Just want to share this as a warning….

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Robert Hallam wrote:

Suck it up and tell the dude outright.

Tell him like this:

Call him (from a random phone), say “This is <her abortion clinic name/address>, we are trying to reach <her name> to verify her address for accounts billing on <abortion date>.”

Then, when he asks her about it, she will deny it until her last breath, but he WILL have an address and a date that DOES exist, and will expose the truth.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Ummon wrote:

F~~~ this. It’s really disturbing to witness one of those stories on a personal level.
At least her guy (nice dude btw) does not have to pay for some dude’s child… (not yet????).

Ummon wrote:

I know her since childhood so you could say “she is my friend, he isn’t”.

Ummon wrote:

And until now I just told HER about my thoughts (wasn’t a nice conversation).

You have got yourself a low class friend,
She treats her special boyfriend like this, how do you think she really treats you behind your back?
Honor yourself brother, don’t surround yourself with trash, move on, get rid of her.
You could tell the guy, she’d probably try to cause you drama about it, is it worth it? Would it change his opinion or is he thinking with his dick?
Looking out for yourself brother, you need to be a great person yourself and surround yourself with people of similar values. This girl is trash, take her out to the curb.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[UmmonParticipant 32]

Just to give you guys an update: My friend is pregnant again. She says it’s her BF’s child…. but who knows?
Poor guy…

..and a lesson for the rest of us.

[Anonymous 5]

I think differently from many of the men on this thread even though I know their intentions are honorable.
I’ve learnt never to come between men and women in their relationships.
Just implying that his true love may be a whore could get your teeth smashed down your throat, and she’ll wipe you for life as well.
She might be the biggest whore in the world but that’s not the point.

Emotion will overcome logic every time because love is blind, smoke gets in their eyes, and a thousand other sayings, and they’re all true.
Any idiot can indulge themselves by falling in love and he’s still currently enjoying being under the NAWALT spell.

Unless he’s a close relative or lifelong friend, I wouldn’t tempt fate being a do-gooder.
Even if he was a close relative or lifelong friend it could still go terribly wrong for you.
You did the right thing in my books by doing nothing.

[narwhalParticipant]

The selfish/safe thing to do is nothing. If that’s who you are, then do that. IMO, if you are aware that someone is doing something horrible to someone else, and do nothing about it, you’re an accomplice. Honestly, you don’t seem to care about this guy at all. He’s not your friend, still ah human being, but whatever. You obviously don’t care about this female friend of yours either. This is not a good choice for her, and she’s going to have a miserable life because of it. Eventually this dude is going to find out and she’ll no longer be able to pretend she’s not a whore. You’re being a pathetic friend by doing nothing.

So tell her you’re going to tell him the truth of the situation, tell him, then walk away if that’s what it takes.

Ok. Then do it.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

He deserves to know before they tie the knot of marriage and he’s completely screwed.
I think every man deserves to know the truth instead of simply turning a blind eye.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

There are 2 things you must do 1 tell your friend all that happened and 2 tell beta men you know not to go to spain because it’s a sex hotspot where they will be cheated on in.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[AscendedParticipant 698]

I recommend you to learn how to let go and move on. Sure you learn from the loss of a friend like this way and moving on is the way to reduced pain if any.

There’s nothing else to do here but to avoid the mistakes the others are doing. They (he actually is) are lost.

I’m already aware of situations like these but a repeated warning signs do not hurt.

"We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

[Anonymous 0]

Ummon wrote:

Just to give you guys an update: My friend is pregnant again. She says it’s her BF’s child…. but who knows?
Poor guy…

..and a lesson for the rest of us.

Brother I have to say this is some dark stuff. Imagine if that guy was you. I understand your view of not wanted to come between a man and a woman. And yeah sometimes no matter what we say to our brothers, they will continue on. Sad fact is some of us need to learn from experience. Let me tell you, one day hes gonna learn. I know when I was in a similar situation I saw the red flags and I did not heed the signs. My family and friends watched as it happened, They offered caution but I threw that to the wind. I know better now, but I am paying the price. Its another chain and ball on my soul for the mistake I’ve made. I urge you to at least reconsider your options. What happened to me I would never want on another man and I would expose a woman, be it friend or family, if she was doing something of that magnitude. She has ended the life of a child, she may yet end the life of another man.. There simply is no prosthetic for an amputated soul..

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

A couple of years ago, I had to alert a buddy to the fact that his long term girlfriend that he thought was monogamous with him had been cheating on him. And I had close knowledge of her behavior that included her cheating on him at least three times.

I was smart enough though to not get caught in the middle of things, have my buddy turn on me ‘in defense’ of his ‘princess’ or worse have her claim that I ‘tried’ to hook up with her, etc, etc, etc. She was evil, manipulative and very good at playing her game of maintaining a façade and wearing a mask that hid who she really was.

So: while maintaining total stealth and tactical supremacy. . . . . . . .

I bought a prepaid TracFone and set it up. Then over the course of a 10 day period, I strategically texted him three times a day, for ten days – clues, details, names, times, specifics and even quotes from her, along with an occasional info-based text, like texting him the url for the website Women’s Infidelity and even sending him a link to a book on infidelity (available through Amazon) called ‘Not, Just Friends’.

Anyway. He obviously did not know that it was me and he had no idea where the texts were coming from. A few times he texted back ‘who is this?’ and he called the phone a few times but I never answered.

I maintained a close perimeter on him during that time period, and while at lunch one day he looked depressed and confused, almost like he was facing something very obvious right in front of him and he looked at me and said ‘Do you think Rebecca is cheating on me?’ And, I used that as a way in to give him some insight into female infidelity and clitoral behavior. He really seemed to absorb what I was saying and for the first time ever. The texts that I had been sending him must have been sinking in.

Anyway, fast forward to over a month later. Some kind of internal radar and/or the texts he had received must have sent him into detective mode and he began keeping closer track of her, questioning her (which resulted in arguments and fights) and basically getting wise to what might be going on.

When I knew the time was close at hand and getting ready for the final text, I called him that night while drinking a bottle of Jim Beam and he casually mentioned to me on the phone that he was suspicious about her cheating and I joked about him using a Q-Tip to swab the inside of her mouth for sperm when she got home and sending it to a lab to be tested, and he laughed and asked if that was really possible and we agreed to hang out that weekend and got off the phone.

Later that night/morning, after 1am. I grabbed the prepaid phone and texted him one more time and said ‘hey, wake up. if you want to know the truth, grab her phone next time she doesn’t have it.’

And then that weekend when we met up at a bar, he told me that they broke up and she was moving out because he found a bunch of texts on her phone from not just one but two other guys that she was cheating on him with. And even when confronted with hard evidence, she kept denying it all and accused him of being ‘crazy’.

Then, I had to keep a really straight face when he said he had been receiving texts from a number he didn’t know telling him that she was cheating and texts with details, names, etc, etc. and that one of the names from those texts matched a guy that had been texting her on her phone. He admitted to not knowing who it was, as I stood there nodding my head, but he admitted that those texts got him thinking in the right direction and led to him getting rid of her.

[DarthWParticipant 70]

Why are you friends with her? If she’ll cheat on the guy that is supposedly the most important part of her life, what’s that say about what she’d do to any other guy in her life that is less important, like you.

I’d tell her she’s trash, and I’d pass the info onto the BF. He may be weak and not do anything about it, but I bet he’s already seen hints that this type of thing is what she does. So, he may call you a “liar” now, but put the affirmation in his back pocket and act on it later.

[SilverBackParticipant 37]

Help the guy so he can wake up, whether he stays with her like nothing has ever happened or you ring the alarm bell and he resents you for it… Either way you lose him as a friend and also the c~~~ female friend (who, with all due respect, should not be regarded as such but as a potential threat to mankind). Ask yourself this question : If you were in this man’s shoes, would you rather have liked to be given a red pill raw so you can get angry then come back to your senses to see c~~~’s female nature for what it is, or would you rather have liked to be lied to with silence, only to notice later through a crippling divorce because, let’s be serious here, the c~~~ female friend is in it for herself, not for the couple to last. Baby then cíao ! Hasta la vista ! Getting rammed by teenagers gangbanging teams all over España supported via welfare you contribute to through your taxes. :/

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

No offence but I expected more from MGTOW.
This is what you do: You set a recording cam/mic, dosent matter and tell this girl that if she does not tell him about what she did, you will.
When she says (and therefore confesses on recording) that “he wont believe you”, etc etc, you show her that, making sure you have a back up copy.

That way she has to deal with her own s~~~, and you dont get to be the bad guy (in his eyes at least). You also get to punish this sort of behavior yourself, and that is satisfying.

That is assuming you care enough to do something about it. I already warned the friends I got, its up to them from now on.

[RigParticipant 52]

Infidelity is nothing new. And they are not together since yesterday. If he haven’t already found out that she is a bitch he never will. With or without your help. If you do not know the guy you can only hurt yourself by getting involved.

The questions are:
-what is a good thing to do? (a no-brainer)
-what is the cost?
-who pays that cost? (won’t it be you?)
-what is to gain?
-who get the benefits?

I think that it’s not simple. And in my point of view, your only gain will be your moral superiority. So somewhat selfish.
The guy will have his life shattered. Maybe the truth is morally superior but the damage is great. Be sure that he wants that.

My main point is: if you are to do something, be sure you are doing it for the right person.

[experiencedParticipant]

do the right thing

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[globemasterParticipant 443]

I know a same story but different ending,

My friend was in love with this girl who was divorced .The girl was divorced because she was seeing another guy. After divorce she broke with her bf and met my friend and my friend was crazy on her.

She is great in manipulation. Her friend a guy(lets call him jim) knows all about her and how she was seeing her ex bf still now.

Jim warned my friend not to trust her. My friend became upset and cried to her ,since he was a blue pill guy and emotionally weak on her she manipulated him by saying that,

Jim was trying to bang her and when she said that she cannot cheat on my friend ,jim said to her that he will end the relationship by telling lies to my friend.

My friend believed all she said and he told the guy to shut up or get beaten, that guy stopped contacting my friend. But she still keeps in touch with Jim.

[IAmManParticipant 228]

Ummon wrote:

They are trying to get a kid since about a year.

– Chances that her BF is the father are high – but she couldn’t be sure

– Thankfully she decided (on her own) to get an abortion

Probably won’t be a popular view but I don’t give a s~~~.

I’m trying to wrap my mind around these points.

You’re thankful she decided to abort what is probably your friend’s child…?
He wanted a kid and women are known for killing a man’s kid without thinking twice.. Or asking the man’s permission.. And yes, if he is the father then the kid was HIS kid. To me it seems like she decided to kill his kid cause she found ‘better’. So, Um… WTF?
I don’t care if I have a blue pillin white knight friend making bad decisions…if there’s a chance his kid which he’s been trying for might get killed I wouldn’t be saying I was happy.. If men don’t have each other’s backs what hope do we have? Again, wtf?

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I would tell him this s~~~. I hear so many stories of women sleeping around and getting away with it. The nice guy always gets f~~~ed over. You will be having many awkward breakfasts after this if you guys still all hang out. Good luck

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Sky-O wrote:

So: while maintaining total stealth and tactical supremacy. . . . . . . .

I bought a prepaid TracFone and set it up. Then over the course of a 10 day period, I strategically texted him three times a day, for ten days – clues, details, names, times, specifics and even quotes from her, along with an occasional info-based text, like texting him the url for the website Women’s Infidelity and even sending him a link to a book on infidelity (available through Amazon) called ‘Not, Just Friends’.

Well played, sir! Bravo!

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Sky-O wrote:

A couple of years ago, I had to alert a buddy to the fact that his long term girlfriend that he thought was monogamous with him had been cheating on him. And I had close knowledge of her behavior that included her cheating on him at least three times.

Well done, Sky-O.

Many years ago, someone sent me a couple of texts too in a similar situation. I was an idiot at the time and thought they were just trying to upset or separate us. The first reaction was indeed to protect the honor of the princess. The little angel surely couldn’t do such a thing. But eventually the info sinked in and it really made a difference. I still have no idea who that was, but he saved me from a lot of trouble.

However had someone tried to tell that to my face, I probably wouldn’t have listened. That’s how it is when you’re in love, you’re stupid. So it’s probably a good idea to leave an anonymous message/text/letter, to protect yourself from the resulting drama.

On topic, if that guy really is the father this time, he’s gonna be stuck in hell for 18 years.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

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