It's Better If A Man Does Not Marry?

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[hmskl’dParticipant 6414]

Excellent video.

[cnmcdeeParticipant 125]

In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!” Isaiah 4:1 wow it is pretty predictive of what is coming..

[bob__Participant 946]

What does it mean to get married? It means signing a contract backed by the government that lets the woman take everything from the man whenever she wants. Marriage is nothing but a one-sided contract. If you’re religious and want to get married just do your religious ceremony without signing a government contract. Congratulations! You’re married according to your religion but without the government being involved.

[sidecarParticipant 35851]

bob__ wrote:

You’re married according to your religion but without the government being involved.

But the government gets involved the moment she decides to divorce you and take your stuff. Just living together, ceremony or not, is good enough in many jurisdictions. Some places you can be nailed just because she “feels” like a wife.

There is no such thing as a foolproof marriage because only fools get married.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22567]

Marriage as it is today is not the same as marriage was two centuries ago.

Two centuries ago, marriage was a private affair between a man and a woman.

Now, the man is not marrying the woman, the man is marrying the state at the behest of the woman.

So, as marriage is today, it is better for a man to not marry.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

Marriage as it is today is not the same as marriage was two centuries ago.

Two centuries ago, marriage was a private affair between a man and a woman.

And didn’t have 50%+ divorce rates. If divorce rates today were only 5% there would probably be a lot more guys out there that didn’t think of marriage as financial suicide or handing your b~~~~ over to the woman.

Faust For Science wrote:

Now, the man is not marrying the woman, the man is marrying the state at the behest of the woman.

I don’t think the thing that breaks marriage is necessarily the state being involved in marriage…its the state being so biased towards women in the whole deal. If the state said hey, you get to share insurance, can file taxes as a couple, can visit an injured/gravely ill spouse in the hospital in the event of something serious happening, etc…I wouldn’t mind that the government was involved in marriage…but when the divorce happens and the guy takes it up the pooper…yeah…that is f~~~ed up.

If divorce laws were simply assets in his name are his, and in her names are hers, and the only things up for grabs in divorce are things that were put in both names, I don’t think so many people would bitch about the government being involved in marriage.

You often hear about women complaining that husbands try to control them by controlling the finances…but what the f~~~ do women do to men constantly? They know they own financially the second they file for divorce and not a single woman complains about divorce courts being biased. If they don’t control the finances during the marriage its abuse, and when they rape you during a divorce they deserve it!

Faust For Science wrote:

So, as marriage is today, it is better for a man to not marry.

Definitely.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

bob__ wrote:

What does it mean to get married? It means signing a contract backed by the government that lets the woman take everything from the man whenever she wants. Marriage is nothing but a one-sided contract. If you’re religious and want to get married just do your religious ceremony without signing a government contract. Congratulations! You’re married according to your religion but without the government being involved.

I think this depends on where you live. In some countries De Facto relationships are considered a common law relationship and you may be liable for ‘palimony’.

Best to do your research first.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

I wished i never got married.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[survivorParticipant 610]

He’s exactly 100% right about everything he said. I’m a Christian too and a bi-vocational minister. That is I have a regular job but do stuff at church as well with some money but mostly none. I know this passage he mentioned in I Corinthians Chapter 7 very well as I taught some lessons on it before. Paul the Apostle, most biblical scholars agree, was married at some point because in the New Testament record when you meet Paul (who was called Saul, then) was a member of the Jewish ruling council in Israel at that time, the Sanhedrin. Most scholars debate about the fate of his wife saying she either died before Paul became a follower of Jesus or his wife left him for dead after he came to believe in Jesus. I have personally always suspected the later. Woman are trouble like the man said. Many Christian women know very well what the Bible teaches about the roles of men and women in marriage and ignore it all. Here on this site and some others I have looked at some people make a bigger deal about being single and following Christ than it needs to be and being MGTOW. Jesus as well as Paul addressed this and it’s nothing big: Just remain sexually pure and dedicate yourself to doing what Christ wants. That’s it. In many Christian circles there is talk about the “gift of celibacy”, which I have come to see as hogwash. Men have the discipline to be CEOs, go to the moon, plant huge fields of crops and harvest them and be professional athletes but suddenly in the realm of sex they don’t that kind of discipline? Nonsense! You either do or you don’t. It’s a conscious decision just like anything else. There’s a long tradition of this in numerous Christian traditions, Protestant, Orthodox, and even Catholic. At least the Roman Catholic church is honest and tells people that the requirement to being a priest and being single is not mentioned in the Bible but is theirs alone–a big mistake in my mind, but that’s not up to me to decide. A lot of men, Christian or otherwise, may find themselves being MGTOW and single as society progresses from worse to worse. I think it goes without saying in the upcoming national election that all American men on this forum should either not vote at all for Hillary Clinton in this upcoming election or vote for the opposition. Her ascension to the White House would be the end and an utter disaster. This is a woman who can’t even use email properly.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

cnmcdee wrote:

In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!” Isaiah 4:1 wow it is pretty predictive of what is coming…

They asked for the hell that’s coming to them! They chased the fathers out of the household and chased 89% of the male teachers out of the school system.
Do not ask me to cry for any of these putrid, sorry ass women who made it their business to invite the government into their f~~~ing bedroom!!!!

[AscendedParticipant 698]

It’s Better If A Man Does Not Marry?

What took ya so long to figure it out?

"We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

[narwhalParticipant]

1 Corinthians 7 really isn’t about the nature of women or financial consequences of marriage/divorce. Paul advices that if a man or woman can resist sex, then he/she should not get married so that they can give undivided attention to devotion to got. If they cannot resist sex, they should get married, though their attention would be divided.

It also talks about divorce, and how neither man nor woman should seek it out.

The ‘advice’ of MGTOW and Paul don’t really line up. MGTOW say to avoid marriage due to the nature of women and the financial consequences. Avoiding sex is not the reason, and few MGTOW would say it’s about undivided attention to God. Paul says you should get married under certain conditions, while MGTOW says never.

Personally, I think the church has failed it’s people tremendously by glossing over parts of the bible, particularly when it comes to marriage. They are motivated more by finances and membership counts then actually following what the bible says. I’d like to see them give up on the word ‘marriage’ and stop referring to the government contract as some sort of holy bond. What happens with marriage is not what the bible calls a marriage. They should start having ‘covenants’, where divorce is not an option except in cases of infidelity. If a woman divorces her husband for other reasons, the church shouldn’t recognize it as so, and still see them as husband and wife. If a woman remarries, they should not recognize her new husband. I’m not saying they should disallowed from the church, just call it what it is.

All that said though, I don’t think the church (people) are really capable of doing this without being judgmental, so perhaps it is better if they continue to bend with the morals of society instead of the morals of the bible.

Ok. Then do it.

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