my marriage and placed my situation into perspective. I have received more closure from the lessons learned in this site then years of therapy could provide.

Absolutely agree, I was so blue pill when I was married that even though my wife had an affair I still blamed myself for our marriage breakdown. It took me a while to start to realise something wasn’t quite right but it was only when I found this site I finally understood what the truth really was. Discovering the red pill and realising that all women are like this was better than all the therapy I had paid for.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

I think it was Tom Leykis who said that alimony is nothing more than a payment you pay for the past use of a vagina. Which is why it should be named vaginamony.

[AttonParticipant]

It takes a special kind of c~~~ to take vaginamony. In fact I would ask if you could send your EX a message from me that she is indeed a massive c~~~.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I saw this when you posted it and marveled at how you take it so well.

TaxGuy wrote:

P~~~ed. Honestly, I used to be. I’m basically paying half the rent for her and her boyfriend’s place,

P~~~ed is hardly the word for it. I couldn’t even allow or see it. Not trying to rub the salt in the wound, but I do agree that sometimes LETTING them have their way, is OK because it will eventually come back and bite them.

I just have a thing about a woman I’m not even banging, dating or living with, collecting a f~~~ing dime. That’s like like writing a check to a car dealer on a car you don’t even drive anymore.

I’ve heard MANY men say “Oh man, paying her to f~~~ off is worth every penny” but that’s only because she worked HER ASS OFF be so annoying and impossible to live with, that he would happily pay anything, just to get rid of her.

It’s like a woman’s wait dream. It actually makes her happy and she can sleep at night.

“My husband would pay anything for me to go away. And he doesn’t even mind all that much!”. That’s actually something women are PROUD of.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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