Just blowing off steam and a thank you.

[F!@#GuiltParticipant 48]

I’ve not been very active on this site but, I eventually come back to look through the proverbial prison window and get some fresh air.

I’m currently locked in to the marriage prison. Having been awakened to MGTOW too late, I think the worst thing is dealing with ubiquitous surveillance. In order to (hopefully) ensure a successful separation, I gotta constantly act nice and STFU about how f~~~ing retarded this contractual arrangement is. I just want to f~~~ing leave and never see that c~~~ again. But NOOO! She’s got my b~~~~ in the file cabinet. The potential that one bad word or one argument can derail any chance of me getting the hell out of this relationship is essentially a ball gag with a pad lock. Frustrating doesn’t even come close to describing it.

Thanks to all the guys on this site for your posts. It helps calm the mind and pass the time until my sentence is up and I get qualified for marriage parole. Thanks.

F!@#Guilt YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6hQIbzFPm5RBfsjm2pCGgA

[Anonymous 42]

Man, I feel your gut wrenching despair! Here we are like cattlemen, drovers over an open range, you’re looking out your narrow barred window at all the freedom going by. This canyon is littered with mirage’s adobe one man prisons!

Don’t fret brother, one day you’ll have your MGTOW horse to set you free! Sorry for the cloud of freedom’s chocking dust!

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Why can’t you leave? Just leave!

F~~~ it.

It’s only after you’ve lost everything that you’re free to do anything.

Sounds like if you keep on your current trajectory everything will be taken from you anyways – or so you seem to imply – just let it go on YOUR terms.

Or you can wait until she forces your hand… but then she’ll have claimed that much more of your life!!

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[revistaParticipant 232]

Been there myself and its soul destroying.i know you think the alternative is harder and it is to start with but it gets easier and least your free.all the best anyway.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

As The Keymaster often says, No apologizes needed.

We are here for you. I am glad you are here. We are better men because you are here.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

When you decide to take the leap make sure at least an air mattress is at the bottom to soften the blow,dont just jump. Go see an attorney to weigh your options and see what different exit plans he/she can draw up. Good luck man,I think BonkerMode should chime in here because he’s in the same situation.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 54]

Lay low. Make your plans. Set cash aside. Get youre bike out first. She will go after what you love. Freedom is expensive.Marrage prision robs you of your soul and your spirit.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I agree with the previous posts. Prepare long in advance. Make a through escape plan.

Because you are bound in a legal contract, you will need expert legal advice. This outfit advertises on the radio in the big city near me:
Cordell & Cordell: Fathers Rights Lawyers & Divorce Attorneys
http://www.cordellcordell.com (Full disclosure, all I know about them is from their one-minute ads, but they do make themselves sound good.)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BeeParticipant 700]

What do you mean “get the bike out? ”

I take this to mean get your personal belongings you care about out of the home?

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

I’d say get a real ball gag, tie her up in the basement and do… stuff. But that’s a bit fetish-y, innit?

Welcome, brother, know that all of us sympathise with you and hope you’ll be a free man soon!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[F!@#GuiltParticipant 48]

“I’d say get a real ball gag, tie her up in the basement and do… stuff. ”
I seriously considered this at one point. LOL.

F!@#Guilt YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6hQIbzFPm5RBfsjm2pCGgA

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Sheesh, what exactly does she have on you? She’s going to bad mouth you to the kids? Doesn’t she already do that by insulting you in front of them? Dude, stand up and leave. Your freedom and your sanity are far more important.

[Quiet DesperationParticipant 66]

Been there, done that, mighty f~~~ing painfull. Fill your life with good things, family and friends, find a hobby to take your mind off the bitch, plan carefully and leave on your own terms, good luck my friend.

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

Good Luck, keep us updated.

[experiencedParticipant]

“This too shall pass”

In the meantime find the best attorney and see him to enlighten you and to block her from getting him.

Stash that cash – stash more than you think you will ever need!

Document everything possible and keep that info where she will not find it.

Know that you are already helping others by describing your predicament here.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[No 6 The Prisoner EscapesParticipant 41]

Hi same, been six months since I was here: A wee bit similar situation so we should stay in contact. My situation is like this: I became MGTOW 6 months ago and around that time the MRS had been noticing that things were different and wanted to get to the bottom of it. So we had the talk and she turned on the waterworks etc. The problem I have, like you, is I had a lot to do to my rental properties and some what in my own home before I can begin to think about liquidating my assets and leave. I also have a large collection of stuff I have to sell (The problem with 20 years and more of collecting things, and the fact that I need the money from selling the stuff) So I had to give her a 2nd chance not only for finantial reason but as a social experiment just to see if she was capable of change. Well we all know the answer to that one NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! So I’m still in the village desperately trying to sell off things so I can get out of the sham and prison called marriage. I know have a part time job as a paperboy, and even this small amount of work is helping me get my “mojo” back as without a job its hard to leave the marriage. So although she too ‘has me by the b~~~~” not for long. The long wait will be over one day soon. Because as you know woman like the ones we have to escape from have no respect for us as men and as human beings they are the scum of the earth because they think they are always right

[JavierzulParticipant 37]

Did it for three years. I thought that I could now rest from constantly thinking about marriage and having my own family. It was at the very beginning when I wanted to come home and rest from work and knowing that I had to talk to her when I had no energy nor motivation for it. I would start arguments to free myself from her for a night so I could go to a hotel and get some real sleep. For 3 years my sleep was just surface sleep. I learned to sleep with one eye open. Even my escapes to fishing were tainted with concern about her. I began researching about this particular issue and found ‘Happy Bachelors’,’AVFM’ and ‘MGTOW. When my eyes finally opened I felt sick like Neo in the Matrix. I quickly made the arrangements for separation and divorce. Luckily we had not been together that long for her to access my accounts. My biggest fear was my retirement fund. I had worked for over 25 years at a place and she would have a right to have access to half of it. I said, “No Way”. I got her things and moved her away. There are those of us who don’t have it as easy and have to stay married for a long while. I feel sorry for them. I wish You, Sir. the best.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Ranting is good from time to time.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I wish you all the best, man. Hang in there. You’re very smart to keep cool.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[joetechParticipant]

That’s how THEY do it. Plan and execute.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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