Indian parents pressuring me to marry, need advice…

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Damn Eric,
that’s good advice. I think I was advising him about the best defense (saying “No”), but I think yours might be the best advice re: offense. I hope OP realizes he just got for free what many men have to spend a life of blood, sweat and tears to learn…

Pay attention OP. Defense or offense. ANYTHING but surrender!

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 12]

@ Eric

BamMm!
Mate you made my morning.
Top Kek! Awesome thoughts.
That hurt like an A-10 Gun run.

[GregB0Participant]

Faust For Science wrote:

You stated you have a sister.

Your sister could quite easily provide any and all grandchildren and great grandchildren needed to support/continue the family line.

Anonymous wrote:

Use the business risk benefit analysis. All risk and no benefit.

Tell everyone that you are not financially prepared for a wife and family, and that you do not want to be a burden upon anyone. While there might be support early on, it will not be continued and will only lead to conflict.

Jan Sobieski wrote:

If you can’t afford to go on your own how can you afford a wife?

Also at 23 are you even mentally ready to move out and begin living on your own? Let alone starting a life with the expectation of supporting a family. No, No, No.

Tell everyone that you need to live your life to ensure that you have everything squared away for you, then you can worry about others.

Lead with the truth and then nudge them down the path you would like to walk.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[narwhalParticipant]

There are argument seems to be around kids, so perhaps it’ worth considering a vasectomy. I would guess that a vasectomy would lower your value to whoever they could possible arrange marriage to. That may be too extreme for you right now, but I think it would be wise to think about it.

Somewhat related, but I’m curious what your family would say if they believed you were gay? Would they be ok with that? Would it exempt you from their plans for your life? If so, I’d consider making an argument that being gay and ‘not wanting to marry’ are similar in that neither would be happy married to a woman. Unless your parents would pressure a gay man to marry despite it making him miserable, it is illogical for your parents to pressure you.

Ok. Then do it.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Odin wrote:

Is it time to run away?

Yes!!!!!!!!!!

[ryuk_shinigamiParticipant 95]

498A.
Domestic Violence Act.
Hindu marriage Act.
https://purushatma.wordpress.com/2017/05/30/victim-of-498a-abhimanyu-singh-shares-his-tragic-and-painful-story/

I’m 25, neither me nor my brother have been asked the question.
To be honest, I believe I have a better chance of securing an overseas work assignment than securing a Virgin in *Arranged Marriage Market.

*Extortion industry with the police and lawyers taking a cut. Even if you secure a NAWALT, prepare to bear the family fights, kids, nagging…..

Some people call it fate. I call it, "Chaos Theory" - Sam Fisher

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

BrainPilot wrote:

Damn Eric,
that’s good advice. I think I was advising him about the best defense (saying “No”), but I think yours might be the best advice re: offense. I hope OP realizes he just got for free what many men have to spend a life of blood, sweat and tears to learn…

Pay attention OP. Defense or offense. ANYTHING but surrender!

Anonymous wrote:

@ Eric

BamMm!
Mate you made my morning.
Top Kek! Awesome thoughts.
That hurt like an A-10 Gun run.

Thank you, guys.
Follow my advice, Odin, be strong.
And don’t forget

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[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Ask for a 16 yo virgin

That alone should make it an impossible task.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

What’s cost of raising a kid? $250k per kid in U.S. Not sure if that includes sitter

Just ask mommy for $250k per grand kid that she wants. Add $$$ to cover sitter/nanny.

Then sit back and watch her go into “self interest” mode and make excuses. Then respond “So you’re saying money is more important to you than Grandchildren?? I AM OFFENDED!!!!!!!!!”

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Odin wrote:

I’m currently dependent on them as I live with them, I should be able to afford my own place by now. It’s the breaking off the entire family part that seems hard to do.

You can’t talk about MGTOW to any of these people, it really is like talking to a brick wall.

No matter what, don’t marry and say NO. Give over9000 reasons if you must, but say No.

If it comes to this and your family won’t support you or want you to leave, do it, get your own apartment etc,. survive and thrive… but don’t marry at 23 for sure. Its 99.9% chance in slavery and destruction of your soul.

And when you are 30+ years old with cash and house you enjoy, and job you like, and life you love to have – be picky about women and play it safe, IF you will want to make a family still…. play it safe and enjoy your life.

Eric Lauder wrote:

Ask for a 16 yo virgin, attractive, an huge dowry, and a house.
If something lacks, then shame your parents, say them that they’re disrepecting you by not recognizing your worth: you’re a computer engineer, highly specialized.

I agree.

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[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Ask for a 16 yo virgin, attractive, an huge dowry, and a house.

Won’t work.

They’ll just take whatever girl they’re trying to push on him and lie that she’s a virgin etc. They have no ethics, morals, or standards when it comes to tricking, or forcing, a man to sign on the dotted line. And if @odin objects they’ll just double down with the shaming language: “How dare you impugn the NAWALT Unicorn Snowflake your parents have chosen to force upon you?”

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Tell them that you’re just going to burn a pile of money. That’s no different if you spent money on a wedding/marriage/inevitable divorce.

Move out. Do what makes you happy. Do not waste your life doing what other people think you should do.

Fuck this planet.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

F~~~ing hell I forgot what an ugly mother f~~~er Dee Snyder is.

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