Just a funny relations~~~ story…

[BeerParticipant 11832]

This was a few years ago..luckily I was already red pill at the time, but it demonstrates the female mind set so well from so many different angles.  Anyways…I had a female family member insist I go meet one of her coworkers that was close to my age…so I finally cave in and go on a blind date with her.  Turns out she was pretty hot, had a decent job so at least wasn’t a total financial train wreck, and was fun just to spend time with.  So we hit it off and date for about 6 months.

It became quite apparent about a month into it that she wanted to move in with me, and was looking to get real serious really fast…but I wasn’t dumb enough to do that lol.  Also during that time…her and my relative that hooked us up sort of evolved from a casual coworker relationship to bffs, with me being their favorite topic of conversation.  Now my family is one of those ones with no secrets in it…so pretty much I end up dating this girl who spends more time talking to my mom and my aunt about me, than she spends talking me about us.  My mom and aunt also become very pushy in the relationship as they both viewed this girl as a great slave master for me.  Like literally the first time we spent the night together…her phone rings at 7:30 the next morning and its my aunt asking “How did last night go?”

So needless to say…it only lasted about 6 months because things just kept getting worse and worse, it was so ridiculous having an annoying relative get on your case every time you say something your girl didn’t want you to say, so I end up breaking it off.  Like if she did something I didn’t agree with and I let her know, she’d cry to my aunt, who would then bitch at me for being a dick, or if I said/did something not up to her expectations, she’d cry to my aunt, and I’d have an aunt on my case about it.  I just remember her telling me the last time we talked face to face, “Even your own mother said you’re a jerk.”  I’m just thinking wtf…is she really so stupid to throw something in my face that one of my family members told her, when my biggest reason I just had given her for why things were not going so well with us was the fact that she has to give the play by play on everything to my family members who are way too f~~~ing intrusive and pushy in our relationship…especially after being asked more than once to stop running her mouth so much.  Well that, and I’m thinking thanks mom, lol.

So fast forward about a year from that point.  The family member the set us up has to give me the play by play on that girls life.  She had to tell me all about her new boyfriend, how she got an apartment with him, how funny he was, how he makes so much more money than I do, how happy she is with him, how they just went on a trip together…blah blah blah…all the typical girl bulls~~~ just to try to make me feel like I messed up.  Literally…my own relative trying to make me feel like I’m a loser for not being with some girl that from my perspective just brought a ton of f~~~ing drama into my life, even though that same family member was one of the biggest reasons I couldn’t stand to be with her lol.  So my plan the whole time had been to give her no reaction when she talked about that s~~~, and just reply with generic s~~~ like “oh thats nice,” or “good for her,” like s~~~ you’d say if your mom tells you she ran into some kid that grew up down the road that you could care less about, but felt the urge to update you on what he’s been up to.  I literally wanted to give no reaction, because not only could I not give my aunt the satisfaction of her thinking I thought I made a mistake, but I definitely couldn’t let her go run her mouth to the ex about me being jealous or having regrets or w/e…it was like a giant mind game that went on for a year, I couldn’t let the women win, and I totally won lol.  Well I’m winning I should say…its still going on more than 5 years later, and I’m pretty sure it won’t ever end.

So needless to say…after about a year of not talking to or contacting that girl at all, I get a phone call from her one afternoon.  Of course I don’t pick it up…it ends up going to voice mail.  The voice mail was very clearly a *thud* like someone putting a phone down on a table.  It was then just about a minute of a tv very clearly playing in the background…clear enough you could make out what the voices were saying on a couple commercials before it hit its time limit and hung up.  I just erase it and don’t think much of it, as I had erased her number out of my phone and hadn’t realized who it was at that point, but the girl starts texting me the next morning, saying “hey its xxxx sorry for butt dialing you,” just I just reply with something generic like “No problem.”  I knew it was complete bulls~~~…if she had sat on her phone and it dialed me…she’d have been sitting on it, her ass and her cushion would not have made a thud, and you wouldn’t be able to clearly hear a tv playing.  I only gave her any response because I figured I could at least take the high road…more so I didn’t want to be a prick for the sole reason that I knew word would get back to my aunt if I was, and it was just extra drama, where as I’d love to continue my game of her trying to get a reaction from me, and me not giving her a f~~~ing thing.  Over the next few hours she continues to text me…asking about school…the dog…work…all kinds of s~~~ trying to spark a conversation up, but I just ignore her, and I eventually get a text that just says “well sorry if I bothered you.”  Up until that point I was at work anyhow…so I figured it was all perfect…I’d be totally set up to play it off like the irrelevant event it was if my aunt brought it up.

So later that afternoon after work…I see that aunt.  Literally the first thing she says to me, “I heard xxxx butt dialed you.”  Instantly I know, even more so than I had suspected, it wasn’t a random butt dial, if you accidentally dialed an ex…you’d probably act like it didn’t happen and hope they don’t call back, not proceed to send them a half a dozen texts trying to get them talking, and you certainly wouldn’t have to call someone just to tell them about it…it just wouldn’t have been a big deal, especially for someone who moved on to such a better relationship.  So I continue to win at my game…just give her some generic response like “no big deal, it happens.”

Now where it starts to get really good.  The first chance my uncle had that same afternoon where it was just me and him with no women around…he gets this big old s~~~ eating grin, and he’s like I gotta tell you about xxxx’s boyfriend.  He just got arrested, he got popped for possession of an unregistered firearm, possession of weed and ecstasy, and soliciting a prostitute.  My uncle knew the whole deal between me, the girl, and my aunt…he even had been telling my aunt since the whole thing started a year and a half earlier to back off me, its none of her business…which is why he was so delighted to tell me some s~~~ty news…as he knew my aunt had trying to make me feel like a loser that missed out on a goddess for a solid year at that point.  I made sure to just kinda give him a canned generic response with not much reaction too as I knew he’s a bit of a mangina, and anything I did say in response would ultimately find my aunts ear, but in reality I’m doing everything I can not to burst the f~~~ out laughing my ass off.

Looking back on that, it fits so many of the traits red pillers on this forum have come to expect from women.  Obviously the girl was very manipulative, as she knew she was trying to use my family as leverage, as they would push me to give her what she wanted.  Luckily I realized this pretty quickly and wasn’t stupid enough to let her live with me or anything.  The hive mentality was in clear play…notice how even my own female relatives were more than eager to jump on the woman’s side, and not even once ask me for my opinion or thoughts on the relationship.  It was all about one narcissistic woman trying to get what she wanted, and two other women helping one of their own to enslave a man.  Even after it ended…it was still two enablers trying to mindf~~~ me and get me to give them any sort of decent reaction just so they could ego stroke the ex.  Basically the entire thing from start to finish was all about the women…none of them gave a s~~~ how I felt or what I wanted…and ultimately I just chose to walk away from the drama and keep my sanity…at which point, it suddenly became all about me.  I was the reason things didn’t work out…none of them had any blame in it.  Obviously when I walked off of their plantation, it became about me for the first time, because they realized the only thing they can do when they hold no power over you is try to shame you…like we all know feminist love to do so much.

So what really motivated me to write all this?  Well…another thing commonly spoken of on this forum is living well.  Since that all went down…I’ve continued to invest in me and improve my life.  I’m still active and in shape, I’m done with school, I got a great job and my finances are looking nice for someone my age, I still keep in touch with some great friends I’ve had for a long time, and overall I’m pretty damn happy with my place in life right now.  It feels great to be at a point in life where you literally have no stress and no drama.  As far as the girl goes…she ended up marrying that same dude.  Updates from my aunt have been quite a bit less numerous since the wedding, so I’m guessing its not so sunny in paradise anymore, but either way I really don’t care.  I don’t hate the girl and  honestly don’t want to see bad s~~~ happen to her, I’m just indifferent to her and would prefer to hear nothing over good or bad news.

When I was younger, a dirty old man I knew once asked me if I knew why women closed their eyes during sex.  I did not know.  He told me, because women hate to see a man having a good time.  At the time I just thought it to be a silly joke and didn’t think much into it, but looking back on it now, that man packed more wisdom into 2 lines than most college professors can pack into a semester.  Live well men…when take care of yourself, and always give yourself goals to work towards, it makes it easy to look forward and have no regrets.  It also starts a chain reaction…as living well makes it easy to have a big old smile on your face while you look ahead, and since we know women hate to see a man having a good time, it p~~~es off women that are unable to control you, which in turn makes your smile a bit bigger.

[BryantParticipant 229]

wow congratulations on the win bro

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Beer- 1

Stupid c~~~-0

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

Cool story, bro. Not in the dismissive internet “Cool story, bro” way, but honestly, Cool story.

I can definitely relate to female family members ganging up to pressure me into being a hypergamic utility. Especially my legion of cousins. Their husbands ALL make comments like “Man, I should have waited longer to get married”, or sentences that begin with “I love my kids, but…” all in private, of course. They know the s~~~-storm they’d face if they “communicated their feelings openly” with their wives around. Don’t blame ’em one bit.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Beer wrote:

Live well men…when take care of yourself, and always give yourself goals to work towards, it makes it easy to look forward and have no regrets.  It also starts a chain reaction…as living well makes it easy to have a big old smile on your face while you look ahead, and since we know women hate to see a man having a good time, it p~~~es off women that are unable to control you, which in turn makes your smile a bit bigger.

I really needed to read this today, thank you!

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Vector Viking wrote:

“I love my kids, but…”

Oh God I have heard this line too many times and the classic line “My kids are my Universe.”

[JinParticipant 77]

Beer wrote:

I’m still active and in shape, I’m done with school, I got a great job and my finances are looking nice for someone my age, I still keep in touch with some great friends I’ve had for a long time, and overall I’m pretty damn happy with my place in life right now.

Wow! Really inspiration. Just goes to show that if you’re focused on your goals you will achieve them. It feels like a happy ending story lol. Good luck in life man. Luckily you were on the red pill or else who knows where your life would be now. Mgtow on, brother!

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