It’s like chicks are programmed not to flirt anymore right?

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Women consider us to be nothing more than flies..
Not even a dime a dozen but more like dime for a thousand or ten thousand.
Have some respect for your selves and ignore women. If you have to look wear sun glasses dark enough to hide your eyes.
Women are a hassle and a hazard.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Cap285Participant 6007]

First of all, this:

Jackinov wrote:

I’m not sure why you made this topic. Who cares if women flirt? Anything regarding them is a waste of time.

Secondly, why are doing this in the gym? Why are your headphones not in while you concentrate on what you’re doing? Drown out the s~~~ty music and douchebaggery and hit the iron.

Train hard.
Go home.
The end.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 29]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

. She did not meet my eyes at all.

So whats the big deal ?
She had you all sussed, scoped and worked out before you had a chance of thinking ” I’d love to f~~~ her” . . . .
Her not looking at you or locking eyes was a clear message of arrogance and you were still thinking with your dick.

No offence, but that is the way it is with females nowday’s.
They understand their social surroundings better than men at only a glance. Total disrespect of humanity surrounding them
is just another tool they use to manipulate. They will choose to see those whom they deem fit for them.

That bitch was not even a prick teaser, she was an outright c~~~ and don’t you forget it. She most certainly didn’t.
If this was year 1910, be sure she would be sucking your dick within 15 minutes.
But its not, its 2016 and c~~~s rule your social reality. Wake up.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Stargazer wrote:

Jackinov wrote:

I’m not sure why you made this topic. Who cares if women flirt? Anything regarding them is a waste of time.

Not everyone agrees with this point of view. We are MGOOW here and some of Our Own Ways involve flirting with, picking up and having sex with women. Is it okay for other men to go their own way or should we all go YOUR way?

Let’s try it like this: “I’m not sure why you made this reply. Who cares if you think flirting with women is a waste of time?”

Kinda sucks when people tell you how to think and act, doesn’t it?

Oh but I wasn’t attacking him. His behavior didn’t seem to be any variation of the GYOW part at ALL. MGTOW know they don’t need anything women have, in whatever form it manifests itself. We don’t need their attention, their validation, their presence, their approval, their speech, etc. I’m not attacking the outcome of his actions (potential sex), I’m talking about his reaction to her non-reaction. He phrased it like he cared. He phrased it like it mattered what she thought of him or not. He phrased it like a blue-pill mangina white-knight PUA c~~~-sucker. If I only knew OP from that post, I’d think he wasn’t MGTOW at all. There is nothing in that post that would be evidence otherwise.

So this girl walks past me a couple of times. I swear I was ready to give her eye contact and smile and say hello to her. It’s been a while since I have even flirted with a woman. But this girl she did not give me the opportunity. She did not meet my eyes at all. I had no opportunity to smile and say hello to her. None. Zero.

I know it’s the gym, we are there to workout, we are there to become bad asses and strong as hell. But come on, why not a little flirting? It’s not like I was gonna ask her to marry me right then and there. S~~~, I just wanted to flirt a little bit and see if she had even the slightest interest. No such luck.

Look at that. It’s almost like he was salivating to get a CHANCE with this goddess of a queen way out of his league. It’s almost like he got…rejected…

It’s almost like he forgot that AWALT. They are ALL toxic narcissistic s~~~-brains who will not hesitate to make you feel inferior to them in some way, shape, or form, whether it’s not talking to you, leading you on, ignoring you, etc. It’s almost like he forgot that and is going back to what gets guys f~~~ed up all the time.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Jackinov wrote:

MGTOW know they don’t need anything women have, in whatever form it manifests itself.

This is your opinion but other men do not necessarily share it. Not all MGTOW see themselves as “Messenger Rising” styled monks. There are those of us who believe that going our own way does not preclude interactions with females, that females are not evil, that they are not our enemies, that they are not useless, valueless, and to be avoided at all costs.

If that’s your position and the way you wish to go then more power to you… but you have no basis from which to judge the behavior of a man who does not share your position and go the same way as you.

I don’t think OP made a particularly smart move in attempting to force interaction with a woman who is not interested in him, but I also do not suggest that he should not have any interaction with women at all.

For the record, the only “rule” I would stand on for MGTOW is that a man can not rationally be said to be going his own way if he is imprisoned or surrenders his autonomy to faith, the military or a legal contract of marriage. IMHO, everything else is on the table and up to the individual.

[Anonymous 11]

For what my opinion is worth, if it does not flow naturally you just accept it and move on

One cannot force interactions with random women. You eventually meet one where the rapport is natural.

I just flat out ignore all women unless they seem to be interested in speaking with me. Even then, I am highly suspicious of their motives. Most women are just attention whores anyway so I refuse to give them the pleasure.

You monk MGTOWs do have it easier that I will grant.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Women are a hassle and a hazard. and
they know it…Be a PUA if you want. Go The PUA Way if you want. If the woman feels slutty or dirty or guilty the next day and and decides its your fault the next day ,, well good luck to you.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Women flirt when they feel like it.
Women don’t admit it but they are constantly considering weather or not they would f~~~ every man they see..They are constantly judging men according to their looks and perceived status. If they happen to like the way you look and act and smell they will let you know. .
My problem is I just don’t give a damn anymore. I was not born to please women. I am no gods gift to women. I am my gift to myself. To hell with what women want. Not my problem. What woman cares about how I feel with an ounce of compassion and empathy? ?Very Damn few if any.How many women expect men to care about how they feel ??Most of them. The vast majority. Why should I care about women’s problems and feeling and desires when they have no care for mine? ??

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[AFTParticipant 2726]

The best way to treat a “lady” (purposely in inverted commas) is the way she behaves.
A selfish, self centered attention seeking whore should be ignored, only unicorns should be put on a pedestal and worshiped, you know the mythical creatures that only exist in fairy tales.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Anonymous 29]

AFT wrote:

The best way to treat a “lady” (purposely in inverted commas) is the way she behaves.
A selfish, self centered attention seeking whore should be ignored, only unicorns should be put on a pedestal and worshiped, you know the mythical creatures that only exist in fairy tales.

I beg to differ . . . . . . . but that’s only because they are all dead now.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

DoingMyOwnThing40-

Hi. Interesting post.
First, let me offer my condolences.
It sounds like you were rejected by some skank.
Been there.
We can’t make anyone treat us with kindness, politeness, or respect. All we can do is choose to be with people who treat us as we want to be treated.
At the same gym, you would probably find ladies who would be happy to talk with you. Ignore the skanks. If you want to talk to some other lady, then go for it and good luck.
At MGTOW, I suspect we all are on unique paths. Enjoy yours. Thanks.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

You know, you ask me why I even made this post. Why I give a damn. Hey, look, it’s not like I am putting this girl or any girl on a pedestal. I do have a sexual drive though. And it would be nice to get some female physical interaction once in a while.

Of course I am going my own way. Always have, always will. But to get some good pussy every now and then would be nice. So sue me.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[sidecarParticipant 35859]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Of course I am going my own way. Always have, always will. But to get some good pussy every now and then would be nice. So sue me.

I have no problem with that. I just think your approach needs improvement. When you genuinely stop giving any f~~~s about them and instead concentrate on your own workout, they will approach you.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

I second Sidecar, and a few of the other good comments here. I don’t think I can add anything new. Read The Manipulated Man. Read up on PUA if you really want to. You have to understand how she thinks, and play game better than her.

She had you sussed before you even noticed her.
She used her peripheral vision to check you out without looking like it.
She noticed what you were wearing – women will notice expensive clothing and equate it to what you will buy for her.
You obviously looked directly at her, a huge no-no, she will have seen it, known instantly that she could have had you, and rejected you on that fact alone – you are too easy for her, and thus of no worth to her.
Women may SAY they hate being hit on in the gym, but that’s only by poor losers (in her mind). Play it backwards, treat her like she’s the poor aggressor, like you ABSOLUTELY DO NOT GIVE A F~~~ IF SHE EVEN EXISTS.
It’s fun for a while.
Then the novelty wears off, because you know you can get any girl, any time, anywhere.
So you start being selective.
And you realise that AWALT, complete f~~~heads who lie all the time and have government support to strip you of everything you ever owned and ever will.
And so you GYOW.

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