Introduction.

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

Hello, my name is Patrick, and I joined this site to learn how to fly solo. I just turned 27 years old, and I have never been in a personal relationship, never had sex, and I feel women of today have given me any love. I have gotten sick of myself wanting a girlfriend that I want to be alone. One of my hobbies are video games. RPG games in particular. The one thing I am going to hate about going outside, is I am always going to see a cute girl to talk to. Most women only think about themselves in general. They say they would offer love, but I don’t believe it. The guys always have to work to get the girl. Why isn’t it the other way around? Ideally, I might want to work at home and isolate from the real world one day and never leave my house. I have autism spectrum disorder, so the game is rigged for the good guys like me due to my social awkwardness. I can’t win. I don’t want to play that game anymore. Women are liars about loving. I don’t trust them one bit. It’s nice to meet everyone here.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Welcome. We have a little bit in common too. We like video games, especially RPG’s, and are tired of the way women treat us. I know the feeling of having to go out and somewhere and seeing a cute girl,but realize it is pointless to get excited since you know she will never date you and probably be rude to you. Glad to hear you finally realized how evil women can be and have no problem being alone. No shame in being a virgin either. Women will tell you there is something wrong with that, but remember they can’t stand a guy who isn’t sexist crazed because they can’t control him.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A sincere pleasure to welcome you, and making that intro couldn’t have ben easy. It’s virtual guarantee that having “a girlfriend” before you are well on your way to achieving your dreams would only hold you back. Experienced men would pin that age no sooner than 26, so you can’t see the future yet and have barely one foot in it. It’s easy to think it’s just a “line” to make you feel better, but its’ not bulls~~~.

The concept of women (not) offering love wasn’t always like this. In fact, todays’ woman has become the photo-negative of what nature intended. She takes the absolutely backwards approach – offering nothing, expecting all. The idea that there will be a hot meal waiting when you come home from your 70 hour work week after facing the world courageously has no place in reality anymore. This is not your fault. How can a man be required to take her to dinner when she has no interest (or willingness) to throw a bunch of noodles in a pot of boiling water for you?

You may notice that you are unnecessarily blaming yourself and thinking “Ideally you would prefer to remain isolated” when it’s simply not the case. You had nothing to do with the social situation you are forced to navigate, but navigating it alone exposes you to INFINITELY more rewards. Women are not the prize. Especially since they don’t offer anything – as you well know – so how can a young man think he is missing out?

Any amount of social awkwardness (on your part) can’t BEGIN compare to the awkward to society which exists today. You’re not “socially awkward”. Society is awkward. Kim Kardashian is a “celebrity” for f~~~ sake. (How screwed up is that?) She just got married(!) and would even refuse to make her own sandwich. So any “rejection” from a woman is as meaningless as her approval.

If a woman brings nothing, you “lose” nothing.

You CAN win. Because having no woman is not a loss. They have made great efforts MAKE it that way.
Today, just NOT getting ass-f~~~ed in a divorce is a win in itself! And an enormous one!

The reward is greater for NOT letting a woman in your life – by a huge margin.
No woman (even an accepting one) will ever pay or reward you that much.

ENJOY it, and be strong MGTOW

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

Welcome PatrickX! Whenever you see a cute girl at the store just imagine her at home yelling at her boyfriend over some trivial nonsense. No matter how drop dead gorgeous a woman is, somewhere there is a man who is tired of her bulls~~~. Her beauty is a frail veil that can be penetrated by the informed eye. Women can see through it, and so can a man who understands the way women think. Keep learning, and don’t become disenfranchised about women. Women are who they are today because men have allowed it. Never forget that! I’m not suggesting that we try and control women like they do in Islamic states, but it is obviously possible. Men as a whole have let it spiral out of control and now some of us are waking up and calling them out on their perceived superiority. This movement of men going their own way is not simply a forum for men to bash and belittle women.

MGTOW acknowledges that a man is worthy of greatness because he is standing on the shoulders of thousands of great men before him. Men are responsible for the evolution of society and women are responsible for ensuring that the next generation of men fulfill that role. A woman’s entire evolutionary role is to support men in their roles. The current societal paradox however is that both sexes have excelled at their roles to the degree that we have obtained a technological summit in which neither sex is entirely dependent on the other. We are moments away from not needing each other for anything other than lustful entertainment. A MGHOW is simply a man who can read this writing on the wall and decides that he will be a member of the pioneers. A man who embraces the inevitable by adopting it in the now. Whether or not you possess the persuasions to entice a bitch into your bed is insignificant in the face of your greatness in simply being a man.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[X T ZParticipant 1]

Hello everyone!
Short Introduction
I am from estern Europe and i am around 35 years old.
Never Got Married and Never Will.
But I am a person which had relationships with females and I will have ofcourse in the future.

Great Book- in case you didn t readt it Esther Vilar – Manipulated Man.

It shows the female thinking…even I don t really believe it all she said…there is more to tell.

Between 2 human beeings there is ALWAYS A FIGHT! Mental and can go …sometimes to body fight…avoid last one!

Between a man and a women this fight is the most complex fight!takes it all and all the time they are in contact!

Feelings are positives and negatives!And there is a balance!

Life Is Most Important Gift We Have!
Whatever Your decissions are NEVER GIVE UP FOR LIFE!
Victory For Ever!

In contact with a female you can feel good ONLY If you know how to deal with!
Learn And Train ! Than comes the Victory !
Never Trust Noone!

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I think for most women they have this fairy tale love. It’s either lust or they love because they are given something without any effort, meaning they are in love of receiving than loving a person. I honestly think you should be patient. If you hide in your house you will never meet great people and perhaps even a woman that might really be want to be a relationship with you. If that’s what you want. I don’t recommend having children or marriage thought.

It isn’t healthy to isolate yourself, you will just get more depressed.

I didn’t start dating until my early 30’s. I was too shy to even show interest back when women showed me interest only because I couldn’t trust them. It had to do my mother than anything else but that’s another story.

Just remember trust has to be earned even with women.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[RioLoboParticipant 20]

Welcome Patrick you are in a good place.

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

Thanks for support. This has been way helpful. I was called “Sexist” on other places mentioning TheRedPill and MGTOW and just being judged without the other people trying to figure out why I am this way. I just need to hold middle ground, not trust anyone all the way until I earned it, and know I am a good person. Thanks for the warm welcome everyone here.

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

Canuck

I agree 100%. You are still way too young to consider totally isolating yourself. I had to giggle a bit at what you said about the “Fairy Tale Love” thing. I have a half sister and when ever the topic of love and relationships comes up she always talks about wishing she never heard those handsome prince stories when she was a little girl. I wholeheartadly agree. Those f~~~ing stories have done more damage to male female relationships then anything I can think of. Actually, let me re-phrase that. The stories in of themselves are not really the problem. The problem is the momys and daddys who push this stuff as a future reality. A very dangerous thing to do to little girls who will grow up to be physically larger, but will always be little girls.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I blame Walt Disney.

Disney is the reason 40+ women are still chasing the same stupid dreams of marrying a prince since they were 12.

It’s pathetic.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

Disney movies aren’t the only things damaging. Ever notice on mainstream radio stations that you hear almost nothing but LOVE SONGS? i.e. I want you to want me by Cheap Trick. (I hate that song as I used to have my heart in the wrong places with girls I couldn’t even date).

and btw, I have an idea to not isolate. I think I’m going to hang out with only video game dudes (and chicks and only friend them).

[DocParticipant 112]

@XTZ that’s the best book for men. They should have an entire section of this site dedicated to it. Welcome MGTOW!

[PatrickXParticipant 217]

Thanks for recommending me that book. I just made a purchase off amazon for it, and I’ll be reading it soon when I get it.

[WarriorParticipant 14]

Yeah, haven’t made my introduction yet, but I’m going to post here first anyway.

I just wanted to say not to knock self-isolation. I will agree that it’s not for most people, and that a lot of people that would end up lonely and depressed by doing so. But for me, realizing that I didn’t HAVE to interact with society if I didn’t want to was one of the most liberating epiphanies I’ve had. I much prefer solitude, and I’ve always been made to feel abnormal because of it. Now I work from home, and only go out for drinks with the boys or groceries, and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been.

Different paths for different men, friends. Doing what makes you happiest is what it’s all about.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

PatrickX, welcome.

I had Asperger’s when I was younger. All my life, I was on the outer with few friends (Friend count over the last 20 years= 0 !).
As a young person, I started school at 4.5 and skipped year 9 to get into a private school.

My social awkwardness was always rationalised by me being younger. BTW Asperger’s was only recognised as a disorder when I had already started Uni.

I put my nose to the grindstone after being accepted into medicine at 16, and finished my degree with honours.

My first girlfriend at 19 was very kind to me in hindsight. We stayed together for 3 years, but in the end I kinda lost interest in her sexually and preferred to sleep alone. There were plenty of women chasing the “Young Dr” in retrospect- but at the time I was too Autistic to notice.

I worked like a dog for 6 years and saved every cent- except for some computer/music gear I bought. When I came to my current town, I bought my first house with my life savings- no mortgage. Then I met my future wife and everything went pearshaped for a decade or so.

Believe it or not, I am not classified as Asperger’s as I am functioning too highly- but inside I know I am still on the Spectrum. My Ex sent me to therapy for Depression ? Bipolar etc but in truth she had all the daddy issues but was NEVER about to admit ANY psychological issues (By the way, this is a flashing blue/red light for manifest personality disorder- It is always others with the problems, never them).

I have been celibate for 9 years- in a small city, it is too dangerous to be f~~~ing around with psycho women. I battled to try and see my kids but my psycho Ex alienated them from me (just as her f~~~ing Troll mother did to her husband). Intergenerational child abuse. At the moment, I am keeping a very low profile, just one level above ghosting. I have been out of debt for 5 years now and have net savings. A year ago I let my receptionist go, and I now let internet booking/ TAM/ calling people back substitute for enslaving someone in a boring job. My hours and availability are completely flexible. If I feel stressed, I can play video games/ keyboard/ meditate/ masturbate – whatever; without any judgment ever.

I was kicked of ; literally Banned from Aspiescentral a few days ago. The pussified f~~~s did not like my MGTOW advice to a guy asking about how to form a relationship. My advice was calculated and true- but too much for the mods. The backlash confirmed to me how many women on the site are faking it (way too many given the sex ratio of ASD). Not to worry, At last men have a site where there is no right/wrong/macho f~~~ing bragging. We can air our biggest mistakes and traumas without XX judging us. This site is f~~~ing awesome, as it is sensitively moderated and very high quality in production values. No site has made me Laugh and Cry as much… ever.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[MostymanParticipant 11]

Good to see another on the spectrum here, I’m self-diagnosed AS myself. My advice? Just do what you want. I’m still on the fence as to whether isolation actually causes depression, for me just being alone is my happiest state. We’ll see what happens when my mother passes on but right now I really can’t wait to live alone. Sure I could probably go out but I don’t have any friends IRL and don’t really care to. I have many beefs with human social practices and prefer to stay away due to my awkwardness and feelings on them. I wish human sexuality was different. I was raised with the idea that women who love their men would do anything for them or follow them anywhere but I guess that doesn’t happen. Because of the socio-economic situation of the world, there’s way too many f~~~ing rules to the game now and I don’t play it. I wish we had one simple rule like lower animals do, like for peac~~~s the peahens only like the condition and display of the eyespots in the c~~~’s train feathers (those are the long plumes we know and no they are not the actual tail feathers which are just underneath and not flashy at all). And definetly don’t feel bad about being a virgin. Even though I have paid for certain experiences, I still consider myself a virgin since I was protected and I feel I didn’t earn it. Of course, it also means I have yet to deal with any BS. It seems many of the guys on here still get poontang after The Pill, it’s just they’re better about putting the bitch in her place. Don’t let that define MGTOW for you, I certainly don’t. I’d love to f~~~ as often as possible like any other guy but I know it’s not in the cards for me right now so I don’t waste a single joule of energy on bitches. Maybe it’ll happen, maybe not but I don’t really give a s~~~ anymore.

[MostymanParticipant 11]

Also @o2tosin, I had a MGTOWish post on Wrong Planet deleted a while a ago for being too sexist. I feel that the folks on there are “soft Aspies” that can’t handle the truth. There are still some questions those people could answer for me, but I mostly avoid that site now.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Thanks for the validation Mostyman. I have had 4 women in my life. Enough to realise that sex is 1000% over rated. I loved Tom Leykis’ analogy to worshiping your toilet bowel after urinating.

Key Point:

The little head is just for p~~~ing out of!

I always consider censorship as being triggered when a post is close to the truth.. I have a few web sites of my own to double post stuff so it is not lost.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[sofullofchrisParticipant 10]

Welcome patrick

[sofullofchrisParticipant 10]

Welcome patrick

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