I've Been Unplugged

[Bread BaronParticipant 23]

Hey everyone. I want to introduce myself, but I also want this introduction to be a point of reference for many millennials like myself who were raised in a tradcon social context of hard work, honesty and marriage. I believe that these three ideas have been the downfall of many straightforward, logical and moral men trying to find their place in the world.

My journey into the redpill and eventually MGTOW started in 2014 during my freshman year of college. Up until that point, I was a young man who had never kissed, had sex or held a girl in my private high school. My teenage years were characterized by studying and activities that would round out my college applications and resume. I was an unhappy teenager who would play video games and angrily workout in the garage because I hated my life. The teenage me wanted nothing but to be left alone to jerk off to deranged pornography and enjoy the safe hobbies that wouldn’t threaten my future of career success. I experienced extreme shame in my increasingly, taboo porn habits and believed that it would permanently damage me for a good relationship with a woman.

Once high school was over, the college experience began. I enrolled at another private school and experienced an extreme increase in my level of personal freedom. However, this freedom did nothing to change me. I did my schoolwork and worked out. I attempted friendships with the cute girls in my class and became an EXCELLENT friend. Thankfully, I never lost my virginity. That would have jeopardized the healthy relationships I had with my friends and threatened my carefully-planned life. The only thing stopping me was myself.

After failing in getting dates or moving any relationship beyond friendship, I wondered what was the problem. My looks were not the issue. I had done modeling in the past, and had a great physique from my years of angry workout sessions. Figuring that I could simply look up what women wanted, I came across the New York Times Article, “What Do Women Want?” This article revealed to me that women want to be absolutely dominated by wealthy, uncaring men without their consent. I judged that I needed to know what kind of pornography women enjoyed the most in order to understand what this meant. Smut fiction gave me my answers.

I looked up more and more articles and devoured redpill information for months. TheRationalMale, Heartiste, Dalrock, the Spearhead, Rooshv, Return of Kings–I must have read every single article on all of these sites.

I managed to employ some level of game in my relationships with girls and things noticeably improved. After years of zero contact with females, girls were more flirtatious and accepting of me instead of dismissive and cold. I attempted to push things forward, but my inexperience and remaining beta behavior ended up causing me a lot of pain.

At this point, I started finding more MGTOW content. I had begun to suspect that women cannot feel the same kind of love I felt for them as an essential fact of their nature. Women can be affectionate towards men, but they only do this because they see men as objects they love to control. They do not feel the altruistic feelings and admiration a male experiences towards his mate, and they never will.

My journey through the redpill lens of gamesmanship to MGTOW’s lens of truth has been hard and alienating. The more I learn, the more I cannot relate to or enjoy the company of the plugged-in. People who believe that women are sweet, kind and attracted to hardworking trustworthy men are thinking about their mothers. I look down on these people, and I almost can’t help it. Even when I try to inform them or hint at the primal and unchangeable mechanics of human reproduction, they won’t listen and flat out deny my information.

I am alone in my social groups and no one understands this. Even if people listen to me, they will inform me that what I assert is the norm is actually the exception to the rule. After all, their ugly moms stayed with dad all those years and didn’t cheat or leave. Am I telling them it was due to the baby weight and finances that these women stayed?

In spite of divorce statistics, in spite of the bias of divorce courts, in spite of men’s death statistics, in spite of the ruin single-motherhood has brought to cities, in spite of biological evidence, in spite of the phenomenon of Twilight and 50 Shades, in spite of the religious texts these people believe in, I live in a gynocentric world where women are given every freedom imaginable to destroy civilization and the men smile happily and work like the wind-up toys they are born to be.

I will not contribute to this system that is fine-tuned to use me and discard me as efficiently as possible. I will take as much as I can while giving as little back as necessary. Until all men realize that it is in their design to control, dominate and rule everything weaker and more stupid than they are, this civilization is doomed to die. The reigns of civilization have been given to the idiotic and petty children women are, and it is going to hell. Unless the feminists complete their grand project and women metamorphose into men, nothing will change. But one thing is for sure, I am a man going his own way as of my twentieth birthday, and nothing will ever change that.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

You didn’t mention where’re you from

Watch out there. I’ve been just like you at your age, even more hardcore red-pill… And then I fell in love… and forgot everything I knew.
And here I am now, 36, two marriages in and out, on the other side of the planet, starting everything from square one. Don’t do it!

Word of advice – please avoid posting anything that could be interpreted as hate. the MGTOW public image depends on this. Imagine that feminists are reading each of your posts looking for something to smear the MGTOW movement with. MGTOW is not a hate group!!!

Welcome

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[FIDKParticipant 32]

Welcome. Great introduction. Post anything you want. Women are not allowed here. It is written all over the place.

 

 

 

 

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

they’re not allowed to post, but they’re allowed to read

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

@RusskyKGB We are not a politically correct site. We say the f~~~ we want as long we follow the rules which is basically no promotion of violience. Women are reading here because they want us to either date or get married. We are the ones in control not them. If you are so scared of women reading comments then maybe you should log off because this is what caused all the problems in the first place. Men did nothing but sit back and take women’s s~~~.

OP, welcome to the forums. You dodged a bullet and that’s great.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Bread BaronParticipant 23]

For a moment I was thinking I came to the wrong place. I don’t want to hurt the community’s image with my presence.

However, I think that the site’s P.C. image is already doomed after I listened to the “How To Treat Women” podcast under “listen”. I said what I felt like saying because I have friends whose parents are their living proof of bluepill truths. “NAWALT are like that,” they say. “My mom wasn’t, so I’m safe.”

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Welcome man! Great inspiring post at your age,just stick to the script and dont get swayed because their will be serious backlash from people who dont understand.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Welcome … young buck ☺

Violence is all that’s unwelcome here.

KGB was pointing this out but …. well …. his Russian 😁  but hearts in right place.

I can guarantee that when you ‘settle’ … your life will be amazing.

You are like a missile that’s now had coordinates programed in. Your target? …. career + wealth + independence + freedom.

See women for what they truly are …. use that info as YOU see fit.

You are the future …. I will watch with pride as you launch ….. and smile … as I rub one out under my wheelchair blanket 😆

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Welcome!

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Violence is all that’s unwelcome here. KGB was pointing this out but …. well …. his Russian  but hearts in right place.

I am just paranoid about waking up one day and discovering that everything I self-identify with is labeled a “hate group” by the establishment, because “hate group” is one step away from being a “terrorist group”, and persecution will come next.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[experiencedParticipant]

Welcome to MGTOW. As the other guys have said, be careful. Glad you’re here and looking forward to hearing more from you.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

Bread Baron wrote:

For a moment I was thinking I came to the wrong place. I don’t want to hurt the community’s image with my presence. However, I think that the site’s P.C. image is already doomed after I listened to the “How To Treat Women” podcast under “listen”. I said what I felt like saying because I have friends whose parents are their living proof of bluepill truths. “NAWALT are like that,” they say. “My mom wasn’t, so I’m safe.”

Naw your good. I think your trying to place too much control on things you cannot control.  Although we have all been through it. It will take time to realize. Enjoy the journey and welcome.

Russky wrote:

I am just paranoid about waking up one day and discovering that everything I self-identify with is labeled a “hate group” by the establishment, because “hate group” is one step away from being a “terrorist group”, and persecution will come next.

We are going to get guys who are still going through chemical burning/swallowing the red pill. Just remember how you were in their shoes.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[Anonymous 5]

Sensational intro The Bread Baron, terrific to have you here.

You’re right. It’s evolutionary brilliance to have a mother give unconditional love and loyalty to a child but evolutionary suicide for females to give the same to a male partner. It’s beneficial to exploit that partner to the max or exchange for one better to increase her chances and the chances of the offspring.
In genuine NAWALTs, we seem to get the same “love” in the courting phase as we get from our mothers but that soon changes overnight once they’ve secured us as a resource. They change personality to the same degree they change personality that time of the month, only they never change back in this case. All they’re concerned about then is how much stuff they can get the male to provide for them.
It’s great for the species, but not in post agrarian times when the female realizes she has the state to enforce her every whim.
History has shown that the more civilized a society becomes, the more empowered by the state women become.
It’s become farcical in the last 30 or 40 years to the point of being obscene.

It’d be lovely to live the ignorant bliss that those around you, your age live, but you’ll be watching them go down like bowling pins over the next 10 to 20 years. All of them, lambs to the slaughter, bravely, valiantly riding with flags waving into the valley of death.

Enjoy the forum space where you can say what you want. It’s one of the few places you’ll ever be able to do so.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Excellent introduction.

Welcome, Baron and thanks for sharing your wisdom.

Your early private education has been highly beneficial in that you weren’t so heavily stained by the infection that is the propagandized public school system.

It was a pleasure to read your thoughts.

[Bread BaronParticipant 23]

Anonymous wrote:

It’d be lovely to live the ignorant bliss that those around you, your age live, but you’ll be watching them go down like bowling pins over the next 10 to 20 years. All of them, lambs to the slaughter, bravely, valiantly riding with flags waving into the valley of death.

You are completely right. I am in sheer disbelief that so many guys I knew from high school are getting married at 20 and 22. The worst part is that their girls are always juuussttt on the brink of being too fat to marry, but tolerable if they maintained that weight for the rest of their lives. They aren’t fat necessarily, but they are in a state where they can scrape by in their seduction and then fat-splode after the marriage.

[CloakandDaggerParticipant 12]

Red pill rage passes in about one two two years.. I think. Then a friend says if you become more monk like ans quiet, This removes drama from your life. Once peace takes hold…you will guard it. ps porn rocks. Embraace it…far less dangerous than marriage, which ALWAYS LEADS TO MALE UNHAPPINESS. FREEDOM.. OUR GOAL BROTHERS YOU GET AND KEEP IT BY SAYING NO.

This rage happened with me for about 2 years as well. I know the calmness you are talking about too. It’s an indifference to the bulls~~~ that other people engage in.

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