It Will Happen

[Wolfgang RyderSpectator 70]

I’m 18 and I’ve never dated in my whole life. And sometimes, I’m grateful for that. Not only because I’ve never had the opportunity to make some blue-pilled juvenile mistakes but also because I wonder if it is worth the effort and the s~~~ fit it comes with.

But, if there’s something that it has been told to me (from family, friends and acquaintances) a lot of times is that someday I will find someone that I’ll be interested in.

I don’t know how to feel when I hear this but I have an impression that this is pure, complete, absolute and utter BULLS~~~.

Everyone that has or had a girlfriend tells me this but I disagree because these same dudes had to make an effort to start a relations~~~ with some girl. They say it like its something that it falls from the sky but I sense some bulls~~~ in this.

They had to go after, buy s~~~, bear their tantrum, have a tiring conversation, invite them to go to places and spend an astronomic number of cash, etc.
These dudes had to do something to enter in a relations~~~ with these hoes and they tell me like it was a piece of cake.

And they still have the guts to tell me the following sentences:

“Oh, someday you’ll find someone.”

“You don’t know, dude. You say this today because you’re young but in the future you’ll want to marry and have kids.”

“You’ll find a nice girl and you’re gonna have an attraction to each other.”

I don’t know if you have already heard this from the mouth of both male and female relatives, friends and acquaintances but it’s like they’re trying to see my future or they want me to have the same fate as theirs.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Wolfgang Ryder wrote:

But, if there’s something that it has been told to me (from family, friends and acquaintances) a lot of times is that someday I will find someone that I’ll be interested in.

And some day every young mouse will find a piece of delicious cheese just sitting there for the taking.

Go ahead and take it. It’s delicious. It’s free. What could possibly go wrong? Pay no attention to all that complicated wire behind the delicious cheese.

Not All Cheese Is Like That.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Very beautifully put Sidecar. That pretty much sums it up.

Agreed.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 6]

sidecar wrote:

Not All Cheese Is Like That.

Not all grenades are like that too.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Anonymous wrote:

Not All Cheese Is Like That.

LOL! That’s the irony of how they sound when they say NAWALT.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Wolfgang Ryder wrote:

“You don’t know, dude. You say this today because you’re young but in the future you’ll want to marry and have kids.”

The only time I wanted to get married and have kids was when I was young. I’m not even past my prime yet, but the older I get the less I desire that. Think of it this way…at 18, the women your age are as hot as they’ll ever be, and have less drama and baggage than they’ll ever have. Over the next 10 years they’ll ride the c~~~ carousel getting all kinds of diseases and absolutely f~~~ed up in the head, run themselves into all kinds of debt whether it be student loans, credit cards, or car payments, and maybe pop a kid or two out that aren’t yours, then they’ll be ready to settle down.

Trust me man…if you’ve already realized its a scam at 18, you’ll want it even less at 28. If you look at marrying a woman like buying a car, they’re constantly being replaced by newer, nicer looking models(younger women), and their mileage constantly goes up(f~~~ partners before you), yet every year, they think they can raise the sticker price a bit(a marriage becomes more expensive as they come with more debt).

Meanwhile if you are smart you will be working hard and tucking money away, and as your net worth and income grows you’ll be attracting more and more women which is kinda cool if you want some pussy…but you also have a lot more to lose in a divorce if you are stupid enough to get married, and will get hammered a lot harder for child support if you get tricked into a kid.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Life is most dangerous when you are young because that’s when your little head outweighs your big head.

Don’t be a f~~~ing fool!
Stay away from anybody who tells you that you will meet a woman!

Jerk off.
Stay away from women.

Get a good education.
Stay away from women.

Eat good food.
Exercise.
Don’t do drugs.
Stay away from women.

Make lots of money.
Stay away from women.

Monk

[Wolfgang RyderSpectator 70]

Thanks everybody for the answers.

You all gotta hear when they say “I’m gonna find someone.”

It’s like I don’t have control of my destiny. It’s kinda funny you know.

I already told them that I want to be on my own but some of them are like:

“Naaww, dood. It’s not like that! You can’t think like this.”

This week, at college, I spoke with two classmates that said the same s~~~ to me. In fact, one of them said:

“Man, I f~~~ed up with many girls. It is about finding the right one. If it dosen’t happen it isn’t meant to happen anyway.”

The other moron has a psycho-like girlfriend whom he complains that she’s nuts.

Both these motherf~~~ershad been stuck with women. And they come and tell me that someday I will meet the same sluts?

Sounds more like a curse.

[WallyParticipant]

I heard the same ” you’ll meet someone” and want to get married. I did meet several women but my dad metaphorically slapped the crap out of me and told me to go MGTOW before it was even a term. Your doing the right thing.

Dude,

Do you know what it feels like to want out of a long marriage, but the law wants to turn me into the economic slave of another?

F~~~ THEM AND LISTEN TO MGTOWS.

If only I had this site 30 years ago.

Do not f~~~ up.

Be wise.

All women change into something terrible in time.

Code Bunker is absolutely correct, I might have seen 1-2 truly happy marriages in my life, and those took a lot of work, those odds are horrible!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Wolfgang Ryder wrote:

It is about finding the right one.

There can not be such a thing as “the right one” when you are living under the wrong laws.

And the laws are very, very wrong. But the laws are what they are. And the laws are not on your side. The woman herself is irrelevant.

[Anonymous 12]

The truth is that unless you are Brad Pitt good looking or super wealthy then you will not have women just throw themselves at you.

At best you will get women trying to flirt or get your attention and you will most likely miss their cues or simply not care at all.

Despite them sending these signals they will still want to be pursued and you will have to degrade yourself just to talk to them.

It doesn’t just happen, not for the average guy anyway.

Take comfort in this. It will keep you safe.

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

It’s a caned line from a delusional belief system. They say that because you’re young and your perspective will change.

The other side of the “someday you’ll find someone” coin is someday you’ll find your self and have no need to relay on someone. Focus on bettering your self, it’s the only thing you have full control of.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

It’s true. Someday you may find someone you find interesting. Just because you find someone interesting doesn’t mean you have to sign a marital contract and marry them.
Stay away from the trap of marriage because AWALT.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[narwhalParticipant]

‘It’ is not as magical as people like to say it is. Yes, there might be a time where you run into a woman that’s nice to look at and might be fun to be around and all that. It might be at a time where you’re a little more open to the idea of a relationship then you usually are. And she might be lacking many of the things that raise red flags with you. You might feel like the right words and things to do come more naturally then they normally do.

That’s all temporary. It’ll pass.

Getting married is just a bad deal regardless of the woman you marry. Imagine you take out a loan for a vehicle, but the bank has the right to repose the car at any time regardless of whether you make payments or not. Plus, you must continue to make payments. Don’t worry though, the bank says they aren’t that kinda bank. Do you make the deal? Does it really matter what kind of car it is?

Ok. Then do it.

[Wolfgang RyderSpectator 70]

I think I won’t need to worry about dating/marrying ’cause when it comes to the opposite sex I’m kinda like an invisible man.

I usually walk around with a stern or dull face (mostly stern) and that might be something that make them wish to be away from me. When they come and start talking with me I usually lead a normal conversation. Sometimes it gets good and it has the chance to end up in something but the next time I see the girl I don’t go after her.

Since I don’t make myself go and talk with the same people again maybe it’s the reason they don’t come after me too.

Same goes with men. Thanks to this I just have one or two dudes that I can consider a friend. I like to be on my own and be with my own thoughts and probably that makes me indifferent to my social situation.

So I won’t worry about women trying to target me ’cause I ain’t a worth dude to pursue. Probably the first thought they have about me is like: “Meh.”

Not that this is a bad thing.

After all, it makes me avoid meeting and bringing them to my life.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

@wolfgang: Take a lesson from me. I’ve had top fleet chicks all my life and also married one. I have high SMV and a good career. When it’s all said and done, it doesn’t f~~~ing matter. It doesn’t matter if you are “creepy,” average, Chad #1 or Chad #42. AWALT.

You will not be able to have your own friends. You can have them, but it will be a passive aggressive situation constantly. Her friends and their husbands/boyfriends are your only approved friends.

You will be shamed and s~~~-tested for all the things you want to do in life that don’t include making her priority #1. Then, some 4+ years down the road, they decide they want to change completely into something you would have never f~~~ing married in the first place.

Most importantly, you will be trapped by state sponsored rape of financial assets via divorcing. It really is a no-win situation in America today. And with all this feminism propaganda and woman power s~~~ twisting their minds, they have a over-f~~~ing-inflated sense of self worth in a relationship. Like their pussies are made of precious earth elements or something.

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