Is there a Proper Behavior Book for Women?

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Been searching for a while now, and as far as I can tell, there is NOTHING. I am looking for a book that describes appropriate behavior for women, such as to speak only when spoken to, how to dress properly, how to act, cook, clean, be a proper and subservient wife, lady in the parlor / whore in the bedroom, etc… Something like today’s book “How to Be a Gentleman”, by Bridges, but for ladies. I realize they have taken the How to Be a Gentleman book and copied it, calling it How to be a Lady, or something like that, but that is not a real manners book for girls / ladies – it’s modern claptrap, and really just a copy of the former, with the pronouns changed, to make a quick buck.

The closest I have ever come to finding a book on proper girl’s behavior was seeing a very old book from a distance that had a title indicating such (I can’t remember the exact title) while on tour in a plantation home. I asked the tour guide (who was a female college student) if I could see the book, and get it’s exact title and publication data, and she (the tour guide) on her little power trip said no one was allowed to touch the book. Wouldn’t even let me just look in the front for the publication data. She wouldn’t even look for me or get someone else to assist.

Basically, I am looking for a book version of “The Good Wife’s Guide”. Something I imagine would have to be from the old times, of course, as nothing modern would really tell girls and ladies how to properly behave in all manner of circumstances. Probably something that would have to be dusted off from in the catacombs at Oxford University or something like that.

Does anyone know of such a book?

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Sandals wrote:

NOTHING

As to my knowledge currently, that’s it in a nutshell.

Modern woman is not held accountable to anything, except the continued onslaught of destroying us men.

Edit: At least in practice, I have not seen nor heard from anyone that women are accountable to any standard (book) or are upholding anything other than our demise systematically.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

The Proper Care and Feeding Of Husbands

It is a book rooted in the TradCon concept of marriage.

It does promote to women how to at least appreciate their men, including making sure that she makes the time and saves the energy for sex.

Edit.

The author also wrote a book called The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage.

Reviews from the gynocentrics aren’t flattering.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

If you ever write that book, please call it “Where have all the fulfilling whores gone?”

And if you don’t write that book…..

I will.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands

It’s actually a lot of gynocentric bulls~~~, but it does emphasize treating men well and f~~~ing them more than once a year.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Don’t expect women to behave. The ones that do only do so long enough to secure a man then hell breaks lose. If such a book were written it’s not like women would ever read it anyway. That would require honest self reflection and social awareness, concepts that confuse them.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands

Thats interesting. Have you read it?

In the description:

While many of her listeners and readers claim her unequivocal advice has salvaged teetering marriages and improved marital harmony, others perceive Schlessinger as a throwback to what many see as years of female oppression in the home

Give me a f~~~ing break. It sounds like all she is telling women to do is: love their husbands, respect them and do not tear them down, raise children well, and give good sexual intimacy in the bedroom.

Pretty simple s~~~. Leave it to a chick to f~~~ that up. “Years of OPRESSION” f~~~ off.

Resident cynic.

[MyselfParticipant 353]

Pfft, there are lots of books about how to be a lady. Take for example “Ho Tactics: How To MindF**k A Man Into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring”, or “The Sugar Daddy Formula: A Sugar Baby’s Ultimate Guide to Finding a Wealthy Sugar Daddy”. And let’s not forget the unforgettable “Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl – A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship”, or the incomparable “The Power of the Pussy: Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More!”. And who’s not looking forward to the upcoming “How to Be a Bad Bitch”???

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands

It’s actually a lot of gynocentric bulls~~~, but it does emphasize treating men well and f~~~ing them more than once a year.

I own that book and I have read it, about two years ago. It starts out good (well?), and then gets into a lot of case studies from her radio show, where she basically has the last word on a bunch of phone calls where the listener does not take her advice. Not really an etiquette book though. To her credit, if I recall correctly, she does say somewhere in the book that a woman has no right to ever refuse her husband sex for any reason, because there is no physical erection required for her to perform, like for a man. She says a headache is not an excuse, and that sex gets rid of headaches, so basically calls the girls out on that.

I used to listen to Dr. Laura’s show, but I felt like she got too nutty for me, and she became another talk show host that just cut everybody off and said the same thing for several hours. Even though the women on her show were nut-b~~~~, I still prefer hearing the ends of sentences in a conversation.

I agree with Soldier-Medic there was a lot of gynocentric bulls~~~ in the book, so it’s a mixed bag. But really, I’m looking for the Dao or the Dhammapada of women’s behavior. Must be something somewhere throughout the ages… maybe in another language?

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Thats interesting. Have you read it?

I read it years ago. My ex was (probably still is) one of the progenitors to today’s modern feminism. Which is to say. Turn him in to a mindless worker drone and don’t even try to pretend you’re doing anything else.

I tried and tried to get her to listen. She would pretend to understand, then pretend that she wanted our marriage to get better.

I threw this at her and told her basically that there will be a quiz in a week. Read it and learn, or ignore me and become a statistic.

I am currently single. Aaaaaaand very happy.

This book will only work if you are raising a daughter from scratch and she doesn’t have access to the internet, TV, or the influence of her young, soon-to-be self-entitled peers. Figure the odds.

Edit

The author’s take on men is that they (we) are simplistic creatures. A lot of women and men read in to this generalization to say the we simpletons. What she actually trying to communicate is that men are simplistic in our needs and in what it takes to be happy. Men will bend over backwards for a woman. Men will absolutely kill themselves for a good woman. She acknowledges this. She also tells women that men work for a living and coming home to her bitching about how she busts her ass around the house and he doesn’t fly with her. The man is busting his ass bringing home a living. Men want to come home to their wives and let down the stress instead of having a heaping helping of complaints about how he is falling down on the job.

Not a half bad book for women. She acknowledged that some/most women want to work. However, this in no way detracts from the woman’s responsibility to keep her husband happy.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[QcummerParticipant 652]

there used to be many manuals and guidebooks from the 1950’s and before.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Sandals wrote:

Does anyone know of such a book?

We live in a capitalist society, who in their right mind would write a book like that for women? It would never sell, maybe if it were for comedy or something but women are simply not interested in acting properly…
They are interested in extracting your resources and they have many books/magazines to reference this on, and they were written because they sell and make money.
BD

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

The existence of such a book would not be to the advantage of men as females could mimic the behaviours in said book until one lets one’s guard down. Better a foolish gold digger than a smart one, as the latter just might succeed.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

The author’s take on men is that they (we) are simplistic creatures. A lot of women and men read in to this generalization to say the we simpletons. What she actually trying to communicate is that men are simplistic in our needs and in what it takes to be happy .

Very well said. Admittedly my first instinct in reading her description “very simple creatutes” was the negative connotation spewed by the media that we are cave men. But the truth is, that its a compliment. Its no mystery what makes men happy, and that is because we dont make things difficult nor do we hide behind false pretenses.

We have very basic needs, values, and desires. We put them out point blank, in black and white. There is no hidden agenda. No ulterior motive. What you see is what you get.

She also tells women that men work for a living and coming home to her bitching about how she busts her ass around the house and he doesn’t fly with her. The man is busting his ass bringing home a living. Men want to come home to their wives and let down the stress instead of having a heaping helping of complaints about how he is falling down on the job.

This is also so true. My mother was one of those rare gems that treated her husband the way all men want to be treated. I specifically recall one time when I wanted something she deemed needing my fathers approval – yet another sign she was a gem – and she INSISTED I did not bring it up when my father came home from work, saying –

“He needs to relax when he comes home. Hes been working all day”.

Ironically my sister didnt learn this lesson, because my brother in law told me they argue ” ALL the time” when he comes home from work that she expects its his time to take care of the kids because shes been ” working all day” lol. She NEVER has anything positive to say. Im shocked hes so patient with her.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Cipher Highwind wrote:

The existence of such a book would not be to the advantage of men as females could mimic the behaviours in said book until one lets one’s guard down. Better a foolish gold digger than a smart one, as the latter just might succeed.

Do you HONESTLY believe women dont already know what men want? Really? As though its some Mystery of the Ages – women have been manipulating men to get what they want for thousands of years. Everyone, especially women, know what men want, as its quite simple:

-respect
-sex (in a monogomous relationship)
-love

They dont need a f~~~ing manual for this, and it wouldnt be to our detriment. Theyve known it since the begenning of time! Gold diggers are well more versed in sedictive and manipulative behavior than ANYONE on the f~~~ing planet!

I take it Sandals inquiry was a bit more deep than your synopsis: he wasnt looking to discover some secret book in order to slap a girl across the head with it and tell her what he wants. No! It sounds more like a historical survey to demonstrate what womens proper role throughout history has been and how far we have repelled from that.

Good God…For all of this “red pill” jargon sometimes I think some people are absolutely clueless. “If THAT was printed wed all be in REAL trouble”. Wow. Just wow.

Resident cynic.

[MyselfParticipant 353]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Do you HONESTLY believe women dont already know what men want? Really?

Women have no clue…

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Myself wrote:

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Do you HONESTLY believe women dont already know what men want? Really?

Women have no clue…

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Why yes, utterly CLUELESS lol. Thank you.

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I notice guys using the colloquial jargon such as ‘red pill/blue pill…alpha/beta’ then when a discussion of depth arises it becomes clear some who throw around these ubiquitous terms know nothing of the purposes of the phrases. They merely throw them around like useless fly-nets, in the hope it will hit.

And its abundantly clear in a discission such as this, as with other threads/discussions.

I have never entertained simpleton terms, false dichotomies ( which is an actual logical fallacy) to ascribe and denote human behavior in one of two categories.

Life and all of the dynamics therein are much more complex than that. Leave it to a simple minded person to boil all dynamics into two words/catch phrases, and then STILL….STILL- miss the very concept that distinguishes them.

Amazing. F~~~ing amazing.

Resident cynic.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Trying to get women to think about what a man wants is like trying to get her to not think about buying another pair of shoes.

It ain’t gonna happen with how s~~~ is now

It doesn’t matter if they know what we want or not.

Why?

Because they still don’t give a flying f~~~ about us beyond being a utility.

Even if they did know, without caring about us, what difference does it make?

[MotivParticipant 441]

Sandals wrote:

I am looking for a book that describes appropriate behavior for women, such as to speak only when spoken to, how to dress properly, how to act, cook, clean, be a proper and subservient wife, lady in the parlor / whore in the bedroom, etc…
Does anyone know of such a book?

nope, wouldnt of helped the one bitch I was seeing 10 years ago anyway, she was dyslexic…. “A cook in the bedroom and a whore in the kitchen”

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Never existed never will sadly,

Yet there are tons of books written by fat dykes with straggly grey hair and/or skinny hipster feminazi writing books about “How Men should act” or “Boys being Men”. I remember seeing a book years ago that talked about how to raise your son on how to treat Women.

Try and google, “raise your daughter to treat Men”

You’ll get a s~~~ ton of

“How DADS should train their daughter”

“10 things FATHERS should teach their daughters”

“a DADS guide to treating His daughter”

That’s all fine and Dandy I guess, but how come there aren’t WOMEN, or MOM’S teaching their daughters on how to treat a Man?. Or even act like a Lady for that matter.

Pretty sure if any book was ever written on how a Girl should act to become a Lady it would be burnt like a books during the Nazi take over.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

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