Just a thought

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

So, do you guys ever notice that women always try to stir s~~~ up? Going so far as to MAKE problems where there were none. Well, I have a theory. It’s along the lines of the old saying

“You’ve got to have your valleys to appreciate your peaks”

Basically meaning that it takes the really bad parts of life for you to appreciate the good parts. I’ve noticed that people who have been through rough s~~~ in life, like war, divorce, any realy bad stuff, they seem to be more at peace. They don’t let the small stuff rile them up, they’ve been trough bad stuff, and now to them, no matter what else happens, life will be peaceful by comparison.

So, it stands to reason that the opposite is true as well. For people who have never known hardship and struggle, like, oh I don’t know, WOMEN! People who are waited on hand and foot by society and kept safe, and treated special, ect. They’ve never had to face consequences, they always have a disposable man to bear that burden for them. So, they stir up s~~~, because they don’t know what true turmoil is, they’ve only known childish bliss, so they actively stir s~~~ up, causing drama, scandal, and problems for all.

Just something I’ve noticed, people who have had it bad don’t try to cause drama. I’ll think about it more, and maybe better define the theory, maybe come up with something a bit more concise and concrete, but it was all just a thought.

Thoughts? Please, any input would be much appreciated.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

my parents are like this. stir s~~~ up, make up problems. i’m surprised they haven’t got divorced yet.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 7]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

I’ve noticed that people who have been through rough s~~~ in life, like war, divorce, any realy bad stuff, they seem to be more at peace.

I notice this. Went through depression for a year straight while having neurological and back problems.

My parents always get stressed over s~~~ that doesn’t matter which made me always worry but not anymore because it doesn’t matter. We are all just insignificant ants floating on a rock in an infinite universe.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

We are all just insignificant ants floating on a rock in an infinite universe.

that’s right! my version of this is

“we are just monkeys living on a flying rock”

thus don’t take things too seriously

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

One thing that hit me when i started to critically examine the idea of fulfillment between genders:

1) For men, fulfillment == being happy
2) For women, fulfillment != being happy
For women, fulfillment == regularly experiencing the full emotional continuum.

This is why, even when things are “going well”, women will start s~~~. They need the drama. This is one of the reasons why women stay in abusive relations~~~s, but won’t think twice about leaving the guy who’s the good provider-type.

Dr Glover (pretty sure it was him) even went so far as to say (paraphrased) “to women, drama is foreplay”.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

The thing I noticed while listening to various people bitch about different things, is most of the time they are bitching about the consequences of their own actions and its completely avoidable, or its something that’s just so stupidly trivial you want to tell them stfu.

Like for example…one moron I dated for a while was the activity coordinator at a nursing home. Her boss pulled her into her office one day and gave her a list of things she needs to do a little differently…like literally when she’s calling bingo numbers for the old people hold up a big card with the number on it so the old folk who have a hard time hearing could at least see the jumbo card. I wasn’t there for the little meeting…but to me it just sounded like a boss doing her job and giving one of her workers some constructive feedback. She bitched all afternoon about what a bitch her boss is, and then got mad at me for siding with her boss when I said she’s your boss…listen to her or start looking for another job if you hate her that much. Seemed pretty black and white to me, anytime my boss told me to do something, even if it was retarded, I’d just say ok, and go do it because I’m paid by the hour, wtf do I care?

A couple months later…she calls me on her way home from work all p~~~ed off…it was time for her annual review and she didn’t get a raise, because she hadn’t listened to any of her bosses suggestions lol. She could have just listened, her boss would have got off her back, and she would have got a raise, but instead she wanted to do a half ass job, not listen to her boss, and blame it all on her boss being a c~~~. It was just so much bitching and drama over something so trivial and stupid that in the grand scheme of things wouldn’t have even required any extra time or effort, just do things a little different for the 8 hours a day she had to spend at work anyhow.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Beer wrote:

The thing I noticed while listening to various people bitch about different things, is most of the time they are bitching about the consequences of their own actions and its completely avoidable, or its something that’s just so stupidly trivial you want to tell them stfu.

Yep. This behavior is as common as dirt. You would think anyone ought to get bored with it and quit, but that takes a degree of self awareness that most people are simply too lazy to attempt.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

So, it stands to reason that the opposite is true as well. For people who have never known hardship and struggle, like, oh I don’t know, WOMEN! People who are waited on hand and foot by society and kept safe, and treated special, ect. They’ve never had to face consequences, they always have a disposable man to bear that burden for them. So, they stir up s~~~, because they don’t know what true turmoil is, they’ve only known childish bliss, so they actively stir s~~~ up, causing drama, scandal, and problems for all.

Hell to the YES, Silverstone II. You just accurately described a feminist disease known as SDS – S~~~ Don’t Stink. I lived through that s~~~ty behavior for over 25 years. Women are never content because they’re too f~~~ing busy worrying about their happiness. Happiness is an emotion that is subject to circumstances. Contentment is not based on circumstances and is more or less being content with what you have that you may not even deserve. I’m content with a f~~~ing roof over my head, saltines in the pantry and some cereal. Running water is nice to have and heat during the cold and a functioning air condition (optional but appreciated). Women have this damn disease that makes them feel entitled to everything this world has to offer. And they expect a man to deliver all of this FREE S~~~ to them because they are “SPECIAL”. F~~~ that stupid ass s~~~.

Yeh, sorry man for the F bombs but I lived through what you just described and apparently, so do a lot of other men I read daily on this great MGWTOW forum.

I wouldn’t be so p~~~ed if this attitude you described in women happened to most men BEFORE they get married. For so many of us dudes, it happens 20 years or more into marriage and the collateral damage to children is akin to a nuclear bomb. My ex could not go 2 weeks without starting s~~~ over nothing. That bitch ass would make up s~~~ that never even happened. And I’ve seen it happen to way too many friends of mine as well.

Great post Silverstone II and you are dead on with your analysis.

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