I made this comment in a thread the other day, but I wanted to go into this concept a little more. Women run on jealousy and envy. The more jealous or envious her friends are of her, the more she understands her value.
This starts very young for girls. I’m not entirely sure when, but by middle school it’s the brand of clothes you wear, who you hang out with, etc. By high school it’s “who can date the quarterback of the football team”. It doesn’t matter that he’s an asshole, her status is secured because 10 girls wanted someone and one of the girls won. The other 9 are jealous, and 100 more are envious. That’s a high value vagina right there boys.
Now, it’s important to understand that ultimate jealousy occurs when you can maximize the value received for the least amount of effort. Sure, a woman could become a doctor and many do, but the hive isn’t jealous of her. They may be proud of her and give her a “you go gurl”, but she isn’t a high-value member of the hive because she had to work for what she got. No, no, no, the hive is jealous of Kim Kardashian because she’s a multi-millionaire and all she had to do was a sex tape and let a camera follow her around being Kim Kardashian. Women are 1,000 times more jealous of KK than of a female doctor.
Another important concept here is that women would rather be with someone famous than someone rich. I think that women assume that fame = fortune, and many times it does, but many times it doesn’t. But the back-up point guard on the local NBA team who makes $5 million a year scores way more women than the guy who owns the recycling company in town that makes $20 million a year. Oh yeah, and that basketball playing will be out of the league in two years and the recycling guy will be making $25 million a year. So why is the basketball playing getting more women? Jealousy and envy. He’s more popular because when a woman dates him, other women are jealous. Or maybe a better comparison is the B list actor who isn’t an athlete. He makes even less, but still has women throwing themselves at him. Jealousy is maximized when other women know who the guy is that she’s dating. She’s still getting the quarterback of the football team.
So, what does this mean for us? It’s been said many times on this site, and this is not some new concept that I’ve made up, it just fits here. If you want to avoid women, don’t look like you make a lot of money. Don’t set yourself up as a target that other women will be jealous over or envious over. Ghosting works wonders for keeping yourself out of the cross hairs. Because if you look like someone that other women will be jealous over, then the competition will begin whether you want it to or not.
And this is true at a micro level as well which is why it’s important to us. Just being the best dressed, best looking guy at the bar that night makes you the target for the night. I’ve been talking big picture up until now, but this is also true just at the local watering hole on a Friday night. Even if they will regret waking up next to you on Saturday morning they’ll still take you home on Friday night. Why?
Because jealous is the currency of the hive. The other women at the bar will be p~~~ed that they didn’t score the quarterback of the football team.
Bigvern 2 years, 5 months ago.
