Introduction: Kage

[KageParticipant 190]

Well I’ve been lurking here for quite some time and I think its time I put an end to that. I found MGTOW after my ex requested a divorce, but the circumstances are a bit different than others. I was getting ready to leave for a tour in Afghanistan and my ex…who had just gotten back from her “deployment” was acting funny(I put deployment in quotes because it was no where near combat and in a vacation locale) not too long after she requested this and claimed she was raped…and to spare me the pain of her “recovery” that we should separate. Being blue pill at this time I was…enraged…but as time went on I started to think and anyone who gets to know me…when something doesnt sound right I start to investigate. To spare everyone a long ridiculous story. I’m here now…understanding that she was simply an unfaithful whore who either out of fear of my reaction or some other female rationalization told me that lie. Unlike many of the men here I got lucky. She pressured divorce and I filed to get it over and done. We were married six years…no kids. The only thing I paid out was the cost to file in IL….she said she’d pay her half but never did. Only out $200 or so…no big. To be honest I think she was the culmination of all my relationships. When I got with her I remember telling her that if she crossed me…this would be the last relationship I would entertain. I was very much blue pill, but right on the edge of taking the red pill…second guessing women all the time…guess I just needed a push. Stupidly I tried to remain friend(why I don’t know) but a poster on here(forget the name) talked about having no contact…NONE unless you had kids. I cut that off half a year ago. There is no reason to talk to this c*** since we dont have kids and everything is signed and done. I got lucky…and to be honest the lurking has saved me. Some of the lurkers are watching and learning, but like me are maybe too dismissive of themselves to comment. Well I think that’s enough for now. Even though you may not know it….your posts may have helped me grow. And I appreciate every one of you.

[Anonymous 42]

I’m gonna call you “Lucky”.

Is that okay Lucky?

[KageParticipant 190]

Works for me

[Anonymous 43]

lol Former Illinois divorce refugee here…welcome. Good for you for getting out before things became too complicated.

no contact with ex is good. Don’t bother asking why s~~~ fell apart, she can’t give you an answer. The answer is hypergamy, solipsism, narcissism and just plain ol full of s~~~.

Welcome…We are taking beers out of MGTower’s fridge, if you can get past the Claymore mines, pits with sharpened stakes, roaming rabid dogs and sharks with laserbeams.

[KageParticipant 190]

Yeah I ended up moving…actually right around the time I cut her off, but still close enough to see my folks on the weekends. I appreciate the welcome. Pretty sure I can make it past all the deadly objects lol

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome…We are taking beers out of MGTower’s fridge, if you can get past the Claymore mines, pits with sharpened stakes, roaming rabid dogs and sharks with laserbeams.

You forgot a couple!

[KageParticipant 190]

LOL

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Welcome! And well done. You really dodged a bullet…it could have been much worse. The thing about the red pill is that once you see women and the world as it really is there is no going back—the illusion is dead forever.

[KageParticipant 190]

Oh yeah I understand I dodged the worst. No going back to “sleep” for me…I’m done with that

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the forums. So, she deployed to a vacation spot and came home wanting a divorce. What you’ve got to watch out for now is her coming back in a few years trying to win you back. You dodged a bullet alright, and no kids to boot. So, congratulations and welcome to the forums.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Welcome Kage…Glad that you were lucky. You cant understand crazy, you just dont. She will rationalize anything and everything just to get her way and at the same time claiming victimhood…

Just understand that you are not responsible for her. She is an adult with full control of her faculties. As such, she is capable of making HER OWN decisions. You went your own way and learned. Thanks for sharing that what we share here has an impact on the lurkers…Again, welcome and keep growing…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Lucky; aka Kage
Beer’s in the fridge
Look forward to hearing from you

[KageParticipant 190]

@joetech She can kiss my a** with trying to win me back. The funny part is shes 6 years my senior and has lost all semblance of sanity

[KageParticipant 190]

@M52 Thank you. I appreciate it!

[KageParticipant 190]

@nerdtunneler Yeah I haven’t experienced TRUE crazy like many guys here, but I dont underestimate someone who is lacking logical thought. Thanks for the welcome.

[DocParticipant]

Welcome Kage – it’s good to hear that this placed saved you.
It’s also good to hear you feel that you have been lucky. I too was lucky. We spilt everything fairly. And I get to have my two kids half the time. Often more.

But your pain – however you experience it is your pain. It’s as valid as the next mans even if your situation differs vastly.

Glad to see another man saved by us and this place.

Put your feet up. Apart from the infiltration of self entitelted bitches now and again you are home and safe.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[KageParticipant 190]

@doc Thank you. And yeah everyone’s experience is different, but that makes this place that much better

[Anonymous 43]

F~~~ Tower, I forgot the Russian Doorbell.

Ya got me pal.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

F~~~ Tower, I forgot the Russian Doorbell.

Ya got me pal.

DING (((BOOM!)))

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome Kage!

All lurkers should jump in!
Everyone has something to offer!

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