Indifference

[AlmostNiceGuyParticipant 210]

I have heard that this stage comes eventually when being MGTOW, the stage where you are no longer angry. I don’t get angry anymore when talking about women and the devilish games they play, rather I have come to indifference. I don’t see them as rational beings, rather beings driven by emotion and biological instinct. While you can rationalize with a man, unless he is blue-pill and in vicinity to pussy, i truly think that you can’t change a woman’s mind. I don’t get angry at their decisions, because they don’t really know or care about what they are doing. And because I don’t get angry, I no longer care about their common day nuisance. Anybody know what the next stage is? Cause if I’m this calm now I can’t wait until the next step. Also whoever invented pot brownies deserves a nobel prize.

-AlmostNiceGuy

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Indifference took me a long time – REAL indifference – to the point where I was no longer actively trying to be (or appear) indifferent. Even when I was aware that I needed to be indifferent, part of me was still wanting to care, and I was merely talking myself out of it. For example, I would get an email from a chick who was playing all nice to get to me, and I would tell myself “don’t” ….. even when I wanted to respond just to communicate “no” , or “go away”.

Now I don’t even care enough for THAT.

As another example, I got an email (2 days ago) from a girl who’s been “chasing” me for a while… and although my previous self would have jumped, I read it and it just wasn’t compelling enough to bother. I just REALLY didn’t even want to reply. I just don’t care. Basically a response (or caring) now has to be worked out of me.. and women are s~~~ at that. Even if she told me she hated me, I would just shrug my shoulders.

When you get there, it IS fantastic.

A new member recently joined and had a picture of a lion in their avatar with the text:
“Lions do not care about the opinions of sheep”.

That encapsulates it just perfectly. What’s beyond?? Who knows really, but one thing is certain, it’s whatever you make it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

ANG: Congratulations on moving away from anger. It was one of the best things I ever did for myself.

Indifference means you are becoming one with the red pill, and this where you need to be. Accept them for what they are and do not ever hate. They are impossible to change so leave that part to the white knights who need to learn the lesson the hard way.

[RennieParticipant]

Got out of the anger stage 3 years ago myself.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A couple of years ago… I read a comment somewhere in the Manopshere on some thread. I think it was 2012. And it stuck with me as so beautifully indifferent to the whole thing. The guy was “arguing” with a white knight until he finally caved , relaxed his attitude totally and said something brilliant. This is almost word-for-word from memory:

I now believe in marriage. For YOU. Not for me.
After all who’s going to keep this ridiculous gong show going?
You have totally convinced me, there must be some diamond in the rough out there.
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. They’re just bitter.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

AlmostNiceGuy wrote:

Also whoever invented pot brownies deserves a nobel prize.

Ha Ha HA LOL, unsuspected and out of the blue!

I got over my anger with women and how they acted, they weren’t acting, that’s the way they are! NO BULLS~~~! They’re nuttier than a bag of almonds! I’ve been tortured by injustice several times over, humiliated, shamed, dishonored, and treated like s~~~. NO PROBLEMO! I enjoy a peaceful mind, a peaceful soul, and a peaceful life, women are like the wind, I don’t care what they or anybody thinks. There’s just no way for them to connect to my feelings, I have no feelings for them. Not my fault, that’s feminism’s reward! NOTHING, I mean NOTHING at all, no concern, no attraction, no bother.

Trees have more appeal to me, and I cut them down with no feelings. Same with women, I just have no feelings, no mater how beautiful they appear, they fail to spark any interest.

I dread the touch of a woman, like an abused dog, some turn shy, some turn mean, I guess I’m a little of both. I fear the embroilment a woman has to offer. It’s not a matter of beauty, personality, or character at this point. I guess my heart is permanently closed.

I feel safer this way, no more pain, no more heart ache, just closed. I guess you could call it indifference. I just don’t care. They’re ghosts…………….

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Meanwhile I guess I am well on my way towards real indifference, despite some few odd appearances…   … but they are getting less and less every day step by step.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[AussieBlokeParticipant 144]

I’m not even sure if I have reached proper anger at this point, I would call it more confused.

Confused about how I was fooled for so long.

Confused about how any person could be that cold and calculated in one sense and then absolutely nut job crazy in another sense.

Confused about how society allowed itself to get so far out of balance in all manner of things.

Sure there is anger there throughout all this confusion but for it to sustain itself, anger needs to be focused on a target and I’m still ranging in on the targets. I guess after that I need to decide if I want to sustain the anger or let it go.

Like I said I’m still very confused right now.

The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

[MrMeParticipant 651]

I am still angry at women but slowly getting used to their bulls~~~.

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