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[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

I feel like im joining a support group…Hi my name is Jason and my soon to be ex is a slut lol.

Ive been lurking for a few weeks, now joined so ill give a nutshell intro.

Everything started when I got a girl pregnant that said she couldn’t get pregnant  apparently the doctor told her she had a crooked uterus or some s~~~ and I believed it. She told me that it “wasn’t her first rodeo” and that she cannot get pregnant. I took this to mean she was a cum dumpster and I shouldn’t worry. After a few months of daily sex she ends up knocked up, lucky me. So me being the guy I was decided we should get married to prevent having a bastard child, I was 26 at the time….

Fast forward almost 5 years and here I am going through a divorce. I never really even liked her and  I wasted alot of time worrying how much child support I would have to pay. Thats pretty much the only reason I held on to my miserable life so long.

The straw that broke the camels back so to speak is a 19 yo boy. She met him at work and befriended him quickly, I think its mostly because they were both pot heads. He would come over when they got off work and fire up almost daily, I hated the reefer but I didn’t pay much attention to him coming over all the time at first. A few months goes by, it got to where he would come over on weekends and drop by to “smoke” while I was at work, at this point i was beginning to feel cuckolded. I then began to do a little investigative work, I put a keylogger on my pc that I knew she would inevitably use at some point and scored big time. I found a ton of messages to this guy and nude pics, you name it it was there, it was disgusting.

I could see clearly now what was going on. I could now put a finger on a million lies about what she was doing and where she was. So I slowly start to let her know that I knew exactly what she was up to. Every time she would would leave the house I would hint to the fact that I knew where she was going and I wasn’t stupid without revealing my source of course (facebook messenger). I figured she would grow suspicious and stop being so reckless with her affair but she continued as if she didn’t care if i knew, hell she probably didn’t. In the next month or so I had a pile of evidence against her so I let her know I was done. Now you may wonder why i didn’t flip out during all this but I really don’t even like her plus I was building my stockpile of evidence.

I don’t own anything like a house ,land etc. purposely because I knew this would come eventually and didn’t want to split half my property. I do have a 4yo though, that we agreed to co parent and alternate weeks. I went online and had my divorce papers drawn up and ive since filed. So far its going smoothly, I’m sure its because she wonders how much dirt I really do have on her and she really dosent want to go there with this.

Did I mention shes not even good looking? lol

The most enjoyable part of it all is reading her messages to the new guy bitching about the same things she used to nag me about..im anxious as hell to get this finalized before this new dude dumps her. I don’t want to have to deal with the crying and begging me back..I owe this 19yo bigtime thanks bro.

Another side note..her whole family which consists mainly of younger 20 something yo bitches knew what was going on the whole time. The 19yo guy has even hooked up with one of her cousins:/

[…Spectator 1165]

Welcome Mr. Lame. Be strong and don’t forget the lessons you learned the first time around.

[Capslok SpelczechParticipant 108]

Mr. L, first of all, welcome, and please keep right on trusting your eyes & ears. My guess is that anytime you expressed disagreement about her narcotic use, you probably received a lot of jabbering stupidity about marijuana being no worse than alcohol–as if you’d be okay with coming home to a s~~~faced drunk instead of a stoner. Make no mistake: a drug user, or anyone prone to compulsive behavior, learns to be a masterful sneak and avoider. With women, who are already prone to baseless, emotional, irrational behavior, adding narcotics is like dumping gas on a fire. What it sounds like to me is that you had a typical scatter-brained pothead who saw being stoned as the starting point for her happiness rather than the culmination of it. If you watch an hour of TV, you will see at least one anti-depressant drug ad, sometimes many, and almost all of them are aimed at women. From what I have seen, women who use drugs & alcohol are far more likely to lie and cheat, because they’re already demonstrably skilled at avoidance, and are much more likely to see happiness as a simple prescription that they are due, rather than something they must earn through sober introspection and self-identification. Men arrive at conclusions by facts, evidence, and reason. Women “feel” their way through life, which is already absurdly subjective and inefficient enough without a murky skull full of bong resin. So welcome, and good call, my friend. If I had to count on my own drug-addled ex-girlfriend for my safety, I’d have been in hell a year ago.

"Higgins: Magnum, feed the lads, would you? There are steaks in the freezer. [Magnum makes an excited face] Very well, you can have one too."

[YinmarenParticipant 27]

I’m not sure on how the formatting works on this website, so I’ll try my best to get this quote to work. (It didn’t work)

“…a drug user, or anyone prone to compulsive behavior, learns to be a masterful sneak and avoider. With women, who are already prone to baseless, emotional, irrational behavior, adding narcotics is like dumping gas on a fire.”

This is absolutely true. There is no exception to this at all. From my step-mother, three girlfriends who were pill heads, one who was an alcoholic, another who was addicted to marijuana (I smoke and do psychedelics on occasion; I don’t plan my day to day around them) and then turned to pills; all of these women became masterful at the art of hiding it. Whether it’s going out with their friends and needing me to pick them up, to sneaking in a bunch when they take their medication, to doing them when I leave for a gig and me coming back to them being passed out… the list goes on and on.

Never. Ever. Ever. F~~~, date, or associate with women who are addicts. They are far worse than men.

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

Thanks for the input guys..Ive bitched about her pot habits since I found out about them (about 6 months in) I couldn’t tell you how many times she’s told me “this is the last time im smoking” I would seriously say close to a hundred times. I wouldn’t care so much except for the fact she couldn’t get a job worth a s~~~ until she quit. She eventually got around this by carrying p~~~ with her to her DTs. So now any random test or any accident and were basically financially f~~~ed…or I would be, because ill continue to work while she would sit on her ass and get high. The main reason I’m done is she likes 19yo dick though. Cant wait till I’m officially done with this.

[Krab_AssParticipant 267]

Welcome Mr. Lame.   You are among friends and men who bear the same scars.  I can tell you (after being divorced for approx. 7 years) it does get better.  As someone else already said – (I am paraphrasing here) – just don’t forget the lessons learned the first time ’round.

IMHO – unfortunately, I have seen too many a man repeat his blunders due to the lure of pussy and by using his little brain, in his little head.

Be strong Mr. Lame, we are here for you.

I will be honest and share a bit myself:  I considered seeking ‘guidance’ from a female counselor to work out my ‘woman-issues’ – before I considered dating again.  That was before I found MGTOW.  Thank GOD for MGTOW!!!  I am going to save a LOT of $$$ on counselor fees,  I won’t be ‘brain-washed’ by a woman counselor (what was I thinking??) and I will save a lot of money, emotion and energy because I have no interest in dating.   Please understand – I am NOT gay.   I love having sex with women-  I just don’t want to put up with all the bulls~~~ to get some pussy.

 

"I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character!"
~ Theodore Roosevelt

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

Thanks man, Im going to try very hard not to make any blunders this go around.

I just wish I could figure out how to maintain that mentality I have 20 seconds after blowing a load in slut. ha. This site gives me the ammunition and motivation not to screw up again. Ill be ok.

[Anonymous 5]

Do your best to keep the kid. Don’t let that bitch get the satisfaction of brain washing your kid until he is 18 years old. Plus she doesn’t deserve the child support she will get from you. Most women spend it on themselves, neglect the kid, then blame the father constant lying to the kid saying YOU are the one to blame. Tell the court she abuses drugs and alcohol, cheated on you and you fear for the safety of your child with her.

But if she does get the kid as the legal system sucks, then explain to your kid all the time you love him and tell him the truth always. Support that kid and love him so much he resents his whore mother. Tell him straight up she abuses drugs and cheated on daddy. You need to win your kids support.

And teach your kid the truth about women, the mgtow way.

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

“im anxious as hell to get this finalized before this new dude dumps her. I don’t want to have to deal with the crying and begging me back”

^^ This s~~~ is happening….damn it

[RennieParticipant]

@Mr. Lame

Probably a good idea just to get out of town for a while, atleast until she goes away.

[Anonymous 42]

@Mr. Lame

BRAVO!!!!! My cousin “a female”, did the same thing, and did use the evidence against “him”. I never made friends with him because I felt he was a f~~~ing tool, and he was! He thought he could go surfing anywhere he wanted and land on any beach he chose…. This idiot didn’t know about the history file, leave alone keystroke tracking (which she used). She’s a programmer, and internet specialist. In the early days she would ping someone’s ass DEAD! Totally fry somebody’s box from her master control panel at the server….. No the kind of girl you want to mess with!

She got the kid, the house, and deserved it! He got “1” dirty whore slut from society’s crotch pit, and “1” totally vandalized (by someone)Harley-Davidson 1200 Sportster, that f~~~ing bike was destroyed! You’d think somebody would have heard it with all my other cousins living on the same street, with my aunt uncle that subdivided his property for all his children..Besides she did most the work and brought home the bacon… I like her as person, however she also has horns, and AWALT.

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