Just want some advice involving my career…

[MGTOW AcademyParticipant 62]

So… I want to be an airline pilot. I love aviation, my only true passion. I understand it. I could take a private or even commercial pilot’s license exam/checkride and pass. Heck I could even receive my instrument rating-and I’m only 14. Yes, I know I’m not allowed on here, but after understanding the MGTOW philosophy, and listening to those who follow it and realizing the truth, I knew that this was the best place to ask. Anyways, the problem is that my mom doesn’t support my career. Please understand I have a close bond with all my family memebers (mom, dad, brother, grandma, etc.), but whenever I bring up things like what college I want to go to, how I plan to pay for it, looking at possible jobs to help me build up my hours for the majors, or anything related, I receive this sudden hostility from my mom. She says I could crash and die, which is a risk that I’m willing to take. But flying is extremely safe nonetheless. She says she doesn’t want to lose me, even though I constantly tell her the statistics about how safe flying is, but she always ignores them and continues to say that flying is dangerous. My dad is meh… he isn’t a bad dad, it’s just that he isn’t against it, but also not super proud of my decision. He usually just says you should follow a job that’s respectful, that has honor, etc. And it’s very true that being a pilot is not that much of honorable job for those who don’t love aviation. But I’m doing because I love it, and that’s all that matters. The only thing stopping me from preparing for flight school is my mom really. She isn’t mean, but when I bring up flying, she gets very hostile. I’m not here to brag, but according to my grades and all that I’m smarter than your average 8th grader, so everyone expects me to grow to be a surgeon, or whatever they deem as successful. I can only politely decline that career choice. I can’t imagine myself doing anything else. And like I said, I’m expected to be in what people deem as a successful career, so it’s obvious my parents are pretty disappointed in me. They still care about me, but as I grow up and I age, the bond between my parents and me gets weaker. We argue more, which is part of growing up, but regardless of that, my hopes for life is affecting my teenage years. I’m always daydreaming of flight school when in algebra or science class, but at home I’m under stress and also quite depressed on how I can carry on with this. I hate to admit it, but I’m depressed simply because of my career choice. I have to minimize family contact and stay upstairs in my room to avoid conflict, not because I hate my family, but because I want peace (also why I went MGTOW). I’m not as happy as I used to be. At school, I sometimes have to fake smile to not draw attention from my teachers. I know she won’t change her views as I get older. I asked some teachers I trust about this, and they say it has to do with me being just being a 14 year old. I know she won’t change-if she won’t accept the facts now, why would she change later? I’m an orphan, I could be on the streets, but my mom always took care of me. She’s the reason I’m where I am today. But when she doesn’t support my only dream, it-well I don’t even know anymore. Two parts of me colliding head on. So now that you understand my situation and what’s going on inside my head and before the Keymaster terminates my account, what do I do? Any advice in any form helps, thank you.

MGTOW philosophy podcaster. I’m everywhere. Go your own way.

[Anonymous 54]

Your not supposed to be on here! Quik

If you feel you have a nateral aptituded for it, go fort.
Daydreaming wont make it happen. Get to work.

If Im flyin’..I dont want no Mammas Boy Piolpt. No offence.
Out.

[MGTOW AcademyParticipant 62]

I’m ready for it, just want them to understand…

MGTOW philosophy podcaster. I’m everywhere. Go your own way.

[MonkParticipant 16977]

MGTOW Academy wrote:

He usually just says you should follow a job that’s respectful, that has honor, etc. And it’s very true that being a pilot is not that much of honorable job for those who don’t love aviation.

It is an extremely responsible job and as such also entails making ethical decisions.

Out of curiosity, what would he consider an ‘honourable’ job?

Being a pilot is a good career choice, so if you have the ability, then follow your dream. You may however have to work smart in order to achieve it.

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Okay, first off, for the love of humanity, paragraphs are your friend. You don’t have to treat every single sentence as its own paragraph like some (that’s a bit excessive) but dude… a few sentences. Paragraphs indicate a complete thought. Please, please, please use them.

Now that I have that out of the way, you mentioned going into the 8th Grade in your intro and you’re still here. Don’t sweat the small stuff. You’re just 14 and at that age, a lot of issues look like the end of the world when in reality, they’re just speed bumps.

People will try to tell you how to live your life so that THEY are happy about who you are, not so that YOU are happy about who you are. My mother tried to dictate the direction of my life for years until she finally realized that I was going to do what I wanted, not what she wanted. And you know what? She still loves me. I still love her. I just don’t take any kind of life advice from her and associate with her knowing that everything, EVERYTHING about our interactions is about her. Tread carefully.

You may change your mind about your goals and dreams a hundred times just between now and the time you’re 18. Don’t worry about it. Don’t worry about what others want. You know what MGTOW is, man. Live it. YOUR goals. YOUR dreams. YOUR LIFE! Just relax and enjoy life as much as you can. In the end, it’s your decision, and those who truly love you will back you no matter what you decide. They may grumble, but they’ll back you.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

First of all just wanna say you sound very intelligent and mature, especially for your age. I would have probably guessed you were in your twenties or even thirties. I think even most people twice your age arent on the same level. You should be proud of yourself.

Your parents should be proud too, but of course that doesn’t mean they will be. Just a personal example from my own life, my father has never respected me. Even now at the age of 30, I have a doctorate degree and a prestigious job, but his overall attitude towards me hasn’t changed since i was a kid. I don’t think i could have done anything differently to change it. Even though it bothered me then, i don’t really care now. I simply don’t speak to him anymore.

I guess my point is, you have to decide for yourself who you want to be and what you want to do with your life. Other people may not always understand or approve of your plans, but never let that deter you from doing something you really want to do. If you have a passion for something (and it sounds like you certainly do) you owe it to yourself to follow your dream.

And honestly, the craziest thing is that at age 14 you actually HAVE dreams, ambitions, and goals. I honestly believe most people never experience those things, let alone pursue them and achieve them. With your level of intelligence and maturity, i have very little doubt that you will achieve yours.

The real problem for you is just how to coexist with your family for at least the next few years. I would just not bring it up with them anymore. If they ask, just say you haven’t decided. Learning to camouflage yourself and your ideals to match your social environment is an absolutely essential skill, especially for red pill men. Think of it as training for the real world.

Regardless of what happens next, i wish you the very best. You may be still a kid, but you’re already more grown up than most people out there.

[Anonymous 54]

Oh..They want you to be a Surgeon.
So to them being a Professional Aviator has no Honor?
Hahahha

Tell them you want to be a Musician! Hahah

I beleive a Man should do what pleases him in life.

For some Aviation is a passion.

Do you want to spend your life wondering what if?

Part of becomeing a Man is reaching that point in life when you gently but firmly say, no Mother I am going to do what I want with my life.

I love biplane stunts and the Blue Angles .

[GregB0Participant]

Aviation as a career field is changing and will continue to do so as you go through high school.

Consider getting your B.S. in aeronautical Engineering or aerospace engineering. Once complete, you have choices.

Direct commission into the Armed Forces (Air Force ROTC actually has flight officer slots) or grad school as an ENGR.

Either way, keep your dreams and prepare for the future. Life changes but you seem smart enough to roll with the changes. Let your parents be parents as you continue planning for your dreams and walking the path of life.

Good luck

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Your situation isn’t bad. People also expected me to be an engineer or doctor because I was the top student at my school, but f~~~ that, I do what I want. Look on the bright side: even if your parents aren’t hot about your chosen career, at least you guys are close. My parents treated me like s~~~ until I left home, and now I don’t talk to them at all.

Better get used to not letting other people dictate your life. If you just do what other people tell you, you’re going to be miserable.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 7]

You are not supposed to be here. Now that we have that out of the way………

It is your life young one not your parents.
If it causes grief don’t talk about it.
Do well in school and after do as you please.

I have a friend that is currently a Seahawk pilot for the USN.

The Navy paid his way through college now he hunts submarines, how gangsta is that?

Anyway, chill for a couple years nothing is gonna happen today.

Cheers.

[MGTOW AcademyParticipant 62]

@Old Sage
We’re Asian. Specifically from Bangladesh. He’s a doctor. That’s what’s considered “professional”

MGTOW philosophy podcaster. I’m everywhere. Go your own way.

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

OMG…your in 8th grade? What I wouldn’t GIVE to be back there knowing what I know NOW! Kid…Follow YOUR dream! F~~~ EVERYONE ELSE! Or you will just BECOME THEM! Stop all the nonsense and put ALL your effort and dreams and learning into becoming what YOU WANT to be! F~~~ EVERYONE ELSE! That is what *I* would do, right now, if *I* were *YOU*! Stop listening to ANYTHING other then what YOUR heart tells you! You want that? GO AND GET THAT! The hell with your family, bitches, friends, ANYONE who tells you different! All the good s~~~ will come, once you get where you want to be! All the success stories will say the same thing: NOBODY could talk me out of it! Be careful though! Do your s~~~, but come here EVERY DAY! Get your daily dose of MGTOW! Because if you do this thing…follow your dream? And you actually are successful? You are going to have gold-digging whores up the ass! Trying to pin you down! Set them up! They will tell you ANYTHING! “Oh I love you baby! I got your condoms right here! And I am on the pill so…no chance you EVER get ME pregnant”! And it’s all just lies! To get YOUR income! Fly like a motherf~~~er kid! F~~~ like a porn star! But don’t EVER get one of those bitches pregnant, never ever marry ANY of them! Follow YOUR dream! Not THEIRS! Be smart kiddo….go fly!I wish *I* did…at your age!

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[Anonymous 6]

You are not supposed to be here, please come back when you’re old enough. In fact you’ve been told this before and you clearly don’t give a s~~~ which makes it worse. Please ACTUALLY GO AWAY and come back when you’re old enough.

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Oh yea…sorry! Your too f~~~ing young for MGTOW! Go home kid…lol

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

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