JUST ANOTHER REASON WHY/HOW MARRIAGE FAILS

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Just ANOTHER reason why most marriages end in either divorce or decades of Misery aka “happily married”.

MANY years ago the only advice my father gave about marriage was that it took 2 HARD WORKING people to make marriage work and even that wasn’t any guarantee, but without at least that you’re doomed. If you have one that’s the giver/provider inside and outside the home, and the other is mostly just a taker (IE: parasite) then eventually the provider can never provide enough as the taker just expects more and more. The giver ends up becoming resentful of the insatiable entitlement of the taker, and the taker becomes resentful that the giver can’t provide more.

This pretty much sums up the basis for many relationships/marriages.

Just ANOTHER reason how/why relationships/marriage doesn’t work within the confines of this Feminazi Matrix.

Dating Leads to Relationships
Relationships Lead to Cohabitation
Cohabitation Leads to Marriage
All Roads Lead to Misery

Find something else to do….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[narwhalParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

ANY years ago the only advice my father gave about marriage was that it took 2 HARD WORKING people to make marriage work and even that wasn’t any guarantee, but without at least that you’re doomed. If you have one that’s the giver/provider inside and outside the home, and the other is mostly just a taker (IE: parasite) then eventually the provider can never provide enough as the taker just expects more and more. The giver ends up becoming resentful of the insatiable entitlement of the taker, and the taker becomes resentful that the giver can’t provide more.

I’m going to disagree with this slightly, as I think it still has modern/feminist thinking in the way it defines marriage. If you look at most long term/heavily invested relationships that exist in the world, the most common trait of success is not so much that their made of 2 hard working people, but that there is clear leadership and defined roles. In a business role, you have a clear manager and employee relationship. Hard work is important here, but useless if the manager isn’t leading towards a common goal. Another common relationship is parent/child. The child really doesn’t need to be hard working at all, they just need to trust and follow the rules and guidance set forth by the parent. Even when the parent is doing all the work, the relationship can be very happy and successful if the parent and child are playing out their roles.

And for most of history, marriage was not about 2 hard working people, it worked because the husband was the clear leader of the marriage. He was not always a good leader and the marriage would suffer for that reason. Likewise, the wife may be a poor follower. But it was entirely possible for the husband to carry much of the workload, with the wife doing relatively little.

It’s not so much the wife doesn’t give as much as she takes (or requires), it’s that she doesn’t follow, and takes what it isn’t given to her.

Ok. Then do it.

[CUNTHATERParticipant 324]

Whatever the reason is (probably a combination of both), marriage doesn’t work today because c~~~s have been brainwashed into thinking it is socially acceptable to be lazy/unaccountable and to rebel/not follow men……AWALT.

American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

narwhal wrote:

I’m going to disagree with this slightly, as I think it still has modern/feminist thinking in the way it defines marriage.

Yeah, I think that you are reading a little bit more into it then the way that I’m trying to explain it.

narwhal wrote:

And for most of history, marriage was not about 2 hard working people, it worked because the husband was the clear leader of the marriage.

Awakened wrote:

it took 2 HARD WORKING people to make marriage work and even that wasn’t any guarantee…..If you have one that’s the provider inside AND outside the home and the other is a taker…..yo are doomed.

I’m not necessarily talking about 2 married people both earning incomes outside the house as much as I’m talking about a man that is a hard worker/provider and comes home to a LAZY non-employed or nearly non-employed slob that has done little to nothing in the house while playing the role of ‘housewife” and “mother”.

Historically, A wife provided the labor at home, (IE; cooking, cleaning, child care, f~~~ing and sucking etc.) and then followed her husbands direction. Today, you’re LUCKY if they’ll keep a part time job, and as far as much of any of the above being done in the home……..LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I think a big portion of it is the divorce laws more than anything. If you could “divorce” your job against the will of your employer, and your employer had to pay you a generous lump sum severance package on your way out the door and they still had to pay you partial wages for maybe 15 years…would you do it? That is essentially the deal women get when they divorce their husbands.

If while together the woman cooks, sucks, f~~~s, cleans, and provided a womb for baby making, where as the man takes care of all the finances, a lot of guys might view it as an equitable trade. Now go get divorced. The $$$$$ the man brought to the relations~~~ is easily quantifiable and split by the court system, where as the woman overwhelmingly will get the better custody deal with the kids and walk away with a far greater % of assets than the % of income she brought to the marriage. Meanwhile all the things she may have done for the husband in the past that he valued, she no longer has any obligation to continue doing. He fulfills his traditional marriage role as provider whether the marriage works or not, she does not have to fulfill hers either way.

If you could reverse reality and divorced men could get a cleaning lady, personal cook, and prostitutes whenever they wanted, you know, maintain the standard of living they have become accustomed to, and the ex wife had to pay for it, do you think guys would be out filing for divorce in droves? F~~~ yeah they would. I’d go out and marry a post waller tomorrow just because divorce was such a sweet deal.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3766]

Awakened wrote:

Find something else to do….

Already on it, sir !

Haha, great post, man… as always.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

All women are airhead c~~~s who don’t use blinkers and they speak like idiots. I don’t want them in my life. Thank God!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Awakened wrote:

Just ANOTHER reason why most marriages end in either divorce or decades of Misery aka “happily married”.
MANY years ago the only advice my father gave about marriage was that it took 2 HARD WORKING people to make marriage work and even that wasn’t any guarantee, but without at least that you’re doomed.

Where is the incentive for a woman to work hard to make a marriage work, when they can work less hard by hiring a lawyer to divorce rape their husband?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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