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[Sandancer37Participant 61]

Hello All,

I came across this site today, and after browsing and reading the forums, I’ve been wondering where the hell this site has been all my life???
Let me explain a bit….

I live in the North East of England, where men are men and not supposed to have feelings or talk about anything like themselves (basically strong and silent) Shag your women and drink your beer is the motto, nothing wrong with that in my opinion. I’ve had relationships in the past but never been into relationships like some of my friends, when I was a teenager 18, 19, and much better looking than I’m now (I’m 37) I had my fair share of girls, women etc but nothing more, usually f~~~ing them and next weekend finding another f~~~ them and so on and so on, never got involved apart from a girl I was going out with at 18 and then dumped me 8 months later as I basically had no money ( I should have known then)
I’ve rarely had any real girlfriends, I’m average looking, quite introverted and often prefer my own company and my mates company rather than female company, it was usually just go out on the weekend and pull some easy woman in a bar and have a one night stand.
I’ve kind of fallen into the lifestyle of a very content bachelor, with no plans to get married, have children, pursue relationships as I simply don’t trust a woman at all, I’ve got my own apartment, car, good job and passionately follow my local football team home and away, I’m free to pursue my own hobbies of reading and writing and can come and go as I please, and have a great circle of friends. I’ve seen my friends go through messy divorces and pulled two of them back from the brink after their divorces. Two years ago I was friended on Facebook by a woman I used to go to school with and we started dating (breaking all my rules I’d set for myself) The Sex was great and I started to get feelings for her which surprised even me, the alarm bells should have been ringing though as she was coming out of a divorce and was on anti depressants, indeed after the first night we slept together she said she’d felt like she’d cheated on her husband, anyway after a few months she stated she wanted to get back with her husband, which I later found out was a lie as she was going out with another man and I swore I would not do this again and that I would not trust another woman ever again.

My parents often ask when I’m going to settle down and give them grandchildren, to which I reply much to their bafflement that I simply don’t want to and that I’m perfectly happy as I’am. I get asked the same question by my friends and they seem baffled when I point out that I no longer have any interest or inclination to putting the energy in a relationship and that I’m very very content as I’am. I’m so happy to have found this site, and look forward to posting more.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome to the forums Sandancer37

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 43]

welcome to mgtow amigo…no women to shag here, but beer’s in the fridge…help yer self. leave me the ginger ale. its ok to talk about stuff here…no topic is off limits…got a q just ask.

[Sandancer37Participant 61]

Much appreciated.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Sandancer37 wrote:

My parents often ask when I’m going to settle down and give them grandchildren

It’s always fascinating when they badger men about “kids” – when they already know men have no parental rights, and men don’t “decide” to have kids – or not have kids. Even if you wanted kids BADLY, would it even be up to you?

For example, I impregnated two women in my life, and they both aborted. I have no say in the matter. RIGHT? So how can my parents have badgered ME about having kids? Interesting question, wouldn’t you say?

Conversely, when anyone asks “why dont’ you have any kids?” …. I simply reply “How do you know that I don’t ? Even I can’t be completely sure. After all, it’s still legal in this country for a woman to allow herself to get pregnant without a man’s consent”.

Either way, they f~~~ themselves into a corner.

“Having kids” is not your decision – at all – unless you consider surrogacy an option. And wouldn’t your desire to have kids depend on the kind of woman she is? So one wonders how anyone can expect a man to want/have kids – especially before he met the woman.

When you really think about it, it’s lunacy.

Welcome to the site and forums. Delighted to have you here.
Please join in whenever you’re inspired.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Sandancer37Participant 61]

That’s a great response, I’ve often questioned myself and thought am I being hugely selfish by not just finding some skank and getting her up the duff, then I think there is absolutely no chance I would ever do that just to keep other people happy and sacrifice my own happiness. I’ve seen my friend go through a messy divorce and lose his job unable to keep up payments to his ex wife and her going to the CSA (Child Support Agency here in the UK) who don’t give two f~~~s about your personal circumstances and just demand money to give to the ex wife, so the brats can be kept in the latest Adidas trainers.
No f~~~ing way ever !!

[narwhalParticipant]

Sandancer37 wrote:

then I think there is absolutely no chance I would ever do that just to keep other people happy and sacrifice my own happiness

I think you nailed it right there. Perhaps you’re just paraphrasing, but I think it’s telling that you’re parents (probably just your mother) was asking for grandkids. She didn’t try and tell you that having kids were great or anything like that, just that you have some sort of obligation to provide grandkids to her.

Ok. Then do it.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Sandancer37 wrote:

My parents often ask when I’m going to settle down and give them grandchildren,

Just tell them that you’re getting a dog and that they can spoil it all they like. Problem solved…

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD SANDANCER37

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Sandancer37 wrote:

I’ve kind of fallen into the lifestyle of a very content bachelor

First post and this man tells us he is content. Good on you. You already know the difference between happy and content. Let me guess, it probably really p~~~es off all of your married friends’ wives to see you all content without a woman in your life. It’s a real p~~~er when the talk doesn’t match the walk. The talk is that a guy is never really happy or content until he has a woman in his life. The real truth is that he’s only really happy and content when he doesn’t.

Anyway, great intro, and welcome aboard.

Order the good wine

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Sandancer37 wrote:

I’ve often questioned myself and thought am I being hugely selfish

That’s exactly where they want you.

But guess what . . . . . .

narwhal wrote:

your parents (probably just your mother) was asking for grandkids

Isn’t that even MORE “hugely selfish”?

To have kids because she wants grandkids?
IS — >> NOT REASON ENOUGH.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome SD37. From another content bachelor.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome Sandancer! I’m wifeless and childless, but not homeless and penniless!

When are you gonna settle down like the dirt and mud on a doormat?

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Welcome to the forums, Sandancer37!

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Sandancer37 wrote:

I came across this site today

…and jumped right in! That’s really cool. I knew about this website since it was first made, but I didn’t bother really looking into it until recently, at which point I found that this s~~~ was legit.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Sundancer
Beer’s in the fridge

Looking forward to your posts.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome!

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Sandancer37 wrote:

men are men and not supposed to have feelings or talk about anything like themselves (basically strong and silent) Shag your women and drink your beer is the motto,

Blue pill simps.

Sandancer37 wrote:

I had my fair share of girls, women etc but nothing more, usually f~~~ing them and next weekend finding another f~~~ them and so on and so on

Cool. Watch out for sperm jackers.

Sandancer37 wrote:

I’ve kind of fallen into the lifestyle of a very content bachelor,

I hear that!

Sandancer37 wrote:

I’ve got my own apartment, car, good job and passionately follow my local football team home and away,

F~~~ ya bro! Local teams are ALWAYS the best.

Sandancer37 wrote:

Two years ago I was friended on Facebook by a woman I used to go to school with and we started dating (breaking all my rules I’d set for myself)

Ya stay away from Facebook girls. They have 1000 orbiters waiting to buy them a new car.

Sandancer37 wrote:

I’ve seen my friends go through messy divorces and pulled two of them back from the brink after their divorces.

Curious to know more! How are they doing now?

Sandancer37 wrote:

after a few months she stated she wanted to get back with her husband, which I later found out was a lie as she was going out with another man and I swore I would not do this again and that I would not trust another woman ever again.

The lying dumb bitch! That must’ve been your red pill moment!

Sandancer37 wrote:

My parents often ask when I’m going to settle down and give them grandchildren, to which I reply much to their bafflement that I simply don’t want to and that I’m perfectly happy as I’am. I get asked the same question by my friends and they seem baffled when I point out that I no longer have any interest or inclination to putting the energy in a relationship and that I’m very very content as I’am. I’m so happy to have found this site, and look forward to posting more.

They will hate MGTOW and are blue pill for life! Only will drag you down. Hope we can help give you some relief and comfort that you aren’t alone.

Welcome!

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

…At the risk of being a total asshole for which I apologize in advance..

Something is fishy.

I love MGTOW.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Sandancer37Participant 61]

Nothing fishy at all mate, I’am what I’am take or leave anything I post, I’m not gonna argue.

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