intro

[virginmd30Participant 3]

Hello all other MGTOW, I know how it is being rejected and never given a chance. I have finally joined after lurking for a few weeks. I have been getting in awesome shape and improving myself. I just want to go my own way. I don’t want to be that guy she goes to once all the bad boys had enough of her and she finally decides to get with the good guy. I will be the guy who is independent and headed his own way. Nice to meet you all.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Nice to meet you back. Happy to welcome you right away as I was replying to someone else, there you were. Thanks for telling us you were a lurker for a while. I was a lurker for a couple of YEARS(!) at other MGTOW forums (which recently shut down earlier this year) and I just finished thanking some of our members for dropping their introductions and stories for the benefit of others. They really do make a difference.

Awesome to hear how you are well aware of the “nice guys finish last” scam, so you won’t be that last sucker standing.

You know it’s very easy when they decide to turn on the charm when their eggs are drying up. I still get phone calls and emails from Exes and girls who said “no” when they hit 35 and they realize they should have said yes a little more often. I like to play OBTUSE with them.

“I don’t get it. I wasn’t good enough for you THEN… why would I be good enough for you NOW?”

….and then just sit back and watch her fumble for a response as she trips over herself.

• This happened recently on 3 separate occasions with a divorced single mom who never gave me the time of day in school. Then she’s in town for a visit. She (and her daughter) just LOVED spending the afternoon with me. But OOPS! i really gotta go. Deadline, you know.

• Then there was an out-of-the-blue chick from the 10th grade who HEARD I never married. ALSO a single mom. Texted me after not a single word in 22 years. “OMG! How are you? Are you seeing anyone?”

Go f~~~ yourself.

• And now there is a coworker who 15 years ago said “Ok but it’s not a date”. (she’s been playing the “good girl” religious act and kept all men at arms length for 15 years you see. None of them took the bait. I won’t either.). Now her eggs are drying up and the last time I was in Europe I mentioned I was there in an email, and she told me I “should” drive to her city which was 600+ miles away!!! Can you believe that s~~~? Our time together wasn’t a “date” but now I have a text on my phone which says I should drive almost 700 miles for the pleasure of her company.

I passed.

•••••••

There was a video I saw on youtube (don’t remember which) but it was MGTOW related. Underneath there was a comment I will never forget. A guy who had been “rejected” pretty often said: “I used to feel bad about never being good looking or rich enough for most women to date or marry…. but now I am inclined to CELEBRATE it.”

Enjoy. I mean it.

/video/women-over-the-hill/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[virginmd30Participant 3]

Being a gentlemen and displaying chivalry is not accepted or desired in these times. I still holds doors open for others and compliment others. I like to cheer others up and be an all around good guy. I make jokes and am very humorous. What I am stating is that the time of the 50s is gone and sadly, women can not stand men who are the literal version of Prince Charming. The bad boy is what they want and I can not act bad to save my life. I am just too good of a person so going my own way seems like the only viable option to this messed up dating world is go one’s own way and not settle for less imho.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I get that. Probably more than I can explain.
But you may not have a complete understanding of MGTOW.

I was originally raised and even TRAINED that way. To extend everyone courtesies – even the unearned kind. But I also learned the REAL side of women at young age and quite frankly, they don’t deserve it.

Isn’t being chivalrous the act of treating women like the are superior? Kneeling and all of that. Being her white knight. This would imply she needs some kind of “protection”, but from what exactly? Women are perfectly capable (or at least they have the “equal opportunity” ) of standing on their own two feet to treat them like THEY need protection from anything more than you do. What does she need protection from? An Atom bomb? A bullet? Even “rape” is more likely to happen to a man than a woman. That’s a fact. Are women there to protect YOU from that?

When you think about it, the MOST “chivalrous” / Prince Charming examples you may ever find in modern culture are those stupid Vampires in Twilight. And justin Bieber. He will say and sing anything women want to hear. And their fan base is HUGE. So it’s a mistake to think women don’t like it. They LOVE it. All foreplay and no sex.

From what you’ve said, you’re the nice / Prince Charming type…. but then you say you “won’t settle for less”. You have a slightly skewed idea of what LESS is. By being prepared to lay down, kneel down, and be Prince Charming you are LOWERING your status for female affections and attention. This willingness is good for HER but bad for YOU.

I will be direct, but please don’t interpret it as shot at you….

sadly, women can not stand men who are the literal version of Prince Charming.

Neither can MGTOW. MGTOW is not a haven for discontent White Knights. In fact, MGTOW despise white Knights because of the atmosphere they create and force other men to navigate. For every guy who puts a woman on a pedestal, another man is having deal with her over-inflated view of herself. For every Twilight Vampire and Justin Bieber who sings songs about “dying in her arms”…. and “i wanna be your boyfriend” (is there any more pathetic song lyric?)…. another normal guy who says “hey you wanna go for an ice-cream” doesn’t have a shot in hell.

White Knights, Chivalry, and Prince Charmings are a cancer that must be carved out of the culture.
They are the men that say “yes” whenever a woman desires it.

MGTOW are the men who say NO. F~~~ING. WAY.

•••••

I understand you much better than you might think. Perfectly, in fact. The social, legal and dating climate IS f~~~ed up. Once may even say it’s beyond repair. Rhianna gets beaten and goes back for more. Women divorce their husbands for being “too nice”. But having witnessed it all first hand in every direction you look … how can you EVER be willing to hold a door open (or offer up Prince Charming) for a creature like that? If she were an ANGEL… then MAYBE. But, they ain’t no angles. And thanks to feminism, now everybody knows it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[virginmd30Participant 3]

I was at my job working hard and then went to the gym to work out these past few days; therefore, I could not reply at that time. I am Prince Charming, believe me but one that has a backbone. I have a back like Wolverine(Hugh Jackman) but a heart of gold. I am not one of THOSE pushover Prince Charmings. I am more of the Golden Rule ones. If you treat me with respect, I will do the same for you. I you act like an ass toward or near me, I would not have anything to do with you. People have given me s~~~ and I shot it right back at them. One example per se is when some  contract painters destroyed temp lights that I hung and lit. I saw the aftermath of their painting session, went straight to their supervisor, showed him the damage, and told him straight to his face that he is going to pay for the damage his employees have caused. I do not take s~~~ nor I hardly give s~~~ to others. Some co-workers called me an asshole in a good way. I have done favors for others at work without even thinking of getting a reward for my hard work. They surprise with extra gatorade or powerade bottles when I finish said job. What I am trying to state is that I am a Prince Charming with a backbone but can give s~~~ back if s~~~ is tossed towards me in that regard. I do believe that feminists have shown women in a new and negative light. Glad to join this site and put my 2 cents in when it comes to surviving the men hate placed all around us today.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Greetings! Always remember the relationship is based on your needs being met first and foremost and if she doesn’t want to comply then send her back to the bad boys to wreck her snatch beyond the point of anyone wanting it ever again. She can hit the wall, put on 50lbs and spend the rest of her days complaining about not being able to get a man.

To this day I still get a chuckle by going to Facebook and visiting the pages of all the girls I desperately wanted to f~~~ in high school but felt were unobtainable. Now it would be showing them mercy by letting them have sex with me. Time is on our side, yes it is.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[Author]

Posts