Is being a misanthrope good?

[BrawnsParticipant 46]

Okay so honestly I found out i have been mistreated by a lot of men including women and they dont actually respect me in anyway but to oppose me, say harsh things and simply provoke me and not inviting me other than their friends. Should i be a misanthrope? Not an evil one but a good one who can’t stand people. Yet i have been used for money and never got paid back. Even following them on youtube but never followed me back ’cause i am a nobody.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I don’t think you’re a misanthrope. Evidence is that you posted here. It indicates you desire some sort of attachment to others in a group.

But I imagine misanthropes can go their own way quite easily.

And, the fact you posted on this particular site indicates you are of superior understanding of the way of things.

Continue to post and you will find that you will develop a group of friends that “get it”.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I am going to be honest. I’m having a hard time understanding your post and I can’t tell if you’re last sentence is a joke or not. You might want to reread your post and edit it. Also, I’m not sure if you understand what misanthrope means. All it means is “a person who dislikes humankind”. You don’t necessarily choose what you like and dislike and that doesn’t make you a good or bad person.

[BrawnsParticipant 46]

I am not joking around Tiga. I am being serious. I never had real friends but fake ones and they were never nice to me unless i give them something or wanted what i have for them and they were rude as f~~~. I thought women are the cold hearted, shallow beings on Earth but now it is just everyone….

I tried hard to stick with them and i do anything as possible to stay in the same group but now they treat me like a butler from Batman Forever when val kilmer has no respect for old men (well i ain’t old i am still 19 turning 20) but here’s what…

How about i be myself for 10 years without new friends… And see how this goes and if it doesn’t go well then f~~~ it.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Brawns wrote:

I am not joking around Tiga. I am being serious. I never had real friends but fake ones and they were never nice to me unless i give them something or wanted what i have for them and they were rude as f~~~. I thought women are the cold hearted, shallow beings on Earth but now it is just everyone….

I tried hard to stick with them and i do anything as possible to stay in the same group but now they treat me like a butler from Batman Forever when val kilmer has no respect for old men (well i ain’t old i am still 19 turning 20) but here’s what…

How about i be myself for 10 years without new friends… And see how this goes and if it doesn’t go well then f~~~ it.

Well, if you think most people are cold-hearted and shallow, than I guess that would make you a misanthrope. But I’m glad you’ve taken the chance to try out the community here at mgtow.com and I hope you enjoy it here. I also hope your period of going without new friends allows you to maximize your efforts on cultivating your own happiness.

As for me, I called myself a misanthrope for a short time, but the label never felt right. I find many people boring and I prefer spending most of my time alone, but I don’t really dislike people for it. I use the term “loner” instead.

[guiParticipant 825]

I know how you feel Brawns. I really get this feeling all the time that I have always treated people way better than they ever have treated me but now I learned to not care about people who don’t treat me how I think I deserve.

In think being a misanthrope is just a waste of energy. In order to hate people you have to use some of your energy and this energy could be better used elsewhere.

You just have to be aware that you can never completely trust people because they are human. Even friends will sometimes fail you but the difference between fake friends and real ones is that real friends don’t fail you on purpose and put effort to stick with you in tough situations. They are really hard to find. The thing is blue pill men, manginas and white kinghts just don’t make good friends.

Here you can find like minded individuals that will share they experiences with you. I don’t know if you will make friends but you will definitely learn a lot.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I like people well enough, so I’m probably not a misanthrope. On the other hand, I do not want anyone else but me in charge of my destiny!

And yes, most of the men and women I meet are friendly, but they are not true friends. Everyone around them is nothing but a disposable convenience. In short, they are narcissistic.

So, I’ll enjoy their company while they are in a friendly mood, and I’ll be careful about turning my back on them when they are not.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22556]

Is being a misanthrope good?

It depends on how you define the term. Some people consider those whom prefer be alone to be a misanthrope. This is a mistake in the terms meaning.

A misanthrope does not like fun, music, or having a good time in any form.

And most of us do enjoy having, even if that fun is while we are alone.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I consider myself a misanthrope, but I still have friends and like to do stuff. Generally speaking, I think most people are s~~~ty human beings. Who knows whether it is good or bad, all I know is some days I don’t like people, and other days I’m the life of the party.

A humbling thing to do is take a step back and look at yourself and realize you are not the paragon either. You aren’t perfect, nobody is, and lambasting humanity isn’t going to change the fact that you’re part of it. I try to be more positive, and it makes me happier as a result. Just shrug it off and laugh. You’ll probably live a little longer and be happier.

Depends on the day I guess. Also, here’s something I always try to remember. The world’s a s~~~ty place with s~~~ty people. Do you want that to change? Yes?

“Be the change you want to see.”

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

I consider myself a misanthrope, but I still have friends and like to do stuff. Generally speaking, I think most people are s~~~ty human beings. Who knows whether it is good or bad, all I know is some days I don’t like people, and other days I’m the life of the party.

A humbling thing to do is take a step back and look at yourself and realize you are not the paragon either. You aren’t perfect, nobody is, and lambasting humanity isn’t going to change the fact that you’re part of it. I try to be more positive, and it makes me happier as a result. Just shrug it off and laugh. You’ll probably live a little longer and be happier.

Depends on the day I guess. Also, here’s something I always try to remember. The world’s a s~~~ty place with s~~~ty people. Do you want that to change? Yes?

“Be the change you want to see.”

Yes. This. I’m connected with you guys so this makes sense.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Answer me this:Do you yourself treat other people well, hold to your word etc?
You probably do.
So that in itself is proof enough that people like you exist.
If there is one, there are others.You know that’s what i though 5 years ago when i was going MGTOW on my own without knowing it ever existed, and after a few years, surprise, surprise
there are others!
I predict you will find real friends in your life.(let’s test the theory shall we?)
No need force friendships with people you don’t like.That’s how fake friendships are made.
If you ask me don’t think about it at all, it will happen naturally.

If you feel betrayed and exhausted take a break from people.
One of my favorite authors said:
“some times it’s good to take a dead/death bath”(it probably makes no sense in english)

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

i would love to live as a recluse. there are people i like. i have friends but i love being alone and not having to deal with people. except for escorts. i still enjoy that. lol

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

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