Good afternoon gentlemen.
I’m Steve, 32 years old living in the US, single, no kids never married. I discovered MGTOW 4-5 months ago after about 4 years of unsuccessful dating and a couple relationships. I never had any problem getting a girl that I wanted in the past, but the last 4 years of dating have just been absurd. I own a home, great location, 2 minutes from a school, car is paid off, have a 9-5 no nights/weekends job and I’m going to take over the business once the boss retires. I have been told all my life that women want a man with assets, a good head on his shoulders, family oriented, etc. I have all these traits, yet I have not been able to sustain a lasting relationship with a woman in the last four years. What am I doing wrong? No friends or family could give me a real answer, “Just keep searching Steve, the right one is out there for you.” “My friend is single, I could introduce you guys?” “Oh you mean your friend who is 15 lbs overweight and has three cats in a one bedroom apartment?” I have been slowly accepting the fact that all women are the same but I’m still hoping that I can meet one who isn’t. I had a relationship with a woman who in fact was not like other women, but obviously it didn’t work out. That’s why I still have hope in meeting the right woman, but as I get older that hope is fading away.
So after 4 years of unsuccessful dating I thought about what I was doing wrong since I never had a problem in the past. That’s when I discovered MGTOW, and the thoughts I had of “There isn’t someone out there for me” and “Why do women always change after 3-6 months in a relationship and start s~~~ testing, start arguments, start to criticize me, interrupt me during a conversations, try to change my behavior?” Those questions were answered when I started reading through the forums. Holy s~~~, it’s like I just woke up from a bad dream. I’m not the problem, women are the problem. All those years of chasing after pussy has only left me with emotional scars, as much as I want to be tough and don’t want to admit that I’ve been hurt, it’s the truth.
Since I’ve given up on dating girls I’ve realized that the times in my life when I experienced the most anger and frustration, were when I was in a relationship or when I was trying to date a girl. I would also go through bouts of depression when I was single, since I felt like I needed a woman to be happy. And for what? For some girl who only wants attention for herself and her life? Some girl who thinks I should go to the ends of the earth to make her happy just for being a girl? Are there any decent ones left? No, probably not. I’m still in the phase of accepting the truth about women and life, the red pill feels more like a suppository. Every time I read through MGTOW I get closer to accepting the fact that I don’t need women in my life to validate my status in society.
I appreciate this site and everyone who posts on here. Your posts, thoughts, and advice to the other members has really helped me through a pretty difficult time in my life. After typing out my thoughts and reading back over them, my hope of finding a decent girl has pretty much vanished haha. Kind of liberating though
Aleph Male 3 years, 7 months ago.
