It took over 40 years to finally swallow the red pill I emerged from the fog

[blksteelParticipant 27]

It took some time for me to realize what it is I have been dealing with for 20 years. No book I’ve read, therapist I’ve wasted money on was able to get me to emerge from the fog that is marriage. Only the red pill was able to shake me from my zombie like state. Me- Married my high school sweetheart some 20 years ago with the expectation that if I worked hard and did all the right things, she would be proud and content. I think back to that time and I see a young naive fool who couldn’t man up and see straight. After all these years, I now know the psychology and pathology of a woman. I will make it my mission in life to see to it that none of my 3 sons makes the same mistake their father made 20 years ago by becoming a mule for the system all while begging and pleading for an occasional BJ from a PA wife who stays trapped in her own 16 year old mind. Never marry and stay free from putting on a harness every day only too pull a cart that she sits in along with IMF and world banking system. Create your own destiny and reality.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Welcome to the site. Hopefully your sons notice how much better off you are now and avoid the marriage mistake.

[experiencedParticipant]

Welcome, and glad you’re here.

Yeah, the trip down memory lane:
She was utterly unenthusiastic regarding oral sex unless she was the recipient,
otherwise it was a burden for her.

What a joke.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2775]

blksteel wrote:

Married my high school sweetheart some 20 years ago with the expectation that if I worked hard and did all the right things, she would be proud and content.

Because that is what we are taught as men growing up. Now you can see things as they truly are. Welcome to the brotherhood blksteel.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10968]

Welcome to the forum sir.

She's not looking for love. She's looking for someone to finance the lifestyle that SHE thinks SHE deserves.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Congratulations,

Sounds like you escaped the plantation. Your best years are yet to come. Hope to hear more from you. Welcome aboard.

[Anonymous 11]

I went fully red pill in my mid-40s. I did not even know what happened to me until I discovered this place. The red pill is like a little acorn. It will grow into a mighty Oak as you nurture it.

Welcome home! Read, read and read. You will see your story repeated countless times with the other men.

[Mr_WhiteParticipant 48]

Welcome from another newcomer, and congratulations on your new life, where decisions are no longer made because vagina.

Let go or be dragged -Zen proverb

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