I am thankful to be here and to see some old faces. I probably should have saved my intro from the old MGTOW forum however my dumb ass did not do this.
Well some of you that have read my older posts my have figured out that I am a recovering nice guy. Yes when I was a young man I tended to believe everything a woman told me, she needed to be protected and of course was innocent. Holly s~~~ was I ever wrong. If anything I was the one that needed to be protected form them.
So understanding that as a young guy with a boner and a very naive understanding and view of women I set out to allow them to try and destroy me. Of course I got one woman knocked up during a night of drunken sex. Before she could even push that womb turd out she made it clear that I was her slave. Trust me this bitch does not take good care of her things. What ensued was a 23yr long nightmare that I would not wish upon my worst enemy. I was seldom allowed to see the child, however always had to pay. If child support was caught up, often times the judge would wipe that record clean, putting me behind in child support. Over the years I learned that doing the right thing in the family court means that they will take full advantage of you. As a nice guy you are the target of the family courts and your ex’s vengeance.
However in the middle of this I made another mistake and that was getting married. No I guess I had not learned my lesson in my early twenties yet. I worked hard always improving myself and to put a roof over her head. I became a truck driver so I spent many nights away from home. 15yrs later I come to find out that my ex-wife had cheated on my during the first years of our marriage. I had suspected something at the time, however chose t ignore it. What forced me to pursue the truth was finding out that she was cheating on me again. At this time my perspective of her and women in general had changed.
Learning about MGTOW was of great relieve to me. I am around men that have been through similar things. I have seen guys that learned from others mistakes and chose to avoid them. I see a fellowship of men that understand me. When I have complained about my experiences in the family courts to the public at large I was met with disbelief. Some would act surprised that i even dared to question a woman’s entitlement. Here you guys encouraged me to keep asking questions and told me that you believed me. Some of you pointed out were it could have been worse and gave examples. Most importantly you guys offered me a solution. This solution was not to protest the courts or try and out spend the feminist. Heck how can any man outspend the feminist, they have taken all our money and own us as legal slaves. Instead your solution was to simply say “NO”. At first this may not seem like much, however it is a very powerful tool and a tool that I use often. I still get laid, however I keep it covered. I make sure that it is at her place or a motel. I make sure to get rid of my DNA myself. However what I say NO to is relationships, marriage, or having kids. That means no more child support for them. No more alimony for them. No possible way to cry DV or anything else. I follow the saying that if it fly’s, floats or f~~~s your better off renting it.
I am happy to be here guys and I hope that I can offer help and encouragement to others. Thank you for all of your wisdom and support.
*This message brought to you by The Prisoner, looking for his own way out”
Keymaster 5 years, 5 months ago.
