Intro & advice needed

[Silent NoiseParticipant 211]

Hey guys, here’s my intro.

Born to sexually abusive father, my mother took me away at 5. Spent most my life escaping in front of a screen. My mom would let me sit at the computer for hours.

So his abuse was gone, but so was the potential for me to have a dad to play ball with.

My mom yelled so f~~~ing much. It broke me down, was cutting myself and it escalated to where, after she went off her head for me not writing a thank-you card, I sliced into the tendons in my wrist. Had plastic surgery.

Government emancipated me at 16 after that. They were giving me generous payments too. Gave the finger to my mom.

I lived with my girlfriend from 16-18 and it was good until I just didn’t give a s~~~ anymore. She went f~~~ing psychotic at me all the time, and an argument escalated to her threatening suicide. I called her bluff and gave her the razorblades I hid previously, and she took them to her room slammed the door. I played some computer after.

Upgraded to a hotter girl, which I was such a beta for, and she left me without any way to contact her. Man I was down in the dumps for a year. Overdosed on anti-psychotics.

20. Moved cities. Found mgtow.com searching for answers on youtube. Got a job, and into the stock market with what little I have. Climbed nearby mountains, played a lot of video games.

22 now. Got lonely, so moved in with mom and 2 young half-brothers (7&9) in my old state. This is where I need your help. I need advice from men, because I can’t get it from my dad.

The boys have been totally f~~~ing spoiled, completely lack discipline, and have severe disabilities. They don’t learn. I thought I could help and in turn kick the loneliness. Nothing gets put away, and there’s so much stuff everywhere that it almost a hoarder’s den.

I’ve tried for 3 months and feel burnt out. Happiness has shriveled. What I clean gets messed up again. What I teach is forgotten. What I cooked isn’t eaten because they turn their spoiled f~~~ing noses up at it. One of the half brothers is an arrogant smart ass who thinks he knows everything and is in grade 1.

It would benefit me if I helped fix this place up, because it will be more money in my pocket when my mom dies. I’m sure it’s good for their wellbeing that I stay, but it’s a sacrifice at my expense. I don’t like this state either.

What should I do? Stay here for the greater good? Do the kids have potential and should I be there so that they have a male role model? Their father left.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

1. Surf these forums. Also, check out “The Masculine Principle Blog”

2. Understand who you’re dealing with and meet your ½ brothers where they are physically, mentally, and spiritually.

3. Know that once there is “brokenness” there are NO pain free options for restoration. This applies to a broken bone, a broken home, a broken relationship, a broken spirit, etc.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Down and dirty it might be a really bad idea to stay there as it seems to be a rather depressing and hopeless situation. I don’t like to give advice but I know that in my own life I had to be happy by myself and realize that loneliness is just a game that is pushed on us by women who want us to feel ashamed. When you have been brought up by a woman and haven’t we all who has mental disabilities herself and you made something of yourself let that be and let the other situation take care of itself. Even qualified professionals have trouble helping children with disabilities so you might not even have a chance but unless that is your training. It sounds like you might need to get your own place

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 42]

You’re crucifying yourself over a house? A house that’s under 24hr. destruction? Either everyone of them shuts the f~~~ up including mom and starts marching to your orders like a p~~~ed off drill sergeant or pack up your s~~~ and leave!

A modern man must rule with the same iron fist he rules himself with, any thing else is mental abuse!

I see three paths

1 Marine Barracks/Drill Sergeant

2 Nuthouse horror show night and day

3 Go Your Own Way! Never stay where a man is not appreciated, respected, and OBEYED! (Oh boy, I think I heard a clam fart).

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome !Look back at the point you were doing your best. Get back to that. You must take care of yourselve to be strong enoght to help others.I have learned to not waste energy on those who are not grateful,or those who are not self motivated. Instead of you helping them up,they will pull you back down.

[Silent NoiseParticipant 211]

Alright, thanks for the advice guys. Feeling good now.

Thinking it’s best to go DRILL SERGEANT and if that won’t work, i’ll f~~~ off, get a blue collar job and keep investing. Maybe build an empire like Trump. Minus the gynocentrism.

It does feel like i’m a slave to their wellbeing, they’ll drag me down though and I don’t really like them THAT much

Gotta fix myself by learning how to NOT give a s~~~ and find a social hobby with like-minded men. Need to quit the computer games. It gives an escape so I can tolerate living here.

Really appreciate the advice everyone, and thanks Solomon for what you said about not even specialists being able to fix it. Lightens the burden.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

When the plane loses pressure, you put the mask over your face first for a reason. You take care of yourself first or you become worthless to yourself and your environment. Your 22, you don’t have the experience or resources to fix the home issue even if you wanted to. So your best intentions are nice but you are set up to fail. Knowing this act in your best interests. If you still want to fix things when you get older you can come back and try later with the knowledge, resources and experience you will gain by getting out now.
I don’t know if that’s good or bad advice, but it’s the advice I would give you. When you get out get better at everything you can. Soak up knowledge like a sponge. Learn as much as you can, about everything you can. Knowledge is armor and swords.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings SN,

Appreciate your introduction and the great comments/ advice that it has generated.

It is always good when young fellows are open to the advice of other men. It also allows the more experienced and old timers to be able to share their experience/ wisdom.

Like many men in our times, I was in a similar situation to you many years ago. The laws, TV, feminism, modern slave culture, and Gynocentric institutions are among the things that are creating these “situations.”

Silent Noise wrote:

What should I do? Stay here for the greater good?

Your desire to stick around and help out your Mom and brothers is partly the honorable natural instinct of men and the other part is sadly a result of parasitic manipulation. This manipulation is primal. And it is difficult to eliminate the need for a mother’s approval which is hard wired.

I was the oldest of six kids and helped out my Mom and siblings after she divorced Dad. It was a big mistake and it ruined my life. Alas, all of the decades of doing good deeds and hard work for them turned to s~~~. However, I discovered much later in life that I could get along with them and have a laugh when I maintained healthy boundaries and avoided getting sucked into fixing their problems.

Here is another strange thing:
Now, when mom starts complaining about her newest crisis, I immediately cut her off and change the subject. She is much happier after that. This is easier to do when you have your own place.

The time I spent with them put me at great risk and negatively influenced me when dealing with other men. And it turned me into a “Mangina.”

The situation of the young man named Tao in the movie Gran Torino is a nice example of the problem. I recommend watching the whole movie.
The advice given to him by The Man played by Clint Eastwood throughout the movie is excellent.

The part in this film demonstrating how Asian women are really like nasty badgers is excellent. My last “Unicorn” hunt was the hope that I may find one amongst Asian women which turned out to be a big mistake. Western men are not prepared to deal with these fierce creatures.

WARNING: All movies promote Relations~~~s, NAWALT, Marriage, and the belief in “Unicorns.” And Gran Torino also promotes this crap.

My behavior learned from that situation that you now find yourself in had set me up for horrible relations~~~s and a miserable marriage.

Some of the biggest lies perpetrated by our great enemy is the propaganda that men are dangerous/ incompetent regarding raising children and men have no interest in their children.

Even though there are more men behaving like savages today, the truth is that old school men are the only ones capable of producing happy/ productive citizens for a civilized society. Older cultures forced women to be less crazy and work with their men. Men matured and grew wise by interacting with other men. Old time culture kept people from becoming savages.

With the introduction of air conditioning and television in Western Civilization, communities no longer gathered for support and to maintain the old time culture which was good for everyone.

Silent Noise wrote:

get a blue collar job

Here are some YouTube talks by Mike Rowe that brings up the truth about jobs and real success. He suggests great opportunities for men in today’s economy.
These videos will also help you to fight the foolish programming that was forced upon your generation:

I slacked off on my blue color work/ opportunities to pursue advanced degrees and become a scientist. I believed the bulls~~~ that is promoted about Academic and “Professional” careers which are really toxic for men these days. These institutions are extremely hostile to White Heterosexual Men.

It is sad to hear the denial of most of my European American colleagues. These highly skilled and credentialed men are unable to find work as Professors anywhere in Western Civilization. These guys are unwilling to see that communist feminists are running these institutions, even the Engineering and Science departments.

The savage Academic and “Professional” life for an individual man these days is similar to a bear being taken down by a bunch of hyenas.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Silent Noise wrote:

I called her bluff and gave her the razorblades I hid previously, and she took them to her room slammed the door. I played some computer after.

Nice.

Silent Noise wrote:

Got a job, and into the stock market with what little I have.

Ok. What are we talking here? If you have a enough to make it worthwhile, I would suggest using it to break free and get an education/tools/experience that will help you move on to the next thing in life.

FrostByte wrote:

Your 22, you don’t have the experience or resources to fix the home issue even if you wanted to.

Listen to this man – he is very wise. IT’s a clusterf~~~ of a situation by the sounds. If you want ot help them, you’re much better off establishing yourself career/business wise and being in a position to offer a real difference to them instead of mere guidance/example. Not that those things aren’t important, but watch the difference when you are able to help cover their tuition or books as long as they demostrate consistent progress.

as for MGTOW, was that another c~~~ fart joke?

I’ll just leave this here:

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

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