Just left my wife!

[EnactParticipant 59]

I wrote a couple days ago about how I need an escape plan. I was like “f~~~ it”, I just told her we’re done. Despite all the troubles, I’m SO happy. Oh my god I’m going to have twice the energy to get my business off the ground and won’t have a succubus to steal it all!

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Congratulations man! Cheers!!

(This is probably how she felt on HER wedding day about finally trapping you… only backwards)

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Someone get this guy a beer.  You are free. You are not single and lonely.  YOU ARE FREE! The energy you now have can be put in full force into your life goals and dreams.  Wasting energy on women is the number one reason guys don’t get the satisfaction of of life they once dreamed of. Glad to know you’re on your way to your own happiness.  Make sure she doesn’t take half your stuff. Dot your i’s and cross your t’s.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Don’t forget …. if you need … we are here. It’s going to feel quite unusual for a while … till you settle in.

[endgameBlocked 26]

Get that social time through hobbies and random activities, meeting new crazy bitches to run experiments on.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

And remember, the minute you leave you are officially “separated” and the pussy buffet is open.  But seriously keep your hand on your wallet, she’ll be reaching deep inside, she’ll hang you upside down and see what shakes out with the help of the strong arm of the government.

All in all, you just hit the jackpot as far as your “self” is concerned.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Good luck and my best wishes for your successful future.

… This is probably how she felt on HER wedding day about finally trapping you… only backwards …

@entropy, I wish I had thought of that!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

What’s the backstory OP?

What made the relationship decline/how long were you married.  Do you stand to lose a lot in a divorce?  Are there kids involved?

 

Best of luck to you!

 

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Congratulations…let’s get this guy the finest cigar and drink of his choice! Best of luck in your future endeavors, now you will have the time to do w/e you would like. I’m close as well to my escape, and I’m counting down the days. I hope for your sake there isn’t kids, or anything she can latch onto, because she will.

Like I live again mentioned, it’s still going to be a strange time, but we are all here to listen to anything you are going through. Share w/e you can with us, because it will help yourself and maybe even someone else that is close to leaving and needs that reinforcement. Good luck and treat yourself in whatever way makes you happy…you deserve it!

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

Congratulations. Now start living your life for yourself! Enjoy your freedom.

[UntamedParticipant]

Time for you to go in stealth mode.
Trim a lot of your so-called “friend”, especially the ones who say “feeeel” and “intimacy”.
Make your private business truly private. Then you’ll have time for your gainful business.
Hang in there, you’re not alone.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

you should have a party

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

More important than any of this praise is the knowledge that she’s going to say anything she can to get you back.

She’ll promise love, sex, less nagging and blah blah blah. Rest assured if you go back it’ll be the same s~~~ all over again.

Once you decline her empty promises she’ll go into full bitch attack mode, which will further solidify your conviction that her promises were indeed as empty as you suspected.

She’ll then try to do the most despicable things to ruin someone that she once claimed to “love” even if you’ve never done anything even as remotely as horrible to her.

Welcome to the western woman. Avoid at all costs, because it can cost you all.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

wait until lawyers get involved.  talk to one asap if you haven’t already.  stay on top of it all.  be prepared for false abuse claims and other lies.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Enjoy the freedom brother! 😀

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[EnactParticipant 59]

Wow, you guys are amazing!

Backstory for Canadian Sports Fan: We knew each other for a year and a half when we got married in the court house nothing special. But I had this feeling of deteriorating. Then we had a wedding. Just a chill little thing in our backyard with family and friends from in town. Nothing else in my life changed but somehow it made me worse. Now that’s we’ve bought a house and have a child on the way it got so bad I had back spasms that were trying to kill me. I had to look at why. Why was I depressed at all times even though I have a flawless lifestyle? Her. I can’t explain one single reason why. But I know it so f~~~ing deep. I’m free and happy for the first time ever. I don’t care about child support or losing the condo or anything. I’m the one who makes this s~~~ happen. I CAN do anything without a Succubus along for the ride!

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Enact wrote:

Wow, you guys are amazing! Backstory for Canadian Sports Fan: We knew each other for a year and a half when we got married in the court house nothing special. But I had this feeling of deteriorating. Then we had a wedding. Just a chill little thing in our backyard with family and friends from in town. Nothing else in my life changed but somehow it made me worse. Now that’s we’ve bought a house and have a child on the way it got so bad I had back spasms that were trying to kill me. I had to look at why. Why was I depressed at all times even though I have a flawless lifestyle? Her. I can’t explain one single reason why. But I know it so f~~~ing deep. I’m free and happy for the first time ever. I don’t care about child support or losing the condo or anything. I’m the one who makes this s~~~ happen. I CAN do anything without a Succubus along for the ride!

 

I am still in the pre-wedding phase but things haven’t been great lately (you can read about that in my introduction).  I see a few alternative paths I could take.  One of them resembles what you just went through.

The other involves her getting to sign a commonlaw agreement outlining what my pre-relationship assets are then considering my options.

[EnactParticipant 59]

I’m lucky at least her behavior decent. She’ll win a little bit money-wise, but I don’t anticipate anything too crazy.

Navigating this stuff and solving these problems is f~~~ing awesome! Finally something worth doing well!

[EnactParticipant 59]

@CSF, I actually don’t worry about the legal/monetary stuff as I do the mental, emotional, and spiritual freedom. I went all the way because if I was in some middle phase, those things would have been severely compromised. My entire body and mind changed instantly. Physical stuff too, it’s insane. I wouldn’t trade the “full out” for anything, this is amazing.

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