It’s what you’re doing, not what you have

[Anonymous 38]

The blue pilled matrix teaches us that having things will bring us contentment.

Mere things WON’T. Not a big house, fancy car, hot woman, ‘good career’… It’s all BULLS~~~.

The truth is that it’s what you’re doing, i.e. how you’re LIVING YOUR LIFE that is most important.

It’s not wrong to enjoy nice things. It’s not even anti-spiritual: the world is at least half ‘material’, why should we deny ourselves material pleasures?

But these nice things should complement a satisfying EXISTENCE. This is made up of your lifestyle, occupation (salaried or not) and your general approach to and outlook on life.

I wasted YEARS chasing the illusion of having things to be happier. You’d be better off living in obscurity, unnoticed by the blue pill world while you do what you enjoy. Maybe you’ll turn it into success later on.

Remember the story of the Mexican fisherman. He was happier than most six figure corporate wage slaves despite ‘having’ less than they do.

Those of us who have experienced all the so-called highs – money, women, possessions, are ALL TOO AWARE they don’t mean s~~~ at the end of the day. You get them all and you realise you’re just as empty as before. Men usually only understand that once they’ve done it. Sometimes they sold their soul to achieve it.. Even worse. As older men we can mentor young men to not go this way. Staying away from women plays into this greatly.

You’d sooner be a man with few possessions but who lives contentedly, enthusiastically, or in any other positive mindset. You’ll be happier.

Sooner be living on my friend’s couch while I figure out what I’m doing. Sooner walk around with people looking down their nose at me but me beaming inside.

“LOVE WHAT YOU DO” sounds like some corny BS that corporate CEOs come out with, but take the truth from that statement. Loving what I do means being as far away from the corporate world as possible… And I’m almost ready to do that.

I’m motivated to become rich NOT to attract a hot woman, but so I can have maximum power over my own life and say F~~~ YOU to all the blue pilled c~nts. If I make it I intend to give my time and resources to the good and withhold it from the parasites, being the MGTOW I am.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

It’s all BULLS~~~.

Correct.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Love what you do is bulls~~~. Work is simply a means of survival.

You are happy when you like yourself.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 38]

It’sallbs wrote:

Love what you do is bulls~~~. Work is simply a means of survival.

You are happy when you like yourself.

Personally I want to love what I do. And while I think 95% of people who claim that are bulls~~~ting, 5% aren’t. I aim to be part of that 5%. Owning and running a business I would enjoy. Yeah, I won’t “love” it like I love drinking wine or playing football but come on, relatively speaking. Being the boss and making something a success would f~~~ing motivate me. NAJALT.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Being the boss and making something a success would f~~~ing motivate me. NAJALT.

For a short time maybe but you still end up tilting at windmills.

Trust me I know.

I we.t to a Grammar School, University (when unversity were universitiss) pushy parents,worked in high value sales the lot-it non of it means anything or makes you happy.

The something you love doing is used to sell you low wages and the pursuit of high wages i sold to you to buy s~~~ you don’t need so the c~~~ at the top make slots to give his whore s~~~

Coding or bollock hair platting you don’t love any of it you don’t want to do that 40 or 100 hours per week if your normal you want to do what I want to do -fcuk all , drink beer and go for the occasional walk in the sunshine.

You work to earn bits of paper with faces on so that you don’t have to kill someone to get something to eat that’s it.

Now if i could get £100,000 per year shoveling s~~~ against a job I really enjoy paying £30,000 which d you think I’d take?

I would not be wrong to take the s~~~ shoveling in terms of my happiness -you buy into the bulls~~~ still my friend…

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 38]

It’sallbs wrote:

For a short time maybe but you still end up tilting at windmills.
Trust me I know.

The point is you do it until you don’t want to do it.

Build business, try making it successful. Succeed, carry on running and reaping benefits, or sell. Don’t succeed, get rid and try something else.

I’ve got a can-do attitude and I no longer buy into this “nothing is worth doing any more cos it’s all BS”. That’s no way to live.

Look I’m not saying find a job you’ll always be happy with, that is an illusion of permanence. But something that fires you up, motivates you is better than a rat race existence because you’ve got a comfy apartment.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2146]

The same outlook applies to jobs too.

Everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side. They think a new job, business or occupation will make them happy.

You will find people who are very content and who are also absolutely miserable in the exact same line of work.

I mean it’s always good to ‘not be married to any job’ and be on the look out for better opportunities, but when it comes to happiness you need to check your attitude first.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I’ve got a can-do attitude and I no longer buy into this “nothing is worth doing any more cos it’s all BS”. That’s no way to live.

Sorrry to be harsh but do me a favour…

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 38]

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

I’ve got a can-do attitude and I no longer buy into this “nothing is worth doing any more cos it’s all BS”. That’s no way to live.

Sorrry to be harsh but do me a favour…

I think you’re confusing my point with that corny “find your passion and you’ll be happy” idea, which is not what I’m saying at all. Obviously money is important at times, and we have to sacrifice our true desires to earn it at times. But the idea that an occupation cannot be enjoyable, inspiring, is false.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

A Satisfied Mind
Johnny Cash

How many times have
You heard someone say
If I had his money
I could do things my way

But little they know
That it’s so hard to find
One rich man in ten
With a satisfied mind

Once I was waitin’
In fortune and fame
Everything that I dreamed for
To get a start in life’s game

Then suddenly it happened
I lost every dime
But I’m richer by far
With a satisfied mind

Money can’t buy back
Your youth when you’re old
Or a friend when you’re lonely
Or a love that’s grown cold

The wealthiest person
Is a pauper at times
Compared to the man
With a satisfied mind

When my life has ended
And my time has run out
My friends and my loved ones
I’ll leave…

But one thing’s for certain
When it comes my time
I’ll leave this old world
With a satisfied mind

How many times have
You heard someone say
If I had his money
I could do things my way

But little they know
That it’s so hard to find
One rich man in ten
With a satisfied mind

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

It’sallbs wrote:

Love what you do is bulls~~~. Work is simply a means of survival.

You are happy when you like yourself.

If you are lucky enough to like what you do, life is much different.
Some dream of retirement.
Some fear not being allowed to keep going.

[Anonymous 42]

FTW!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

rose tinted bulls~~~

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 54]

It’sallbs wrote:

rose tinted bulls~~~

Well boy your just in a mood arent you.

Why.

[Anonymous 54]

It’sallbs wrote:

rose tinted bulls~~~

Half a centry of doing what I love.

Fact.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Shut your face you silly old fart =oil up that false hip.:)

I’ve heard this argument about doing what you like so many times oooh i want to sit in an office coding -ooooh I want to design websites ,oooooooooh I want to do accountancy, oooooooooooh i want to …
bollocks

it’sallbs

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

I want to do fcuk all and drink beer -can I have £50 grand per year please.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 54]

It’sallbs wrote:

You are happy when you like yourself.

You dont seem very happy.

[Anonymous 54]

Im in for it now!! Hahah

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Oh I am because unlike most clowns I aint striving for something that doesn’t exist.

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