Introductory Post

[IdiomaticManParticipant 46]

I am not going to re-invent the wheel or post anything that most of you have not either heard or lived through yourselves, but here goes!
I am a 45 year old white, professional male. I lived most of my life adhering to society’s “rules” and I even put my life on the line to preserve those rules as a member of our military’s special forces. I went to college and graduate school, followed all of the rules, and generally lived as my parents and society saw fit. All except for one thing…I got to be 34 years old and I was not yet married! Oh the horror! I had my own home, a ton of money in the bank, a nice big boat and anything else that I wanted.
I am not going to blame anyone but myself for marrying the hot blonde single mother that I did. I will just say that I got a lifetime of education in a short 3 year marriage, which is how long it took her to drain me dry, and not in a good way. For 10 years this woman has been the bane of my existence. At no time during or after our marriage did she show me an ounce of respect. I tried everything to please her. I gave in and gave her what she wanted. She treated me with no respect. I stood my ground and said no to her, I was evil incarnate. There was no way to “win” so to speak. She lied about me to her family and friends turning me into a “PTSD ridden psychotic” who was abusive. Even though I was the one tolerating abuse from her. She saw to it that my business was ruined and that I was a shell of a man when she was done. I honestly believe that she was a Succubus sent from hell to destroy men as at the ripe old age of 41 she is now on her 4th marriage leaving nothing but poverty, hopelessness, and destruction in her wake.
I have now opted out of relationships all together. It is just not worth it. If the time comes that I need sex THAT bad I will opt for the tried and true hooker/john relationship. At least there is some honesty in that! Besides, as I told another female friend of mine who was not amused, “I am not paying for sex, I am paying her to leave when I am done!”
I think my red pill moment occurred when I was talking recently to another female “friend” of mine. I told her I was opting out of relationships. Her response was, “You should not do that. The only reason that you have not had a successful relationship is because you have picked the wrong women.” I actually thought about this statement for a couple of days and called this “friend” back and told her, “So, basically it is all my fault? The women who pulled this s~~~ on me are in no way responsible for their actions, but it is my fault for picking them? I have been dating since I was 17, dozens of women, and none of them were at fault, but it was my fault for picking them, that is your answer/advice?” She was speechless and did not know what to say. I learned then that woman cannot even be friends with men. They will always side with other women, no matter how wrong they are. You could have a woman admitting out loud, while being recorded that she was a bitch but other women will always find a way to defend her and turn it around so the man is at fault. I am done with women altogether.
If I can use some of my experiences and wisdom to help out some of you younger men I would like that and that is why I have decided to join the forum instead of just lurking. Relationships between men and women have changed a lot in the 25-30 years that I have been involved in them. And not for the better.

[MecklotParticipant 608]

Welcome to the site brother. It’s a shame you were married to an ungrateful bitch. It’s a blessing you’ve swallowed the red pill.

IdiomaticMan wrote:

Her response was, “You should not do that. The only reason that you have not had a successful relationship is because you have picked the wrong women.”

Aren’t they all wrong?

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Welcome to the other side man!!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

Glad you got away from that bane. 10 years is a long time. Sounds like she was a real gaslighter as far as the ptsd stuff.

Welcome.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Even if you only learned the truth about single mom’s you’d be a smarter man, but the revelations keep coming.

You’re right your “friend” didn’t say anything that the vast majority of women wouldn’t say. I think they cover the wrong woman speech in 9th grade health when they separate the boys and girls.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I’m glad you made it!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 29]

Sad to hear about your trouble man.
At least here you wont have to put up with any female bulls~~~, lies, etc etc etc.
Welcome.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome, your story will save another man from doing the same, glad you made it out.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Brother
Feels like you’ve come home doesn’t it? At least that’s how I felt when I joined.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Welcome brother, glad you made it here.

Isn’t it scary how so many of our stories have some variation, but in the end they are all the same? And many of us have more than one story. I went through a post a few weeks ago, and it was 8 for 8 women I either know or dated that are either liars, cheaters, or both.

12,000 member, from all around the globe, all with the same stories. 12,000 men that have been screwed over by numerous women, and very few of the men in their lives that are married are happy in the marriage. And the number grows every day.

I have to think that the percentage of men in a “good” relationship (whatever the hell that is) has got to be around 5%. And I acknowledge that might be setting the bar too high.

Since, as your friend so kindly pointed out, it’s OUR fault, then it appears the only way to win the game is if you don’t play.

Order the good wine

[IdiomaticManParticipant 46]

That’s right! I don’t hate the player….I don’t even hate the game…I just flat refuse to play any more.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Welcome, brother!

Here you are free from the shackles of that gynocentric bulls~~~ that plagues the world.

Here is the last bastion of true free speech, of true male content and true men who are not feminized by women.

It is a hard pill to swallow, this little red thing, but it does improve your live, for the better. Your friend got it right, it is OUR fault to allow women to do all that, yes, we did it.

We have all the power in the world, we built this s~~~, from scratch, but somewhere along the line we became complacent and let women “run the show”, in order to get our dicks wet in some pussy juice.

That is the WORST deal we did, and now we are paying for it. It is in our hands to stop all of that bulls~~~.

All we need to do is to simply STOP PLAYING. Ghosts.

Ghost cannot be harmed, ghosts cannot be seen, ghosts always win.

And we here, we are all ghosts. Ghosts that make the machine run. It is time to stop oiling it and let it rust and break.

Again, welcome home, brother. Your life starts now!

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

IdiomaticMan, sorry to hear of your relations~~~ troubles man, but i hope you realize you’re in good company. The red pill goes down rough – there’s no sugarcoating this medicine. But once you start to heal, the world is a pretty f~~~ing amazing place.

Stick with it, focus on yourself, what you need & what you want, no one else.

Welcome home brother.

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

You are so right brother, whatever men do it will always, without any exception what so ever, be the mans’ fault. That is because women have it hard wired into them that they are the victim. The victim mentality absolves them of all blame, all responsibility. The only exception to this is if a woman f~~~s over another woman, but even then it is most likely to be a mans’ fault for creating a society where women turn on each other.

There is no winning hand in this game. But I disagree that one should simply refuse to play, where is the fun in that? You simply have to cheat.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Welcome to the tuna-free zone! Women found here are served a c~~~tail of Massengill and Clamato and thrown in the litterbox.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[Anonymous 42]

IdiomaticMan wrote:

I have now opted out of relationships all together. It is just not worth it.

Why not? Ya mean having your life ruled over by a woman holding the loaded gun of law and order to your head is something to be wary of?

Having your b~~~~ torn off via rectal extraction just isn’t worth it?

Having kids you pay for (and never get to see) while she teaches these children all about the c~~~ carousel as multiple men pass through their lives using mommy as the whore she is, just isn’t worth it?

I must agree 100%, IT JUST ISN’T WORTH IT!

[Anonymous 26]

IdiomaticMan

Welcome brother and thank you for your service!

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

welcome

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